I'm divorced now. When I was married, my wife strongly believe that using sex as a negotiating tool was bad.

Even when we were fighting, or arguing, or generally at odds, we had sex at least 3X per week.

The only time we didn't was during a one month period when we thought we were going to get a divorce. We decided on the divorce, then I let her stay there for a year to finish college, and the fucking resume apace. She moved out 2 weeks after graduation. I kept fucking her during and after the divorce, only stopping once I got my 4th new girlfriend, the one who was good enough that there was no point in bothering to bang my ex-wife... and knew me well enough to catch me if I did cheat, anyway...

Sexually, she came easily, got wet quickly, and was generally into it.

Was I making a mistake by fucking her even during times when we were mad at one another?