Girl acts interested but flakes when I ask her out

travish_all · 2019-02-14T00:20:49+00:00

Go with your gut. It's easier than it sounds but it seems like moving on is the best option here.

Frya · 2019-02-14T02:46:49+00:00

" She rejected me in the past, then later confessed that she hated herself for rejecting me " - this sounds like she fucks with bad boys and she sees you as "nice guy" choice that she should make (because her mama and papa say so), but she won't feel it until she's older and ready to get things steady.

Your function in her "asset wallet" is giving her comfort, that if everything goes to shit (guys she fucks start to aim at younger girls than her), she has guys like you to fall back on to.

" BUT whenever I ask her out she just makes excuses, like suddenly she's unavailable and even if I tried rescheduling it on several different days she says she can't make it. " - She's chasing somebody else. You are not her priority.

" She even mentioned that she thinks I'm worth being in a relationship with. " - imagine her sucking other guys dick sloppy and then right away spitting in your face with all the sex slime. That's what it is. Ditch this bitch.

Also - change your style.

Ignore her. If she writes something to you, immediately write back something sexy. If she's not responsive to it and she starts small talk - ignore her without explanation. If she writes again, you go again sexy. If she catches the vibe, escalate it, turn her on. When you feel she's warmed up, meet her immediately, fuck her. Then ignore. Fuck every 2-3 weeks with minimum texting (only about sex) needed to spike her.

Ignore her + in her head she should know that if she texts you, it's going to be about sex. No small talk, no friendship talk, no bs. Only pink.

Be like 1 or 0. Either hot or not at all, because you have nothing to loose, you have already put a cross on her.

R_n_P · 2019-02-14T00:29:24+00:00

You coming on too strong every time she initiates contact. She knows you are going to ask her to be your girlfriend and it makes her uncomfortable because she isn't ready.... You as a man, don't worry about a relationship. Focus on hanging out and having fun. Let her come to you when she is ready.

2019-02-14T00:57:11+00:00

Move on. Sounds like she got jealous because you were with other women and she didn't have you there to worship her. I just think she likes the idea of you and having you around for emotional support. If she wanted to be with you, she would.

CamoWoobie10 · 2019-02-14T01:32:29+00:00

Bro, this is classic attention whore behavior. She doesnt care about you, she likes the attention and validation. She is just using you until a guy she actually likes comes along. Cut her off and move on.

Title	Girl acts interested but flakes when I ask her out
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Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	February 14, 2019 12:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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