Fuck, it's been a while since i've been here because everyone i searched was just a one time thing.

When it comes to social skills and just closing, i am pretty darn good at it. I got a couple of HB9s and even more solid 8s, but now something happened that i thouught would come way later.

I met a girl who is actually awesome. She is super cute, beautiful, smart, has a great sense of humor AND she sings!

Even before i realized how i felt about her, i was trying to avoid Oneitis by having other girls as a sort of anchor to reality, but it didn't work.

I've made my mind, i want her, she is honestly the most amazing woman i've ever met and she is just so damn special! The issue is that by me seeing her as different from the rest, i am also thinking that i have to treat her differently and i am not sure if that's a good thing or not.

Most HB are fine with casual things so i don't feel bad by being ultra direct and super flirty, but with her i've noticed that she likes things to go slow, she is super religious (i'm an atheist so it could be a problem for her) and she doesn't like sexualizing things (too much)

I want to ask her out tomorrow but i am not sure on how to be super assertive anymore (i can't think that straight with her, i'm just enamoured) So i'm thinking if i should say: "Hey, we should go eat at X place, it's gonna be fun!" Or if i should be: "Hey, i heard of this great place, do you wanna go on x day?" I'm sorry if im acting like a newbie but this whole actually caring about someone has me dumbfounded.

How should i ask her out?