Anxiety while talking to a women? No problem bro you just need to have an abundance mentality then you won't give a fuck which will let stop your anxiety screwing things up for you! I doubt that has worked for many people at all. For those not in the know Jesus us out fishing and his boys cannot catch any fish so Jesus tells them to have some faith and throw the net over the other side of the boat, low and behold they catch lots of fish. Yes there are plenty of fish in the sea and yet in the bible Jesus is a miracle worker for knowing which side of the boat to throw the net to catch the fish. Which brings me to our first two simple truths: 1) there are in fact plenty of fish in the sea, and 2) knowing there are plenty of fish in the sea does not actually help you to catch any fish.

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Like these fishermen you are probably aware of the fact that there are plenty of women out there, yet your knowledge of this "abundance" is not bestowing unto you a magnetic attraction which women cannot, neigh will not resist. Which brings me to our third conclusion 3) there is probably more to the abundance mentality then simply knowing there is lots of women. Imagine for a second if after the men threw there net in the water and whilst going mad staring into the reflection of their sun-scorched salt covered skin they had just said "fuck it let's call it a day lads." They would have been out of the sun, more comfortable and not doing something that feels pointless because "they can try again tomorrow." However, think to yourself what if they gave up every day? That's right no fish and they probably wouldn't feel very keen on walking to the dock and hoisting the sails every day to fail. Thus conclusions numbers four and five: is 4) Giving up and trying again tomorrow will never result in you catching any fish today, and 5) When you give up today to try again tomorrow, you will feel less inclined to go out and try again tomorrow.

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Okay, that is great and all but what about catching the fish, how do I do that? Jesus tells the fishermen to throw the net over the other side of the boat, and you can bet the fishermen probably fought the urge to tell the son of god to go fuck himself in that moment. I mean really, throwing the net a couple metres to the left or right of where it was - common Jesus there are plenty of fish in the sea but they aren't here! They tried it and caught the fish. Now we have conclusions six through nine: 6) even when it feels like there are not many fish in the sea there is every chance they are all around you, 7) the changes you are told or think to make may seem insignificant and yet it may be the smallest thing that stands between you and success, and 9) if you are not willing to make even the smallest of changes then you cannot expect to see even the smallest of changes to the results you are seeing.

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What an abundance mentality is and where comes from: So the fisherman didn't give up and they made some small changes, they come home with lots of fish and the village hails them as masters of their trade. The next day they go out fishing bright and early determined to catch more fish. No fish in the first location, no worries, try the other side of the boat. Didn't work? Try another location. After a day of fishing and trying various things they eventually return with lots of fish. That is where an abundance mentality comes from. Then walking back to the village the fisherman happen upon two dejected men who look hungry, they ask what is wrong and the men reply that they are fishermen who unable to catch any fish decided to come back to shore early as it was pointless. On seeing all the fish the other group of fishermen caught the hungry men ask what the secret to success is. So the successful fishermen reply "Oh it's simple man, you just have to have an abundance mentality when you know there is a lot of this in the sea you won't be bothered by any one success or failure. Just believe there are a lot of fish in the sea." The hungry men write this off as bullshit because obviously they know there are fish out there, they saw them caught. Clearly there is some secret location the successful men go to, or some special secret they aren't sharing...

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Gentlemen telling yourself that there are plenty of chicks does not an abundance mentality make. Nor can you start with an abundance mentality - the abundance mentality is something you get after hard work and perseverance - you will NEVER read about having an abundance mentality and have it be the same as a true PUA's abundance, you have to earn it for yourself. As always boys I do offer online coaching via skype so PM me on reddit if you're interested. GOOD LUCK!