So let me start off this post by saying thank you to this sub. I've been a lurker for years, and have just now grown a pair to start putting what I've read here and other places into action. Last night it led to me losing my virginity at 24, so thanks for all the posts over the years!

I matched with her on tinder a week or so ago, and we just kind of bullshit back and forth for a while, then she wanted to move to snapchat. That's where things kind of died off. She would leave me on read a lot, then I said screw it and stopped responding. She kept on and on until yesterday when she said "you know, I'm off tonight." The old me wouldn't have picked up on that, but I asked her to dinner. She said she didn't have the money for that, I told her that I asked her and I was paying. A little back and forth and she gives me her address and I tell her when I'll be there to pick her up. I showed up right on time, and she said she didn't expect me to actually show up so she wasn't ready.

We went to dinner, had some okay conversation, and by the time the check came she asked me what I wanted to do now. I said "you're at the top of my list of what I want to do right now." She laughed and we went to the bowling alley. It was closed so we went to a bar I'm a regular at with some pool tables, got a few drinks, and started playing pool. She lifts up my shirt and puts her phone in my back pocket, I tell her that she just wanted to touch my butt and that since she touched mine I get to touch hers, grabbed a big handful, and went back to the pool game like nothing had happened. Stuff like that went on for about an hour and she said that she was ready to go whenever I was. I made her wait until the drink we were on was finished before cashing out, and then we left. She grabs my hand walking down the street and we kiss again when I open the car door for her.

I pull into her building's parking lot and turn off the lights, she asks me if I had to go or could I come in and talk a while, so of course I went in to talk a while. We went to her bedroom, she turned on a movie on Netflix, and about 10 minutes in starts unbuttoning my shirt, then she bites the hell out of my nipple. I told her that I get to do the same to her since she did it to me. She said "you're so bad," pulls off her shirt, and the rest is history. She didn't let me go to sleep, so I've been up since 6:30 yesterday morning and won't get home from work until 10 tonight, but it's worth it to me. It's a big change from the virgin nice guy who would have put her on a pedestal, screwed things up royally, and been to afraid to do anything, but that guy is now gone and I owe a lot of it to this sub. Thanks again, gents.