so my biggest problem is that while I appear kind of noticeable (confidence in social situation, neck and face tattoo, stand out cloth, focus on my own things like chilling with the music and live in own world), therefore women kind of have a douchy impression of me. The fact however is that I’m actually an extroverted introvert and rarely ever approach people (but anyone talks to me and my confidence would skyrocket to being comfortable and leading the conversation). When i do get interested and pull up the confidence, women embraces that impression and deal with me like how they handle douche, since douche is likely confident (i do have depth and all that because introvert). Thing is how my mind works and how i look, that is both me (soul and mind). Do you guys have any tips to fix this condition ? i mostly do online shit too for obvious reason, but went to a club and had a great looking girl whispering to “spend the night with me” so i guess I’m not too unattractive.

tldr: guy stands out looks like douche but actually pretty deep and nice (but i am me, so the confidence and fuck-it-ness is still there, but not a douche, virgin single 21 yrs want to change things).