Sort of inspired by the ‘why aren’t we having sex’ post - has anyone been with a girl that just made sex too fucking difficult to bother with her?

itsamatterofattitude · 2019-03-29T20:07:45+00:00

There are a few things that stand out to me...

This girl was literally into me all evening, and then when we got back to mine she was pulling away, claiming ‘I just want to watch a movie’, whilst all over me, escalating.

This right here is where things took a turn. The moment she made this statement, I would have switched gears. "Cool! I really like this movie!" And left it at that.

If she continued to escalate, I'd stop her. "I thought we're just going to watch this movie?"

This would have let her know two things: 1) I don't need to fuck you. I want to fuck you, but I don't have to fuck you, and I'm not going to play games or jump through hoops just so I can fuck you.

And 2) You said "No sex" so NO SEX. Don't give me mixed signals. Don't switch gears. Dont tease me. Be real about what you want when you deal with me.

But instead... you pushed through and wound up having "meh" sex.

Why?

Because you made the sex the focus of the interaction, and the moment she sensed that, the very instant she felt like that was all it was... she tensed up. Her panties may have come down but her guard was up. She couldn't be free or open because she knew in that instance that she couldn't trust you.

It was a shit test... and you failed.

Had you pulled back and managed to maintain the intimacy (maybe a slow sensual make out session), that 4'11" waif would have fucked your brains out the next time you hung out.

Title	Sort of inspired by the ‘why aren’t we having sex’ post - has anyone been with a girl that just made sex too fucking difficult to bother with her?
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Date	March 29, 2019 6:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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