She's a friend. She was around when I broke up with my abusive ex (I was crying fucking hard and she stayed up past 5 am to help me get over it).

She has a boyfriend, but his SMV is easily much higher than hers (fit, tall, strong) and she says she doesn't let him touch her (but it's more likely he totally ignores her with regards to sex). She's squat, fat, and has a liver problem. (it's mean, but it's true)

Anyway I was making fun of her for her lack of control in public sex talk the other day and she told me 'I'm sexually frustrated, ModerateMusk'. This really hit home because she has been making weird innuendos on my feed lately ('omg ModerateMusk you like handcuffs').

I've been trying my hardest to ignore her comments (never rebuffed her openly) and frankly I don't see any other logical reason behind her thirsty verbalism. What are my options?

I want to know if 1) she is serious and 2) what my best course of action would be if she is /isn't. I'd rather not risk the trouble with her bf for sex with some fat sloot but isn't there any other way to channel unrequited affection?