Recently hooked up with a girl from tinder , it went great like most of my tinder hook ups. Girl comes over we do the deed they leave

This time it was different we talk for almost an hour before just connecting on so many topics.

Did the deed

Then pillow talked for another hour. Now As a guy who is pretty empoitionaly detached from hook up this kinda blew my mind I connected with some one so mentally and physically(we both got off ) specially not with a stranger.

Afterwards I decided to play it cool and not text her until the next day and see if she wanted to grab dinner have an actual date

But she started talking about how shes not ready for a relationship , its not a good time for her and she had some left over baggage.

This brings me to my question.

How can i suduce this girl into taking me seriously ? Should i just continue as fwb and see if i changes over time ? What are some subduction techniques to build interest?