(Preface: I’m a woman and I’m reading all of these ridiculous methods to make women like you. Some are ok but honestly all of these dumb productions and manipulations are a little much. You just need to accept that you need to make a move, and you will likely get rejected a lot before it works.)

One HUGE issue that men in real life don’t realize is that you don’t look for signals. I’ve felt cornered by guys I wasn’t attracted to and I purposely give short answers and look distracted but they keep trying. And trying.

You should try to make eye contact with her beforehand if you can. If you notice her looking back a lot then she’s probably into it.

Yes some women are shy and bad at giving signals. But stop pushing when there’s no interest there. If you’re shy I get looking for conversation openers. But you can pull all the lines you want and if she’s either taken or not interested, the decision is made.

And FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, if I say I have a boyfriend, don’t ask me how long or where he is. Who fucking cares. No means no.

Also gauge where you are. If I’m busy or stressed looking, I don’t want to get hit on. Keep in mind, women are hit on all the goddamn time. Be respectful and not pushy. Don’t take it personal, it’s not. If any woman rudely rejects you she’s not worth your time and you’ve dodged a bullet

TLDR: learn to watch for signals so you’re not wasting your time