Set goes real well. We kiss. I get number. She doesnt respond to texts. What the fuuuuckkk?

JinTheUnleashed · 2019-03-09T00:12:27+00:00

I haven't read any of the comments so far but I'm going to just try to give a quick blunt insight from my impressions of your post and vibe from how you communicate.🔥💯

I think if you're managing to kiss women then attraction on the front end doesn't seem to be the problem.

I've had a situation where I kissed a girl within 15 min of approaching her on the street, and never heard from her again. 😤🤔

When this happens 99% of the time it's because of two things:

You didn't go deep enough on the backend on serious topics/sexuality.
She had a boyfriend situation. (This is not the reason if this keeps happening to you)

You say you spoke about common interests. But how deep did you go? Which out of the following did you get into:

1. Hobbies 2. Passions 3. Future Ambitions 4. Family 5. Childhood 6. Future Adventures/Projections 7. Introspective (Dreams/Deep questions) 8. Struggles/Tragedies 9. Sexuality

If you stayed on the 1st and 2nd level thats most likely why. As a guy trying to teach others I noticed a lot of guys here aren't weird at all, and understand not to appear like a white knight, and tease her a bit.

But you don't go in depth enough about serious shit to seperate yourself and make yourself unforgettable for the rest of the day.

You'll know you're doing it right when begin you hear comments like...

"Wait why am I even telling you this!"

She agrees when you say it feels like you've known her longer than you have

"I usually don't talk to guys like this, this early."

"I don't know why I feel comfortable with you"

I made a playlist on building a solid connection with girls to help ensure they see you again on our free channel, I think it can provide some insight and give you hands on advice:

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Giorgz · 2019-03-08T23:44:59+00:00

I've been through the same. My theory is that she wanted to do more than just kiss but you didn't pull the trigger, and/or she wanted to only do things as a one-night thing.

The other theory is that she's got some weird rule about that - one time I didn't kiss a girl and she become my girlfriend briefly, but told me that she had a rule where if a guy kissed her when they met, then she wouldn't text him because he's too impatient or some weird thing like that. So in some cases, you dodge a bullet and don't even know it.

PuroPincheGains · 2019-03-09T00:01:27+00:00

The theory is lack of comfort; the trust and rapport you built was not strong enough. I propose that kiss closing is definitely an easier step to reach than getting a first date. If a girl is attracted to you, having a good time, had a drink or two, then it's pretty easy to kiss. It's all in the energy and attraction of the moment. But once she gets a text from you at 3pm on a Tuesday, there's no energy and attraction isn't strong enough for her to take a chance and go out with you. She'd have been more likely to text you back if you hadn't kissed, but instead flirted more. You'd be more intriguing, and less of just a fun occurrence. So my advice is, take it slower. Do exactly what you're doing, but try to extend the interaction a little bit. Talk more, build more rapport, find a deeper connection. Think about the interaction like it's the first date already. Now when you text her at 3pm, you're the guy she's getting to know rather than just the guy she had a fun night with.

UnleashDaJuice · 2019-03-09T00:59:44+00:00

I wrote a post about this very topic, I think it can help you bro.

If anything PM me so I can further help. Its something we all go through once we start getting some success approaching. But yeah dont worry, everything can be worked on 👊

Brandonva804 · 2019-03-08T22:21:07+00:00

Numbers game man. Happens to me all the time. Keep dates real cheap with coffee and nothing more. Expect to never hear from a girl ever again after closing perfectly.

Stop trying to kiss girls as well. In 2019 It’s not recommended anymore. We take these girls back to our place for all of that.

I could put money on the kiss being a reason you got ghosted.

Title	Set goes real well. We kiss. I get number. She doesnt respond to texts. What the fuuuuckkk?
Author	zach84
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	March 8, 2019 10:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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