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Don't Use Online As A Source Of Validation

darksidessj25

March 25, 2019

19 upvotes

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I tried to flirt with this girl today but she wouldn't even make eye-contact with me. This is when you are getting rejected. I loved it. It felt good to finally get rejected. Now I no when someone is being friendly vs. flirty. Friendly is very little eye-contact and smiling. Flirty is strong eye-contact and smiling while engaged in a conversation. When they don't like you They'll give blunt answers like OK and look away. I had the hottest girls flirt with me in the past few days. I mostly get 8s which are hard to talk to. I'm getting better at it. I use to think I was a piece of shit due to the matches I got on Tinder and OKCupid. I was so wrong. Don't use an online source to scale how attractive you are. Online should only be used as a bonus. You yourself no your own value. Don't let any other source lower it. Everyone is of equal value.

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Title	Don't Use Online As A Source Of Validation
Author	darksidessj25
Upvotes	19
Comments	7
Date	March 25, 2019 3:04 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b55d8o/dont_use_online_as_a_source_of_validation/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/dont-use-online-as-a-source-of-validation.1464988 https://theredarchive.com/post/1464988

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[–]machiavelli949 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]darksidessj25 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is. I get 8s to dude. I might get lucky an have a 9 glance but I very rarely run into them types of girls. I had a very pretty Mexican girl submit right in front of my face before. She was like maybe an inch or two away. All I did was hold her eye-contact the entire time upon the approach. If you can keep that eye-contact held the entire time while you talk. Your already better than half the men she's ever talked to. I do it just to practice sometimes and I hardly get rejected anymore. It's all in your vibe. I'm about a 7 on my looks but when I dress up my girl "friend" said I'm about a 9. Standing up straight and having good posture also plays a huge difference in who you attract. I'm about to by a back brace so my posture get's better. I'm already doing it but I want to try and fix it when I sit down to.

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[–]darksidessj25 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I look weird in photos to. That's why online dating doesn't work for me lol. I'm pretty masculine which plays a huge part on attractive a feminine girl. You can't really show that off in photos. It's doesn't mean having big muscles either. It's all about how you stand and how good/relaxed you are during eye-contact. This is big. I don't even flinch anymore when I flirt. This is how they tell if you already had someone of her caliber. Fake it tell you make it. That's what I did in the beginning and then I got really really good at it to the point where I can do it with pretty much anyone. I had a girl today I'm say I'm hella confident. It's all in the eyes. That turns em on. This one dude buys her fucking coffee everyday why she's over here rubbing up on me. Don't be one of those bitches that by girls shit. It doesn't work and it's a turn off. Eye-contact goes really far. I had this other chick ask for my contact info and she was fucking married. We we're flirting and role playing and it was kind of fun. She wanted to go somewhere with me lol.

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[–]darksidessj25 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right. If it's long distance eye-contact. I'll hold it for a short period of time. Up close I'm holding it the entire time tell she looks away. I get better results doing this much better. This is how 8s and 9s want you to react. They don't want you to look away and act all scared. They even will give you a chance to establish eye-contact just to see how confident you are. I had this done by this girl who worked at Macy's. She was a very pretty Latina girl who worked at the register. I started talking to her about her Tat. She was one of those types of girls that wore a one piece. Very sexy and slim. I thought maybe just maybe she'd give me a chance If my body language and vocal tonality was right. I went in there and just owned it. After that she looked right in my eyes and preened her hair. That was my first experience with Game. I was like this fucking shit works. After that I got better and better.

[–]DarkArtsPUA113 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link