I just text a girl reminding her of a date. I know she's busy but If she doesn't reply I'm friend zoning her and moving on. I'll even state it in the message. I get so much validation daily that I just stopped freaking carrying about one girl. Yes, I want it to happen between us and I did feel a connection and I know she felt it too. It's just pointless to waste your time on someone that's not putting forth the effort into making things happen. This is why I take risks with women now. There is always another girl. The more you come from this frame the more success your gonna get.