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| 6 | What one thing improved your success the most ?Not specifically, although that is part of it. Understanding the biological nature of attraction is the key. If a wmn finds you physically attractive, likes the way you smell, and enjoys hearing you speak, she'll be naturally drawn to you. After that, just position yourself in a manner that expresses how full, entertaining, and inviting your life is, how positive and sexually charged your energy is, and how laid back you are about it all. This makes a woman WANT to be around you, spend time with… | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What is masculinity?Masculinity and Feminity are ever changing social constructs, neither of which have any tangible evidence or attributes. Neither is defined by what you do, rather the ENERGY in which you do them. A woman can crawl underneath a car and change an alternator and still be feminine based on the energy she exudes, just like a man can put on a apron and bake a cake and still be masculine. So when women talk about a "Masculine" man, she's talking about his energy, his tone, his security in his manhood d… | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 04:24 PM |
| 3 | What one thing improved your success the most ?A simple shift in mindset from trying to get wmn to go out with and sleep with me, to focusing on making a wmn WANT to go out with and sleep with me. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 04:20 PM |
| 22 | Your most useful seduction tip?Make them want to. The definition of seduction is getting someone to do what you want and making them feel like it's their idea. So I want her contact info... so I'll make her want to give it to me. I want to go out and get to know her... so I'll make her want to spend time with me. I want to kiss her... so I'll make her want to kiss me. I want to have sex with her... so I'll make her want to have sex with me. Seduction is about leading someone somewhere they want to go. It's not about how many … | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:48 PM |
| 518 | She is at your place, how to you make her hornyInstead of trying to make her horny, focus on making sure she's comfortable. Get her something to drink. Ask if she's eaten. Play some music. Have a conversation. A womans arousal is based more on internal factors than external. If she's not comfortable, she won't be horny, and even if she is, she won't do anything because she doesn't feel safe. And the effort you put into making sure she's comfortable will probably turn her on more than any cookie cutter advice you might find here. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against youA woman desires a man with many options who can make her feel like she is his only choice. Read that again. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 01:52 AM |
| -1 | The best cold approach game system/ course/ site for getting laid.The secret to getting laid is simple: Don't try to get a girl to have sex with you. Instead, make her WANT to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 29 | What sexting/seductive messages do you use ?If anything she sends can be taken sexually subjective, I usually respond with "Slow down. Buy me a drink first. I'm not that type of girl.". Edit. I'm a guy. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 11:04 PM |
| -1 | is there a book for understanding different type of women ?You're looking at it the wrong way. Don't try to understand different types of women. Understand what type of woman you want to be with, and learn to recognize those traits and actively pursue them. It's like going to the grocery store hungry. Everything looks good and you end up with a bunch of crap: chips, cookies, fast fixes. You go home and tear through most of it because none of it is filling, and next thing you know, you're back at the grocery store looking for another quick fix. But if yo… | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | I will never ever understand the logic behind thisWhy would I be bothered that she cannot give me kids when we're just flirting heavily? And how can she bale out, after flirting heavily, only because I say I'm not looking for long term? Especially a sex positive woman who doesn't know what she's looking for. Because you basically said "All I want to do is hook-up." Not literally, but that's what she took away from the exchange. Here's what she interpreted your msg to say: "One day, when I meet someone I REALLY want to be with, I may want to sta… | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 03:30 AM |
| 5 | I will never ever understand the logic behind thisA few things you could have done differently: 1) She complemented your voice, and you proceeded to resume the text chain? That's like a woman saying "You have an amazing cock.", saying "Thanks", and zipping back up. You should have called her and told her you were there to help with her self-control. 2) She was being mature and upfront, but you interpreted her profile to mean something different. She was saying "You need to know that if this goes anywhere, I cannot give you children. Not I don't… | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 12:20 AM |
| 0 | How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce?This is a poor mindset and speaks to a lack of self value. It works when the woman desires you and it makes her desire you more. You're probably thinking "women have so many options that a man friend zoning her would backfire since she can easily move on to the next guy"... First, not every woman has as many options as you think. Second, those "options" are still waiting in line while you've already had her face to face and one on one. Like I said, I slide this in towards the end of the first da… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce?I'm one of the few men who strongly advocate for friend zoning women, so I think I can answer your question honestly and with a great deal of experience behind me. Friend zoning a woman who is clearly into you is the single greatest way to make her throw herself at you. Women are not built and have very little experience with handling rejection. It flies in the face of everything she believes to be true about herself. She NEEDS to believe all men want and desire her, especially the man she's wan… | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 03:00 PM |
| 68 | Seasonality in seductionI call it "The Off Season". IME, from the first week after Holloween to the week after Valentines Day is when people are hyper focused on family and commitment. They want a family to be around for Thanskgiving, they want a gift for X-mas, the want a kiss for New Years, and they want a date for V-Day. While this can also be seen an ideal time to get out there and make connections, what I've found is that people tend to seek more commitment focused engagements. Most people don't want to go to dinn… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Do things work for 40 year olds?I operate more in the taboo realm. I've been in the swinger lifestyle for awhile and I'm in a poly relationship. We use apps like Feeld, Fetlife, and AFF. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 12:38 AM |
| 158 | Do things work for 40 year olds?As a 46yo male, in my honest opinion, it's actually easier at this age, once you know what you're looking for and where to find it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 12:00 AM |
| 13 | Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand1) This is not true for all women. I've met MANY women who are fine with a ONS. Not every woman has an emotional connotation to sex and are very capable with enjoying one night of meaningless fun. 2) Use this to your advantage. Personally, while I've had more ONS than I can count, Im not really a huge fan. Id much rather have sex more than once with a woman, even if its simply a FWB situation. This is the main reason I emphasis putting sex on the back burner instead of trying to force a ONS. I'm… | /r/seduction | 28/08/23 05:08 PM |
| 9 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?What it takes to get em is what it takes to keep em. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?This is a date? Damn... shower it is then! | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?I'm going to offer a different point of view I haven't quite seen addressed yet on this thread... When a man approaches a woman and says "I just want a sexual relationship", in his mind, he believes he'll be able to create this type of relationship with multiple women and have a variety of options to play with. If he's said this to 10 women, maybe 2 of them agreed to it. Of those two, you're the one who didn't ghost him after the first time sleeping together. Now he sees that his options are lim… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:07 PM |
| 10 | High body count and pair bonding?I'm having a hard time with this. I don't think it's fair to say "Oh... you enjoy having sex and you have had multiple partners, so there must be something wrong with you mentally or emotionally." To do so suggests there's an inherent value on sex, and that if someone doesn't place the same value on it as you do, they must be damaged or broken. Some people enjoy sex and have the opportunity to enjoy it with more than one person. Are you really suggesting that they should only be willing to have … | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 75 | High body count and pair bonding?The two main issues with a discussion like this are whether or not monogamy is a biological drive or a social construct, as well as the inherent value of sex in any given dynamic. If you believe human beings are hard wired to want to seek out and find one person to love and live with, then you place more emphasis on the sexual connection and are willing to accept that ones lack of desire for said relationship/commitment is directly proportional to their sexual experience. If you believe that hum… | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive?There really should be something pinned to the sidebar about confidence... Confidence comes from experience. Its being in a situation and knowing "I've been here before.", and being able to use that experience to make a wise decision. You will approach women. You will get rejected. You will approach other women and you will start to see patterns and you will learn what to say and do based on those patterns. And you will succeed because you've been here before and you know ABC didn't work, but so… | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 08:12 PM |
| 7 | What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive?Then the rest remains true. What it all comes down to is recognizing your best (physical) features and marketing them effectively. It's hard to give any concrete or constructive feedback without it being generic without knowing what you look like. If you really want some solid suggestions, PM me a photo and I'll try to give you some tips. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 89 | What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive?Obviously being in shape helps, but that takes months of work. The quality of the women you attract is directly proportional to the amount of effort you put in. If you're not willing to spend "months of work" on improving yourself and for yourself, you'll probably never get women to notice or be that attracted to you. And really, what's a few months? The time will pass anyway. Why not spend it bettering yourself? 90days of healthy eating and working out for an hour 5x a week will literally chang… | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 06:06 PM |
| 6 | What works well for nighttime dates Other than bars?Are you close to a beach? | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?Completely valid. Like I said, I get wanting to be with someone who shares your interests and hobbies. But instead of seeking someone who's already into all that, maybe find someone who's willing to learn it... My wife was a noob when we met. Now, she's a hardcore comic nerd. She found an appreciation for the things I was passionate about and learned to love and embrace them all on her own. Remember, you're inviting her to be part of your world... Doesn't mean she already has to own real estate … | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?So take this with a grain of salt... I think your confusing your activity with your identity. It's like someone making a dating profile about being a gamer and wanting a gamer gal. Sure, there are those who share your love for that activity, and it would be amazing to find someone who shares that passion, but honestly, isn't there more to who you are than just the guy who likes to be outside? Additionally, keep in mind that one of the best parts of building a relationship is finding someone and … | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 17 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?One of two things: A) Re-evaluate they way you're marketing yourself and make the necessary adjustments Or B) Accept that X-type may never be attracted to you. Some women are very particular about the type of men they want and are attracted to. In fact, I recently had a conversation with a Caucasian woman who said she only dates black men. So, unless your black, there's absolutely nothing you could do to make the woman attracted to you. For some women it's looks. For others it's race. It might b… | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 02:31 PM |
| 56 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?Because you're their type and they are brave enough to say so. You want to be able to attract X-type of women, but if you're only getting attention from Y-type if women, you need to take a step back and figure out how you're marketing yourself that's only appealing to Y-types, and understand what X-type is looking for. Then you need to be honest with yourself about if you fit that mold and if not, decide of you're willing to change. This is like a woman saying "All I attract are assholes." The q… | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 01:49 PM |
| 5 | How to be seductive?Step 1: Change your mindset. You will never be able to make any and every man desire you. Get that silly shit out of your head now. This is a very toxic and narcissistic way of thinking and will only lead to ruin. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 01:32 PM |
| 32 | Has anyone actually achieved this mentality with women?You're conflicting sexual desires with social interactions and trying to find a way to reconcile the two. Ask yourself this question: What's the worst that will happen if I don't get to bang this woman I'm talking to? Listen, I get it; you meet an attractive woman, start chatting, flirting... You check out her breast and imagine what her nipples look like, what her skin feels like, how she kisses, etc. ect... And your mind starts creating all these scenarios and you start to really desire her...… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 08:37 PM |
| 9 | In your experience what are the key Do's and Don'tsDon't over invest. You say you may want a relationship with this woman; that's putting the cart ahead of the horse. What you want is the opportunity to spend more time with her and outside the workplace. Maybe it will lead to a relationship, maybe it won't, but just focus on the next step in front of you and not the finish line. Don't over analyze or criticize you're every interaction. It's not chess. Every move doesn't have to be perfect and fall in line with your "strategy". Women are fickle c… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?Act like a man. Think like a woman. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 22 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?As unlikely as it sounds, there are many women out there who enjoy casual sex as much as men. Not every woman wants or needs to be emotionally invested to get sexual. Sometimes a woman meets a man and he turns her own and secci tymes ensue. While not a coach, I can attest from experience that reaching triple digits isn't that huge of a milestone. It just comes down to your skills in escalating and building attraction, not to mention you're social circles and dating pools. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to learn simple flirting?Read THIS. Let me know if it helps. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 10 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Everything a woman does to be attractive and alluring is a lie. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:24 PM |
| 17 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timeRelax. It's a person. Not a unicorn. Not a vampire. Not muder-bot. Just treat her like a person. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Can someone help me make a better dating profileI'll try to help if I can. PM me. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 9 | girls want to be desired, not neededWomen need to feel loved. Men need to feel respected. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Funny/cocky responses to “any fun plans this weekend”?"Well, there's this very attractive young lady I've been chatting with. I'm considering asking her if she'd like to join me for (something fun). If she's not available, would you like to go?" | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a relationship and casual dating?The difference between casual dating and a relationship is a conversation. Some people assume they are in a relationship because they went out X amount of times and hooked up X amount of times. This is usually a false assumption. Unless you actually talk about being in a relationship, what that means to each of you, what your expectations are, what your boundaries are, then you're still casually dating. As for what those women actually want: We all know that most dating apps are meat markets and… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 12 | Is the PUA community basically dead?> But guys don't want to hear that, they want their advice dressed up to look pretty, they don't want to hear that it will be years of hard consistent effort to correct their problems. That they will have 100 failures for every success. This is the single biggest problem with both this sub, and the mentality of men who want to be successful with women. IT TAKES TIME! IT TAKES EFFORT! IT TAKES PRACTICE! It's a skill and there are very few savants. And most of the people on this sub will never und… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 25 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Nail on the head! And that's where the art lies. That's where the social skill is. And sooooooo many on this sub just don't understand it, don't want to learn it, look for short-cuts, or just suck at it, blaming social anxiety or the spectrum or using apps as a crutch. They focus so much on "hooking up", believing that to be the gold standard or measuring stick for success. It makes me sad and frustrated. I wish so badly I could just get these gentlemen to understand how simple and easy it is to… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 20 | Is the PUA community basically dead?You're not wrong. The problem as I see it is that PUA is a part of social skills, and the digital age of online dating makes learning and improving that skill less of a necessity. Before, you had to learn how to actually "talk" to people; how to read their body language and social ques. Now, it's just texting until the opportunity to hook-up presents itself. The art of it all is what's dying, IMO. And unfortunately, that's the main reason so many are struggling with mastering PUA. You swipe righ… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 90 | Is the PUA community basically dead?It wouldn't say it's dead, but it's definitely on life support. The biggest difference is the advent of online dating and apps. Before, PUA was about going out and making approaches. Now, it's focused has shifted to creating a profile that'll generate the most matches/likes, text game, and how to escalate as fast as possible. It's less about the psychology and art of PUA, and more about cheap tricks and click bait tactics. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)> You say we should wait instead of trying to escalate for sex on the first date. How do you get rid of time wasters then? There are two answers to this question: First off, one of my hard rules is I never ask a woman out. I invite her to join me for something I have planned. I have made the decision to go out and do XYZ and Im inviting her to tag along. It's not about her. Its about me doing something I enjoy and offering her the opportunity to be a part of it. So dealing with "time wasters" is… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)I'll give you an anology... Let's say sex was food. A woman can go anywhere to get food. Hell, there are burger and hotdogs stands sending her messages every day asking if she'd like something to eat. My question for you is this: Is what you offer sexually a hotdogs stand, or a Michelin Star restaurant? Are you Pedro cooking tacos on the corner or fucking Gordan Ramsey? Yes... she can get food anywhere. But will it be good? Will it he delicious? Will it be the most amazing thing she's ever taste… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Listen, I'm not arguing about the misconstrued level of supply and demand when it comes to sex; Yes, men seek it more and are willing to go to extraordinary lengths to achieve it. But when it comes to the actual act, when it comes to mutual satisfaction and gratification, and man that knows how to please a woman is far more valuable. Ask ANY hetero woman if she's had an orgasm with EVERY man she's ever had sex with. If she's been with more than five men in her life, I can guarantee the answer wi… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Sex is not a mutual exchange Sigh... I feel so very sorry for you if you truly believe this. Then again... I kind of agree. It's not mutual. My (as a male) is vastly more valuable. Every woman can make a man climax. Not every man can make a woman climax. Knowing I can and will make her climax, that adds value to the sex I provide. This change in mindset will greatly improve your success and interactions. Stop thinking she's giving. She's not. She's receiving the pleasure you have to offer. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Not gatekeeping... just offering a different POV. Listen, I have been where some of you are. I have walked that mile and experienced that journey. And please believe me when I tell you: Not giving a fuck if we fuck will lead to you fucking way more than trying to fuck. What some men do is meeting a woman, exchange info, msg, make plans, meet up, and try to escalate to sex. They do it on the first date. They try again on the second date. They go hard on the third date. And if they don't get the s… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:26 PM |
| -3 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)It's so sad that you think this way. Obviously, there needs to be attraction... but there should also be some chemistry, some sexual tension, and some intimate knowledge. The more of these there are, the greater the attraction. You can build these. You can increase the value of each of these, and in doing so, increase her attraction to you and yes, her sexual desire for you as well. You either aren't good at increasing those or you have a mindset that these things need to happen within a certain… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Women want and expect you to push for sex. This... this right here... this is the problem. Stop pushing for sex. PULL FOR SEX! Think of it as a glass door that swings both ways. She's on one side, you're on the other. Whoever can cross the threshold gets sex. Stop trying to force your way through the door. Pull it open and show her all the reasons she should come inside. That's what seduction is. Its an open door and a promise of pleasure and desire. It's a step into another world. It's not forc… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Bro... I want you to know I understand you. I get what you're saying... And while I don't completely disagree with you, here's what I don't think you're getting. This is r/SEDUCTION... but you're not trying to seduce her. The definition of seduction is getting someone to do what you desire by making them believe it was there idea. What you're doing (based on your post) is meeting a girl, msg a bit, meeting up and hanging out, then offering sex. It may be on the first date. It may be the second o… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:06 AM |
| 3 | The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't)Granted. While I do operate on a different level and have more experience then most on this sub, I feel like the genuine principle is concrete regardless of your level of game or experience. Noobs go out with a woman and everything they do is in an attempt to get laid. Even me. When I was in my early twenties, it was all I tried to do. And that was the problem. I was TRYING to get girls to have sex with me. That was the goal. If it led to something more, cool. If not, oh well, had sex. But the d… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:43 AM |
| 5 | What is your mindset when going out at night?Always 1, and here's why: If you go out with the intention of talking to and meet someone, then the quality of your night is going to be determined by your success in that arena. If you go out with the intention of having a good time with you buds and you just so happen to talk to and meet someone, all the better. Even if you don't you still had a good time with your buds. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | 35 y/o woman said she never experienced an orgasm …Did you investigate further? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...You have much to learn young Padiwan. I never said just take a girl on dates and don't have sex with her. What I'm saying is don't EXPECT to have sex with a girl just because you took her on a date. I can (and have) gone out with a woman just because I wanted some company, and didn't care one way or the other about the sex. I have also had sex with a woman without so much as buying her a cup of coffee. It sounds like you're entwining the two, and that's going to be a problem for you long term. A… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Dear God.... please tell me you're joking... | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Yeah... that still doesn't track... If I invite a woman out, I'm taking responsibility for the outing. I'm saying "Come with me. It'll be fun. I got this." If she invites me out, I expect the same. Pretty simple and straight forward. When it comes to adding sex to the equation, it's never Quid Pro Quo, and people need to stop thinking like that. I never invite a woman to spend time with me, with the knowledge that I'll be spending money, and expect sex in return. That's some patriarchal bullshit… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Not even remotely the same thing. First off... the person who initiates the date pays. Period. Second, how is letting someone inside you the same as paying for food? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Desperate is also nixxing a girl because she wont have sex with you WHEN you want her to because you feel entitled to it. Honestly, bro, the problem is you want sex and that's all you want. And she can tell. But she wants to give you the benefit of the doubt and wants to take her time, but you keep proving them right because if they dont want sex WHEN you do, then you go look for someone who does. Really think about that for a moment. You meet a girl, exchange contact info, send a few messages, … | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Thats the very definition of desperate, my friend. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Bro... you're looking at this through your dicks one eye. Your like a Karen at a restaurant wondering when your food will be ready since the other table has there's already. Stop comparing yourself to other guys. You're not them. Your situation isn't the same. You're circumstances are not identical. What you should be doing is spending all that time she wants to you to wait making her WANT to have sex with you. You're failing to understand that women and men don't desire sex the same way. You sa… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:49 PM |
| 9 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...This is such a poor and low value mindset, it's sad. Have you ever stopped to consider that YOU should be the one to make HER wait? Consider this: Let's say a woman has had sex with 10 guys. Of those 10, four of them were horrible. Three of them were decent, but ghosted her after they got some. Two of them turned into LTR's And one of them... damn... he was fucking amazing. If you KNEW you'd be the 1 out of ten; the one she thinks about when she touches herself... would you be giving out dick li… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | To those who was intimate with a coworker how did it turn out?I've hooked up with 1 or more people at nearly every job I've ever had. Sometimes it was a one time thing. Sometimes it would be a ongoing thing. Once or twice it lead to a LTR. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Should guy text first after sex?If you want the relationship to be about more than just sex, yes. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | PARADOXES OF SEDUCTION SUBREDDITI wouldn't call them paradoxes; different people have different results because of different factors. Attractive men struggle because they lack personality or anything of value besides the physical. Smart/funny/witty men struggle because they can't escalate. Tall men struggle because they may lack confidence or self esteem in other areas. It really all comes down to understanding your value as a person, knowing what you have to offer in a relationship, and knowing what type of women you are goin… | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 5 | what are some of your best push-pull methods?Ok... so follow that possibility... Me: Go sit over there. Otherwise I won't be able to keep my hands off of you. Her: No... I want you to touch me. Me: But once I start, I'm not sure I'll be able to stop. Her: That's OK. (CONSENT GRANTED). or Me: "I'm going to go sit over there. I'm touching you too much." Her: "No... don't go." Me: "Don't worry. If you behave, I might come back." Her: "Promise?" | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | what are some of your best push-pull methods?Never had that problem. Usually women both respect and are intrigued by being distanced. IME, it increases the sexual tension. There's nothing that makes you want to touch someone more than being told you cant. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:06 PM |
| 7 | what are some of your best push-pull methods?Probably the one I use the most (and have the highest level of success with): After I've done anything intimate with a woman (sensual hug, kiss, etc.), I'll tell her "Go sit over there." or "Stay here. I'm going over there. That's the only way I'll be able to keep my hands off you." Then I wait. I wait until she either comes to me or I notice she starts to figit or get antsy. Then I tell her to come closer. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Help with escalating communication while datingAlright, I'm going to give you some practical advice: Goto Google or Pinterest and search "100 Questions to really get to know someone" Read them. ANSWER THEM! This will help you understand your own journey, as well as give you a list of questions/topics when communicating with someone. As far as escalating, look for opportunities to insert physical touch. Not every touch has to be intimate or sensual. Start with a high five (no one ever declines a high five). Shake on a bet. Pinky swear. Create… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough.Social skills are just that... a skill. Something you practice. Something you get better at as time goes by. Some are better at it than others. Some are on the spectrum and have anxiety about interacting with other people, and it makes it even harder still. But it is a skill. And it needs to be practiced. "Game" as you describe it, doesnt say that you're not good enough, but it does highlight the simple fact: Whatever you're doing isn't working. Maybe it's how you look. Maybe it's how you dress.… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ok... grain of salt advice incoming: You have what I would describe as an "unremarkable face"; you're not unattractive, but there's nothing that really stands out as attractive either. Some of the things that did catch my attention - You have a very prominent brow and an unfortunate hairline. I'd suggest letting your hair grow out a bit more (on top) and styling it with gel to give it a naturally curly look. This will conceal your brow better and make your eyes the focal point of your face. As f… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.A picture of which man? | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Have you ever struggled with women before I’m not talking about a dry couple month I mean struggling with women and you don’t know why. Yes. I was soooooo bad at talking to or even interacting with women when I was younger. I was the guy that wrote love letters, sent flowers and signed them "You're secret admirer"... and then would friendzone MYSELF to the girl and help her figure out who she thinks sent them! I was horrible at game. Here are the three things that happened that completely change… | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Here's the thing many men have a hard time accepting: Looks matter. Anyone who tells you otherwise is feeding you bullshit. But how you look is 100% within your control. Think of that scene from "40yo Virgin", where Steve Carells character approaches Romany Malcos character and asks if he thinks he's attractive. It basically talks about how there's an attractive man in there, but he has to be "brought out". My physical attributes 100% play a role in my success with women, but honestly, do you th… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.True. We also share our test results and ask for the same with the couples we engage with. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.We don't have unprotected play with others. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Ok... since I'm the original author of this post, please allow me to answer: My wife and I have been together for a decade. We began swinging about 5yrs ago. My first bit of advice is focus your dating options on the swing/poly groups and sites out there. There are indeed women who 100% do not mind dating a married man, so long as there is complete transparency. Which brings me to the second piece of advice: Be transparent. Be transparent with your SO. Be transparent with your potential dates. A… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 18 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Honestly though, OP could have at least tried to paraphrase, instead of a straight up copy and paste. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to a total beginner?Focus on you first. Dont try to market a product you dont love. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | By Request: Audio Clip - "Controlling your voice and tone"Fun fact: If you get caught having sex in a public park, its a sex crime and you have to register as a sex offender. Dont ask me how I know... | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How often do you give physical compliments?I usually compliment something she's wearing or maybe even her make-up; something non-personal or cliche. "Wow. Those shoes are stunning!" "Thats a really cool t-shirt." "Your eye make-up is fire!" If a woman has beautiful eyes, nice breasts, a great ass, or long legs... she knows. And shes been told a hundred time before. Compliment the thing that stands out and catches her off guard. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Is there any genuine “rich guy” game out there?First things first: Stop thinking of how you can use your money to get laid. This is a very toxic mindset and will most likely lead to a sense of entitlemen; I spent X-amount on you, so now you owe me sexual favors. You want to avoid this way of thinking at all cost. Now, here's the reality of your situation; having money just means you have more options as to where you can go and what you can do. Use it to build an amazing lifestyle and find women to invite along for the ride. You dont have to … | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | how do men meet women and have sex all the time?That's all I ever do now. I don't ask a woman to have sex with me. I don't even try to have sex with them. But I'm constantly trying to turn her/them on and look for any any every opportunity to toss out a sexual innuendo, a flirtatious comment or glance, even peacock on occasion. And yes... women want sex. Women actually enjoy sex more then men. They just don't want to feel like thats all shes worth or good for. Make her desire the sex, and then fulfill the desire. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | how do men meet women and have sex all the time?Stop trying to have sex with them and focus on making them WANT to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | I can't seem to close the deal these daysSeems like you're focusing on trying to get them to spend time with you instead of making them WANT to spend time with you. Based on your post, I imagine your interactions go something like this: Approach, Escalete, #-close, text-game, invitation, flake or fail... or she comes over and there's no sexual tension/ intimacy. You're trying to bake a cake in a cold stove. Focus on her, find out who she is, what her interests are, and what her buttons are. Then, instead of trying to get her to come ov… | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Build ConfidenceFlirting is a different skill set. Again, to use the basketball analogy, if communication is a freethrow, flirting is pump fake. Its saying or doing something one way that makes your "target" hear or see or believe something else. Search my post history for "How to Speak Groot"; that should explain the difference. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 14 | Build ConfidenceConfidence comes from experience. Think of it like shooting a free throw; if you've never touched a basketball before and I ask you to shooy a freethrow, you're going to be nervous. And you're probably going to miss. But if you've stood at that line and practiced a thousand times, and I ask you to take a shot, you're going to be vastly more confident. Sure, there's a chance you might miss, but the difference is in the level of experience you have. How this translates to talking to women is simpl… | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Where do I start?Read THIS. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I flirt with and get with a girl on my school ?If you know her, just start building a rapport. Sit near her and start a conversation. Ask her what shes studying. Ask her what her motivation is for that particular subject/field. If its a class similar to one of yours, ask if you can study together and compare notes. Rinse repeat. If it goes well, plan a fun outting for yourself and invite her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | regarding pick upThere are a dozen reasons why a woman will reject you, and 10 of them dont have shit to do with you. Let me be crystal clear: YOU WILL BE REJECTED AT SOME POINT. The trick is to realize that the close is never the goal. The goal is to approach. Don't focus on what she might say if you approach. Focus on what you are going to say when you approach. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Escalating stuffGo to the bathroom. When you leave, lean in for a kiss on the cheek. If she doesnt recoil, when you return, you can start being more physical. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Here's the thing about college, especially if its a small campus: Your friends circles will probably overlap. One thing I suggest you do is broaden your social circle even further, and change up the locals and destinations when you go out. Don't just go to the same bar every weekend and expect to see different people. Make new friends. Meet new women who live a little further away. Less chance of them knowing each other. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Should I settle?Well, firstly, if you dont feel a strong mental/emotional/psychological connection, then dont continue the relationship just because you don't want to be alone. Second, understand that settling and adjusting your standards are two different things. As with your marriage, you realized that not only is it extremely unlikely that you'll find someone that checks every single box on your "want" list, people change over time. Prioritize whats important to you "the chemistry and personality connection"… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I settle?Are the women you date age appropriate? | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I settle?Why do you feel like you're "settling"? What is it that you're looking for but can't find? | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.You're looking for something cookie cutter and that rarely works. What works on one one girl will lead to a crash and burn with the next. What you need to do is relax. Watch. Observe. Take in the information she gives with her vibe, body language and demeanor. If she's trying to be the center of attention, Yo-yo. If she's laid back in the cut, engage intimately. If she's all over the place, abort. | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Turn her on, but dont push for sex. While the method may vary from one woman to the next, the idea is simply to light a flame of passion and desire, and let it burn, without trying to force more out of it. For example, I would sometimes go out with a woman and take her home at the end of the night. We'd make out in the car or on her porch or whatever, and I'd kiss her deeply, massage her body, and try to turn her on as much as possible. And Id wait for her to escalate. "Do you want to come in?" … | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.1) Learn to listen to your body. Men dont have "surprise" orgasms. There's a build up, a threshold, and a point of no return. Learn to recognize and control those moments. When you're getting close, stop, pull-out, change positions, or go down on your partner. Just stop stimulating your body long enough to "reset". 2) Again, stamina isn't how long you can go without climax, it's how long you can maintain the pleasure despite climax. You can have intercourse for 20mins and climax. That doesn't me… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Best way to respond without sounding low valueSo, you had plans. She called three hours prior and said she had to work. Said she could do Monday instead at the same place and now all you need to agree on is the time? Dude, she didn't flake. She's trying to reschedule. Suggest a time and tell her "See you then." | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond without sounding low value"When and where did you want to meet? I won't be available until after (time)." | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I cannot close for my dear lifeDid you at least cuddle? | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Would you mind sharing your biggest regrets/struggles or one of the hardest situation you ever had to go trough during all those years ? My biggest regret would be not learning all of this sooner. How do you deal with the downs moments ? I embrace them. If Im being honest, there weren't a lot of times when I didnt have a woman in my life in one capacity or another. The times when I did, it was usually by choice and an opportunity to reconnect with me; go to the gym, save money, relax, decompress… | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.It worked for me because of the delivery. It's never what you say, but always how you say it. Like I said, an attractive woman knows why you came over and introduced yourself. It's not a mystery or a secret. So why waste time with canned openers or cheesy pick-up lines. I even recall her saying later that she really appreciated how I didn't say something cliche'. But the point of that was to illustrate how simply slowing down your pattern of speech and lowering the bass in your voice can impact … | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 13 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Ok, this might be a naive question -- but in this scenario where you have four or five women. Do they know about each other? In my early years, No. I lied and cheated and it was stupid and exhausting. I later learned that not every woman WANTS a committed relationship. Some women like the freedom of open dating. That said, here is one sentance that changed my life: "I really enjoy your company and spending time with you, and I definately want to continue to date you, but I'm not ready for a mono… | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 12 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.I is more fair to have one to one orgasm. If you are so much determined to please woman, much more than yourself, that implies insecurity. I disagree, and here's why: Pleasing a woman because you hope she will like you is insecurity. Pleasing a woman because you want her to know you can, because you're good at it, and because you actaully enjoy it is something else entirely. Using the "sex as food" analogy, a woman comes to you hungry. Now, you could give her an apple. She'll eat it and wont be … | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.If I tell a woman I'm going to X place to do Y, then regardless of her attemdance or involvement, I'm going to X place to do Y. My life doesn't revolve around her. I'm going to go do something I want to do and Im inviting her to join me. If she declines, Im still going. I may invite another woman, I may not, but I'm still going to do whatever it is. | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Thanks. That does seem like a great idea for a book. Im actually working on a book now about my journey through the lifestyle and the adult furniture business I started. I'll definately brainstorm your idea and see what comes of it. (There's a pun in there somewhere...) | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Cold approaches that actually evolve into somethingMost of my LTRs came from cold approaches. When I was around 21, I was walking through the mall and saw this tiny beautiful Filipina girl standing at a jewelry booth. I walked up and stood next to her, pointed at a large silver bracelet and said "If you're trying to figure out which one I want, I like that one." This lead to a 20min walk around the mall and an 8yr relationship. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Long Term Relationship | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.I don't, but feel free to ask me or send a PM | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:34 PM |
| 9 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.How did your date go? | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 10:41 PM |
| 12 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Please a woman and she'll want to please you in turn. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Physical Date Ideas- Bowling, Billiards, Indoor Rock Climbing, Jetski rentals, Kayaking, Hiking, Boxing class, Shooting range, mini golf, go kart racing, white water rafting, sailing, amusement park, improv class, salsa dancing lession, kendo class, motorcycle ride, horseback riding, atv rental, paintball, etc. Formal dates are typically a night out at a nice restaurants or maybe a live show. It can also include cocktails at an upscale bar/lounge. Just anywhere upscale attire is suggested. Intim… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.I've worked in the service industry most of my life. The majority of the women I've met have been customers/guest of whatever establishment I was working for. When I did go out, my focus was less on approach and more on just having a good time. I would typically gravitate to a woman/group that had similar energy and make a casual approach that would lead to a date. Ive also used apps like Tinder and Bumble. Now, since Im in a committed LTR, I only approach women when the fiancee and I are at a L… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:02 PM |
| 35 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.First, remember that not every womans body is the same. Some women are "1 and done" in the orgasm dept. Some women can cum over and over in a single session. Dont get so caught up in the process that you try to stuff a woman into a box her body's not built for. Second, while the clitoris can get sensitive, again, you're "listening" to her body. She will definately let you know if your using too much pressure or if she can't handle the sensations. Conversely, if you're going down on her and shes … | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Yes | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.My fiancee is 43. My age often works to my benefit. Im often told I look well for my age, and women meet a man who looks young but has maturity and experience, its a rare occurrence. I have a beautiful co-worker who's 19 and told me I could get it. My have to introduce her to my fiancee. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:50 AM |
| 13 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.How do I keep a woman interested for her to stick around and potentially become my girlfriend? Have an awesome life to show her. Also, how many dates does it usually takes for the thing to become a relationship ? It doesnt take dates, it takes a conversation. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:37 AM |
| 128 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Lay her back on the bed in missionary, push her legs back, and stroke her slow and deep for a good while, then quickly go down and suck her clit and lick her pussy until is sloppy wet, then go back to stroking, but this time a little faster and harder. Rinse... repeat.. My fiancee usually squirts by level three. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:36 AM |
| 15 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Brilliant! | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Do you think you would be able to be in a LTR without a swinger lifestyle? My gut reaction is "No." But if tomorrow my fiancee decided she didn't want to be in the lifestyle anymore, it wouldn't be the end of our relationship, so I guess the answer is "Yes". Do you want to have kids and be monogamous? We have kids. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 02:29 AM |
| 26 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.When you're meeting up with a woman the first time, how quickly do you escalate? This depends entirely on our interaction between the initial meeting and our first date. For example: if she's already sent me pics of her topless/naked before we've even meet for a date, then almost anything is fair game. I'd typically greet her with a sensual hug and a kiss on the lips and whisper something like "I've been thinking about doing that all week." If our convo has remained fairly PG, I'll still hug her… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.It was a example of maintaing pleasure. But for the record, Ive gone down on a woman for over an hour. Time flys when youre having fun. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Beautiful women are literally everywhere. Just get out the house and go someplace public. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 12:58 AM |
| 11 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.It's hard to clearly articulate via text, so Im going to write this in a way that may help you understand... What happens when you see an attractive women and feel an almost overwhelming desire to approach. You get excited. Your heart races and you get anxious and your palms sweat and you struggle to find the right thing to say because you dont want to look stupid and what if she says "no" and I hope no one is watching but DAMN! shes so sexy I mean look at those eyes and does she realize I can s… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 12:55 AM |
| 18 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.I could if you really want. I have a lot of female friends I coach and offer advice to. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 12:17 AM |
| 194 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.If sex was food, and you were a chef, how would you make me want to taste your cooking? By giving me small samples, but not the whole meal. By showing me how good it looks and how amazing it tastes, but never letting me have more than a small bite until I'm begging for something to eat! So, with women, this translates into giving her small "bites" that turn her on, and thats it. Every kiss doesnt have to lead to a makeout session. Every touch doesn't have to be a grope. Every sensual caress does… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:12 PM |
| 291 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Let me explain: She cums FIRST: Before intercourse, I want to make her cum. Fingers, tongue, toys... I want to make her cum once or twice (or thrice) before I even slide inside her. She cums DURING: I want her to cum during intercourse. Now, Im not going to get in my head about it or focus on it. Im going to play my stroke game and just let it happen. Im going to lay back and let her ride and hopefully she'll get there. And if all else fails, I'll do my little stroke and lick trick, and that wil… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Texting her after first date has been set.Y'all really need to stop letting modern technology fuck up your brain. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 08:04 PM |
| -1 | Texting her after first date has been set.Continue to communicate. The purpose of the date is to get to know each other. Why stop the process just because you have plans to do it in person. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?Pm me a face and body Pic. I'll try to help. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?The moment you believe you're not good-looking is the same moment the world will agree. And if you think you're not good-looking; change your looks. There are dozens of things men can do to make themselves more attractive. You just have to br willing to put in the effort. If not, then you're making a choice. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?As someone who has been in the "game" for over 20yrs, heres my two cents: There are two types of "game"; Back in the day, game was all about manipulation of women and the interaction with the singleminded goal of sex. Men learned things that would circumvent a womans psyche to make them "appear" more attractive, without actually having to be attractive. This was a problem as women who learned about what men were doing felt manipulated and used, and rightfully so. It was this reason that anyone w… | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Looking for PUA masters/teachers in LaRead my posts. If interested... PM me. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?Not much. Your chin is more prominent in one v the other, but beside that... same guy. But if thats really an issue, send her a selfie. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?When I click the link, there's an ad for Aarons Furniture and there's a picture of a mattress. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?There's an ad from Ashley home furnishings... | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?You look like a mattress in one of those photos... | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | There is more to life than sex - Sex is not important.That only proves that college isn't a requirement for success; nothing about sex being intrigal to success in life. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | There is more to life than sex - Sex is not important.It wasn't an argument... it was a discussion. But alas... go drop out of college and spend the rest of your life searching for sex. Hope it works out for you. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 08:10 PM |
| 2 | There is more to life than sex - Sex is not important.@ Sex is a need and NOT a want. Sex is a biological imperative, but as it has no physical affect on your ability to survive, it cannot be classified as a "need". @ Sex is very important we were born due to sex. We are born due to conception; not sex. Sex doesn't always result in the creation of life, and with the advancements of modern medical technology, sex is not required for conception. @ As adults we were designed to be intimiate with the opposite sex - kissing - Hugging - flirting - sex ma… | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 6 | There is more to life than sex - Sex is not important.Theres so much wrong with this post. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How confident are you in your pick up skills?Overly | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 02:50 PM |
| 3 | SailingIf you do it, do it because you want to, not because you think there will be women at the end of the rainbow. On the other hand "I'm going to go sailing this weekend. Care to join me?" will more often than not get you a date. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Weird convo problemAsk her to choose the topic. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do most of the tips here also work with guys?100% | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | The idea of going to a club or bar by myself to practice approaching women sounds like the most anti-social thing to do. Are there any nightlife social places that are accustomed to solo attendees?Yeah.... everywhere. No one's going to judge you for deciding to go out and enjoy yourself and have a good time, and you'll only look like the desperate/needy/creepy guy if you find yourself trying (and failing) to hit on every single woman in the bar. Go out. Have fun and enjoy the setting and the ambience on the atmosphere. And think about what you're really attracted to, and be moderately selective in your approaches. Maybe you'll meet someone, maybe you won't. But go there again. And again. … | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 01:03 AM |
| 12 | How to Speak GROOT! - Flirting 101: Why what you say is never as important as HOW you say it.Gotta learn to bounce the ball before you can crossover. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 12:43 AM |
| 70 | How to Speak GROOT! - Flirting 101: Why what you say is never as important as HOW you say it.Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 11:55 PM |
| 20 | How to Speak GROOT! - Flirting 101: Why what you say is never as important as HOW you say it.You do understand that "101" indicates beginner level, yeh? | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I help her move?Do it. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 09:36 PM |
| 9 | What can I do about being tall and hideous looking?If you want some real suggestions, post a pic. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 5 - The Approach, the Escalation, and the Close (FINALLY!)Just posted THIS. Hope it answers your question. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 3 | how to last longer in bed?Read This | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Tips for building solid inner game?Read This | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findEverything you mentioned in your post contradicts the title. Hot girls are everywhere, you just lack the confidence to approach them. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Kiss Close & F-close after the first date. What's a reasonable rate per date?I k-close about 98% of my first dates. I f-close about 30% of first dates. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 5 - The Approach, the Escalation, and the Close (FINALLY!)Thanks, brutha. I really appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 5 - The Approach, the Escalation, and the Close (FINALLY!)You know, you're not the first person to ask me about this and why I believe what you say is never as important as "how" you say it. I think I'm going to post a quick write-up about it. I send you the link when it's up. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 5 - The Approach, the Escalation, and the Close (FINALLY!)Thanks for the response and the story. Sounds like a fun, confident boosting interaction if nothing else. Do you really find these posts useful, or am I just wasting my time? | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 12:15 AM |
| 2 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 3 - Your dick is not your friend!I agree with all of this but why still use techniques? Aren't they fake, and women will spot this and even call it out the second they find out you're being manipulative? Saying PUA techniques are manipulative is like saying shooting a hundred freethrows a day is cheating at basketball. Talking to people is a skill. Building confidence is building a skill. Understanding how a person's mind works and responds is a skill. Engaging with people and building a connection is a skill. No one is born kn… | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 04:00 PM |
| 26 | I'm the one being seduced, not sure what to doFriendzone all of them. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | guaging a womans intrest?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | guaging a womans intrest?I'm confused... Are you asking how to tell if a woman is interested or how to tell if she wants to have sex? | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:18 PM |
| 5 | I'm the one being seduced, not sure what to doAre all the girls friends? | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:15 PM |
| 3 | guaging a womans intrest?Interested and DTF are not the same thing. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | guaging a womans intrest?Give her instructions. If she follows them, she's interested. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Shit test when a girl says you would look better with/without a beard?"I was just thinking the same thing about you." | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 08:57 PM |
| 4 | How do you show the “correct” type of interest/escalate?So, every interaction is contextual and situational, so there really isn't any specific answers for you, but I can offer a couple suggestions... There's two thing that I do that work VERY well for me and my personality. The first is I flirt with little regard to outcome. I'll drop something flirty or playful and just let it sit there. Again, it's all contextual and situational so I can't give you specifics, but a flirty exchange is simple and since I don't care what happens next, it doesn't come… | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How to frame asking out a girl. Which one is better?"Hey. What do you have going on tonight/tomorrow/Saturday/etc.?" She will respond in one of two ways: Option A: Plans "I'm going to go get my nails done and see a movie with my girlfriends." "That sounds fun. What movie?" She has plans. Don't mention yours. Option B: No Plans/Aloof "Nothing yet. Just kinda chilling at home." You: "I'm going to (specific place) to (specific activity). I remember you said your into (specific activity). Care to join me?" Tell her what you're going to do, not some a… | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 08:46 PM |
| 10 | Building a social/dating life in a monthFirst, lose the "time frame" mentality. You dont have a month to make friends and become more sociable, you have the rest of your life. The reason you think you only have a month is because you're not going out. You put all your eggs in the campus basket, when the reality is that people are everywhere, you just need to broaden your horizons. As for you main concern... You've painted broad strokes about your life but to give you some real advice, some details are needed (otherwise you're going to… | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | If I were a PUA Coach: Part 3 - Your dick is not your friend!But what if you just love sex? What if you love women? All kinds of hot women? What's the problem with going out to get that. Either way you need PUA skills/charm to get that. I get it. Like I said, I LOVE SEX! I love women. All shapes, all sizes (well... maybe not all shapes and sizes). But it wasn't until I started putting my sexual urges and desires on the back burner that I became GOOD with women. When all you want is sex, you go out and meet women and in the back of your mind, your thinking… | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | If I were a PUA coach: Part 1 - The truth about SeductionI'm not going to say LDS doesn't work... but what if I'm not in London? joking Like I mentioned above, approaches are contextual. I can meet two women on two seperate days, but in the same place at the same hour, and what I say to one might be completely different than what I say to another. I usually say whatever makes sense in that moment. And the simple truth that I've come to realize and accept whole-heartedly is two fold, 1) "Its never what you say, but always HOW you say it." And 2) If a w… | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | If I were a PUA coach: Part 1 - The truth about SeductionSuppose I am proud of my brand (which I'm currently not) and I talk to a woman with confidence. Then what? The simple, easy, and generic answer is ABE, Always Be Escalating! But I'll try to be more specific... (WARNING... WALL OF TEXT INCOMING) Now, unfortunately, this first bit of advice is going to be a little "cookie-cutter" based on my personal views about meeting, engaging, escalating, and transitioning into whatever type of relationship fits our situation. Most people go into an interactio… | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 04:54 PM |
| 15 | If I were a PUA coach: Part 1 - The truth about SeductionSo is it necessary for me to buy an expensive car? Latest iphone etc? No. Not at all. This is exactly what I'm talking about when I say you need to understand your target demographic. When you think about an HB10, you're probably thinking about some bimbo-esque IG model who walks around with her phone in her hand 24/7, constantly snapping selfies, laughing at guys who try to hit on her because they don't have an expensive car or the latest iPhone, or whatever other materialistic bullshit you hav… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Best places in the USA to pick up or hook up with womenThe opportunity to "hook-up" with women is location specific. Sure, some places have a higher population, more tourists, a better nightlife scene, but generally speaking, you can pretty much hook-up with women anywhere. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Texting before the dateThe purpose of the date is to get to know one another and see if there is chemistry. The purpose of texting is to get to know one another and see if there is chemistry. Why stop doing one just because you plan on doing the other? | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone enlighten me their best tips for their text game? Anything will doText < Voice msg < phone call. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | A girl just like my instagram photo out of nowhere. Don’t think much of it but id want to know yalls opinionsUnfortunately... | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean to be playful, and how do I do it?Goto YouTube and search "Fresh Prince pickup lines". | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Guys where TV/movie character is a solid example of being charismatic/ flirty?James Bond Barnie Stenson Sam Malone Marcus Graham Mark Sloan | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | no problem aproaching and talking,whats the next step?is building attraction my responsibility or its soley on how she feels about me? It's both. Let me try to explain... If someone's not attracted to you, there isn't a whole lot you can do to change their minds in the moment. Conversely, if someone IS attracted to you, the challenge then becomes "Not turning them off". For example: if I approach a woman and she takes one look at me and decides I'm not her type, I can either A) waste time trying to convince her otherwise (which, IME, is a masochist… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Why do guys get cheated on and is it something these guys could fix? Could such a thing be avoided?When it comes to cheating, their are two absolutes you have to accept: 1) If someone is going to cheat on you, there's is absolutely nothing you can do to prevent it. Zip. Zero. Nadda. And that's because... 2) When someone cheats on you, it has fuckall to do with you. People think cheating is a result of inadequacies in a relationship: He/she never gives me any attention. They never have any money. They suck in bed. Blah blah blah. The truth is people cheat because they are afraid to communicate… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | GAME CHANGING QUESTION?You're too in your head about what others will think about you if you fail. Always remember this: the people laughing from the bleachers didn't even have the balls to try. You put yourself out there. You tried. You may fail. You may succeed. If you succeed, good. If you fail, GREAT. Go out and fail again, but next time, fail better. Stop worrying about what onlookers think. They aren't the ones standing at the plate. Give it your best swing, learn from your mistakes, and try again. That's how sk… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 5 | no problem aproaching and talking,whats the next step?Approach > Initiate > Escalate > Calibrate > Repeat > Close. You're approaching without a goal, which is both good and bad. While I always suggest Approaching without worrying about the close, you still need to have an idea of where you want this to go. Do you just want to talk to someone for a minute and then go about your day? Do you want to get to know her better? Do you want things to escalate romantically/physically. Whatever the answer, choose the corresponding action. Ask for her number. … | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | should i wait to ask her out?What's the advantage of waiting? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Need a quick come back for ‘I had a crush on you back then haha’That's funny... I have a crush on you now. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | GAME CHANGING QUESTION?A PUA that fears rejection is like a comedian that's afraid to bomb. It comes with the territory. It's part of the job. YOU WILL GET REJECTED! And you know What happens when you get rejected? Nothing. Nothing happens. You're not going to die. You're not going to turn to stone. The planet will not explode. Why be afraid if nothing horrible will come of it? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 20 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.That's because they meet girls who just want to hook up too. Like I told my brother: women love sex just as much, if not more than men. Don't think for a second that women don't have the desire and ability to have sex just for pleasure and no emotional attachment. Believe me, they exist. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I look 1-10?Ok... hetero-men here so take this with a grain of salt... That's a terrible picture and a horrible angle. You have beautiful eyes. The inconsistency with the facial hair distracts from them (especially with that angle). If you're growing out your beard, either go full beard or keep your edges neat and trimmed. And get those eyebrows to a professional. There should be two and they should not blend into you sideburns. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 6 | How do I get them to invest?Also I guess the availability factor is shit in my case. I text TOO much and too often (Almost everyday, my texts with most girls I've met have been 30-40 messages back and forth a day) and yet I'm the one who initiates. It sounds like the bulk (If not all) of your communication with women is via text. One thing I ALWAYS do in the early stages of meeting someone new... I call them. I have an actual voice conversation with them as soon as possible. I do this for two reasons: 1) I have a great voi… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Girl told me that my muscles were too big for her, and she didn’t wanna bang because of it. Has anyone else ever had this happen?I have experienced this. I girl I worked with was telling another co-worker that she wanted to hook-up with me, but she didn't because of how muscular I was. She said "He's gonna be all like "Let's go to the gym", and I'm gonna be all like "Let's get some cake". Shit was hilarious. But really, each person has things they want and don't, things they understand and don't. Everyone here is saying it was an excuse... You don't need an excuse not to have sex with someone. Find a woman who wants to ha… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Sort of inspired by the ‘why aren’t we having sex’ post - has anyone been with a girl that just made sex too fucking difficult to bother with her?There are a few things that stand out to me... This girl was literally into me all evening, and then when we got back to mine she was pulling away, claiming ‘I just want to watch a movie’, whilst all over me, escalating. This right here is where things took a turn. The moment she made this statement, I would have switched gears. "Cool! I really like this movie!" And left it at that. If she continued to escalate, I'd stop her. "I thought we're just going to watch this movie?" This would have let … | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | If you see a good looking girl in the streets and you want to date her. Should you approach her?No. Just because someone is good looking and you want to date them does no give you the right to approach her. What does this even mean? | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 07:55 PM |
| 14 | How do I get them to invest?Getting someone emotionally invested in you requires a few things; 1) You have to give them a comfortable and safe outlet for their thoughts and emotions. Let's say I match with a girl on tinder. I send the initial msg "Hey. I'm "Attitude". It's a pleasure to meet you. I really like that pic of you (whatever whatever). When did you take it?" She'll usually respond with details about that pic. This is a thread. Follow the thread! "Oh wow! That sounds awesome. Who did you go with? What was it like… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Do some guys just simply not wanna be, and never wanted to be slayers?41M - over 200 sexual encounters (different women) First and foremost, you have to accept that a non-monogamous lifestyle isn't for everyone, just like a monogamous lifestyle isn't. Some people want a "One and Only"; some want a sexual all you can eat buffet. The issue with celebrities and millionaires(billionaires) is that they have to protect themselves from gold diggers and women who try to make a living off of being a baby-momma to a baller (P. Diddy pays over $20K a month in child support).… | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Any interest for a web series for Seduction After 40yo?The only real reason is that in your 40s two things are true: the pickings are slimmer; more people are in committed relationships. And #2, the mindset of people in that age bracket typically shifts from random dating and hook-ups to actively seeking commitment and LTRs. It changes the way you deal with them, to a slight degree. Instead of surging and looking for a ONS, the emphasis switches to a long game with focus on deeper connection and lasting intimacy. Now, that's not to say that there is… | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 3 | [SERIOUS] Expert or Master level PUA's: For those of us who have been in the game longer than r/seduction or most PUA material existed, looking back, do you think having such a wide variety of material is a help or a henderence?Kind if like "To see far, sometimes you must stand on the shoulders of giants"? | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | SoCal social meetupI'm down. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like guys that are trouble makers one of those "bad boys" or more calmer guys who don't seek problems and are more laid back.Get this way of thinking out of your head. It's toxic and completely untrue, and has only be perpetuated by guys who are afraid of women. Women are attracted to confident men. Period. You don't have to be a "bad boy", you just need to be confident enough to approach them, and not give a shit if you close. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What should I say next time this happens?Me: Wyd? Her: Just got out the shower. Me: Prove it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Actually curious about the swinger lifestyle. Do you maintain any rules about it? My fiancee and I don't have many rules. The few that we have are simple: we don't go out to play solo (We can play in seperate rooms or solo at a party/club, but we don't go out to play unless we are together), we keep the side conversations to a minimum unless we add the other to it (for example: if we meet another couple/single online or out, we try to include each other in the communication(s); we are a couple a… | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend Cheated On MeIt's not insecure to ask her to stop talking to a guy she cheated on you with. Especially considering she stop and started again. In all honesty, I think you'd be better off. If you don't live together, I'd suggest a good long break. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 11:38 PM |
| 6 | Noticing women too much?Look, appreciate, but don't ogle, and then go back to the show. You're surrounded by beautiful people. You don't have to see each and every one of them. Just enjoy the moment. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to respond if being asked "why" when approaching?You're an attractive women and in talking to you briefly, it seems we may have some things in common. Would like to explore that with you. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | (Question) How to improve your game/Make your conversations more interesting and finally get a fucking gf?Why not? | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | (Question) How to improve your game/Make your conversations more interesting and finally get a fucking gf?How do you talk to other people? | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 10:09 PM |
| 2 | is playing with her hair an IOIYes | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?HERE YOU GO | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?I'm actually going to write a post about this, as I feel a lot of men would benefit from reading it. I'll send you the link when it's up. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Only getting one night stands and nothing moreD-game is lacking. You may also try waiting a few dates for sex. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 02:36 PM |
| 7 | "Guys only want sex" - How do you respond to this?I just want a beer. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?Something to consider; When was the last time you sat and watched someone make an approach? When it happened, how invested were you in the interaction/outcome? The truth is that people are so wrapped up in their own lives that they really don't care. Unless it's a situation where you were sitting there trying to figure out how you were going to make your own approach and someone beat you to it, odds are this isn't something you really notice or pay attention to. Go make your approach. Chances ar… | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 04:57 PM |
| 44 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?First, congratulations on the success you've enjoyed. Getting better at dealing with women is quite literally like breathing for the first time. The rush of confidence is exhilarating and intoxicating, and you should be quite proud. Now for the bad news... If I were to compare PUA to a video game, you just leveled up. Your PUA skill is now level 5... out of 99. Now, I'm in no way, shape, or form trying to diminish your accomplishment. You've overcome your AA (to a degree), and you've enjoyed wha… | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like they done enough reading and wants to put what they learned into action??Apologies for the late response, I wrote a post a few days ago about this. Basically, don't focus on the sex. Don't think about it. Don't rush into it. Just let things progress as naturally as possible. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 0 | How do you get a girl engaged in a convo from the get go on tinderAsk her questions about herself | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like they done enough reading and wants to put what they learned into action??Approach is all contextual. Don't think about canned or golden openers. The truth is, if a woman is into you, you can say pretty much anything and she'll dig it. Just remember it's not what you say, but how you say it. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like they done enough reading and wants to put what they learned into action??The best way to overcome AA is to focus on the approach, and not the close. Don't get in you're head about what will or can happen after the approach. There are dozens of factors that will affect the outcome that have zero to do with you. You're job is to create an opportunity, not the outcome. As for what to say... Just say "Hi. How are you. I'm itzReborn. What's your name?" And offer a firm handshake. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Any way to improve my game?Stop asking girls on "dates". This implies her attendance/participation is required. Instead, say something like "I'm going to (whatever you like to do) this weekend. Care to join me?" This puts the focus back on you and your lifestyle and invites her to be a part of it, as opposed to you asking to be a part of hers. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:09 PM |
| 0 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Bro... no one's buying your troll bait bullshit. You're a lying dirtbag piece of shit. Go get some friends or something. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 10:08 PM |
| 0 | A New Perspective in GameBy whom? | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | A New Perspective in GameAnd now I know you're a troll... | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 09:07 PM |
| 0 | A New Perspective in GameHey... If all this works for you... awesome. I wouldn't advise any one else try this, though. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:48 PM |
| 5 | A New Perspective in GameWhat... the actual... fuck? | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Here's the thing that pissed me off: I have a wonderful sexy fiancee. I have a solid relationship with amazing mental, emotional, and sexual benefits. I've reached the finish line. And I also happen to have over 25yrs of experience dealing with women. And I thought it would be a good idea to share that experience. For some guys, it'll click and they will say "this makes sense to me", or at the very least "maybe this is something I can try to either expand or improve my game". I get that not ever… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:26 PM |
| 0 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.How high were you when you read it? | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:34 PM |
| -3 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.From a guy who's most impactful sexual relationship is between his hand and his cock, and greatest accomplishment is that he's no longer a virgin... | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 0 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.False | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you."One of the greatest failings of mans understanding is that it's often limited by his own experience" - unknown Let me clarify a few things for you: Lmfao first date with a girl and he makes out with her as his first move? Yes. The first thing I did was kiss her. After a week of non-stop talking, texting, flirting, and building attraction. First date with girl and she says you’re going to fuck me? So... women don't want or ask for first date sex? Only guys initiate sex? Women don't meet a guy an… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Total noob?Focus on the approach, not the close. Don't get discouraged if you get rejected. First impression is important, but don't try to play a role. Just be yourself. Don't try to persuade or convince her. Focus on seeing her as a person and letting her see you. Be respectful. Of her, and most importantly, your self | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.So? How is that any different from what you would do if the situation was reversed? If you had a HB9 at your place, and you're clearly DTF, but she cant because of (reasons), you're not going to check and see if option B is available? You're not, at the very least, gonna goto pornhub and watch a vid while you tug one out? And you're never going to try again with HB9? Sure, the world has changed; women are becoming more sexually free and independent... Does that mean you have to pounce on every p… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Dude... no where in my post do I advocate not approaching women. When I was single, I'd approach all the time. Hell, even now that I'm in a committed LTR, as someone in the swinger community, I still find myself approaching quite often. The point is to stop chasing after the sex. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Stop being the guy that tries to get a girl to have sex with him in every interaction. Take some time and try to entice her, to build the sexual tension and desire. Stop thinking "I… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 03:24 PM |
| 8 | General tips for turning a girl on?Here are some general "Fingering" Tips: 1) WASH YOUR HANDS! 2) Make sure your nails are trimmed and clean! 3) Think of it less as "fingering" and more of a massage. Your not trying to plug a dam. You want to massage and pleasure her entire vagina, inside and out; lips, clit, the mounds of flash around it, her thighs, even her taint and ass. Caress it. Massage it. Get your fingers moist with a little saliva to help get her wet. Use some lube if you have some on hand. (No pun intended) 4) One of m… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Cant be myself. Always trying to impress.There's two pieces of advice I'd like to offer: The first, and most importantly: You gotta learn to love yourself man. When you have a poor view of yourself, it radiates out to any and everyone you come in contact with. If you don't love you, very few other people ever will. You have to get to a point where you love you. A place where you accept who you are, and are happy with who you are, and you dont mind sharing who you are with others. Whether that means just accepting yourself as is, or mak… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 02:02 AM |
| 0 | I fucked up againI would have responded "Whoa. Calm down. I have to meet with a client and I'm not sure how long I'm going to be. I know what you're availability is, and if I can maybe move some things around, I'd enjoy spending time with you." | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | example of a push-pull exercise (i think)....I would have answered with something like "I think it would be hard to read your number on plastic, but hey, dealers choice." | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Why is that an "important rule" to you? | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 11:24 PM |
| 10 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Not you're issue. Not your concern. Not your problem. Think of it like this: let's say you hang out with a HB10 and things start getting heated, but before you can make it to secci tyme, she says something about having to get up early for work/school the next day and calls it a night.... You gonna tug one out? Maybe call up the FWB and see if she's free? And if so, does that mean the HB10 is off the table for you? Women have desire and needs just like men; and in my experience, the really attrac… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 31 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.I never suggested waiting for a woman to approach you. While I have had more than my share of women initiating contact with me, I always recommend making the approach. What I wrote above is for "after" the approach. After you've exchanges contact info. After you've made plans to meetup and hang out. Don't focus on the sex. Don't be so pussy hungry that you try to get a girl back to your place day 1. Don't be the guy that starts off with "So.... wanna hook-up?" Be the guy that says "Sure, you're … | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 08:51 PM |
| 5 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Appreciate that. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 08:37 PM |
| 12 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Flirt, kino, and escalate in every situation. Touch them. Tease them. Let her get comfortable with THIS stage of intimacy. This moment. Let it sink in. Live in it for the moment. Even if it's just holding hands, or hugging her from behind. Let a kiss just be a kiss. Let a make out session just be a make out session. Let a little foreplay just be a little foreplay. It doesn't all have to end with sex. It's not about seeing how far you can go or how fast. It's about just letting her enjoy the mome… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.I didn't. There wasn't enough initial interest to justify the work it required, in my opinion. I may revisit it in the future though. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 4 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.Seriously? | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:13 PM |
| -9 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.I could probably write one. Lmao! | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | [AskSeddit] Sedditors of all levels, care to post your most proud FR? (If you have more than one, you can post them)Was working as a server is a busy airport restaurant. Walked past a beautiful blonde sitting alone with big blue eyes and even bigger breast. She eye fucked the shit outta me. I stopped and said "You behaving yourself?" She smiled and said "Absolutely not." "Well you better behave, cuz we spank around here!" And I walked away. Walked past again and she grabbed my arm and asked "How do I sign up for one of those spankings?" I asked "How much time do you have?" "My flight leaves in an hour." "You … | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What is your style of texting girls for dates?Text is for quick, brief exchanges. I suggest a phone call when asking for a date. Additionally, don't ask her out for a date. Ask her to join you for an event/activity. Less beta. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.Never said dont approach. I just suggest tweeking your mindset. But alas... It seems the seddit crowd isnt quite ready for new ideas. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 02:24 AM |
| 1 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.I'm not charging anything. I'm just trying to gauge whether or not there's any interest and if its worth the time trying putting the material together, which I plan to offer free of charge. Im not trying to make money. Im trying to maybe make a difference in someones life. And I didn't copy and paste anything from anyone. I know what/who Ive done and who Im with. And lets be honest; the pick-up game is ever changing and evolving. All I'm offering is another skillset based on my personal experien… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 10:41 PM |
| 3 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.Ever hear the saying "The mouse unchased becomes curious about the cat."? | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 08:54 PM |
| 0 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.That's actually pretty funny. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Finalizing my PUAcademy Webseries - Final Thoughts, Suggestions, RequestI have | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How does game change when you're looking for a relationship, rather than hookups?Read THIS | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:33 PM |
| 3 | James Marshall natural seduction AMAAs someone who's very comfortable with the PUA/seduction mantra, something I always try to impart on others with AA, problems with FriendZoning, and just overall issues with dealing with women, is to always remember that the worst possible outcome of any approach is a simple, and more often than not, polite "No." Even so, I've ran into man young men who still can't seem to get on the horse when it comes to meeting women. What advice do you have for them? | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 02:44 AM |
| -3 | What are some good openers for when you and the girl are walking towards eachother and crossing paths?"There you are! I've been looking all over for you!" | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 05:16 AM |
| 1 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"That all depends on what your sexual relationship was like, why you split up, whether there's any animosity between you, and what your relationship is like now. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I escalate attraction faster?Its not a sprint. Its a marathon. Building attraction is like building a bridge: if you need to get across in a hurry, a simple plank will do, but its not very sturdy, and won't last very long. But build something solid, something that's built with time and patience, well that will last until you burn it or tear it down. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 05:25 AM |
| 21 | [FR] Well I tried approaching...The most important thing is realizing what you did wrong. We learn from our mistakes. Better luck next time. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 07:38 PM |
| 1 | When to call her?You make plans for Friday on Wednesday. Call her immediately, and make concrete plans. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 07:36 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to go from a cold approach to the bedroom?What's the best way to explain this... So, you're at the bar, see a hottie, approach, engage, escalate, and manage to get her home. Now, usually, she's going to be at least a bit tipsy, if not hammered, as her inhibitions would have to be WAAAAY down for her to agree to go back to a strangers home for the night, or, it's something she makes a habit of and she doesn't much care. You bang away, and come morning, the thrill is gone, and probably, so is she, so later that night, or that week, your b… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Why do girls not initiate back with me?First, read THIS if you haven't already. Second, There are two issues you're struggling with, the first being you have too much free time. You have too much time to think about why you're phone isn't ringing. Itsmevichet has a point about how your romantic life should revolve around the rest of your everyday, and not the other way around. When you fill your life with "living" you don't notice your phone not ringing. You're too busy doing things. You need to live more and worry less about the lac… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Prize? | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 07:25 PM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Looks like we have a winner, folks! | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:11 AM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!I want to buy you a beer! | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 10:52 PM |
| 2 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Care to expound on why you feel that way? | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:45 PM |
| 2 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!But that's kinda the point, and again, the inharent flaw with text verses voice: You assume the voice is alpha, and that the text is beta, because of the interpretation of the written words. When you translated the words into a voice conversation, it came across as alpha, because that was your perception. But what if you flipped them. What if the text was the voice, and the voice as the text. Would your interpretation remain the same? Voice conversations alleviate the "interpretation" and "perce… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:43 PM |
| 3 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!and significantly better for younger girls. This may be where I have a problem. I'm older and I deal with women, not young girls, and the women I deal with prefer a phone call to a text message. Maybe its because texting wasn't something we've been doing since we were nine years old. Maybe it's a throwback to rotary phones and pagers, and cell phones that didn't do anything beside making phone calls. All that said: If texting a woman more than talking to her on the phone gets your where you want… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:03 PM |
| 3 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Expound. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:57 PM |
| 2 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Well, it's been the better part of a decade since I tried to hook up with an 18yo, so I guess you have a point. It's just been my experience and a general acceptance from most women that a call shows effort and thought. A text, not so much. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:57 PM |
| 6 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!That's exactly my point. Some men are focusing on text as a main tool to interact with women, and I'm saying it shouldn't be your primary means of communication. It should be a back-up, or a pass-through. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!I'm over 30. I don't date women under 25. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:57 PM |
| 5 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!I hate texting, but the entire female population LOVES the shit out of it We need to do a poll. The females I have dealt with prefer talking to texting. And besides that, I'm not living in her world, I'm inviting her into mine, and in my world, we talk. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:52 PM |
| -6 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Girls never call, Huh? My phone barely stops ringing. It's EXTREMELY rare that I leave a message and don't get called back. And the times I do, I'm not worried about it because I have other things (or people) to keep me distracted. If I call a girl, leave a message, and she doesn't call me back, then it's clear she doesn't want to talk to me and it's time to move on. No big deal. I'm not going to text stalk her. Or try to trick her into an interaction. I called. I expressed a desire to talk to h… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:47 PM |
| 1 | When to text!Alright! That's it. I'm doing a write up on this. This is just sad... | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 04:53 PM |
| 1 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"Let's just say that I'm extremely confident in my abilities to capture a women's interest, emotions, desire, and ultimately, heart. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:08 AM |
| 1 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"Are you looking for a step by step manual? | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:07 AM |
| 3 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"I often get turned-off when they don't stimulate me or have some mutual interests. There's two ways to look at this: 1) One the one hand, as humans, we are attracted to like minded individuals. It provides us a sense of belonging and validation. When we meet someone who likes what we like, eat what we eat, and think like we think, it makes us feel secure and confident in a sense: "I can't possibly be as screwed up as I thought I was if they like this too!" Having similar interest is critical to … | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 09:12 PM |
| 1 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"It's not "GAME"; it's understanding the natural progression of attraction. Men and women don't process information and stimuli the same way: Men are cerebral, women are emotional. Men react to logic and action. Women respond to emotion and feelings. That said, the wall we run into with women is trying to use our greatest weapon, our logic, to elicit emotions in a woman, and it just doesn't work that way. You can't "THINK" a woman into feeling something for you. She has to feel it. Plain and simp… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 07:21 PM |
| 3 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"It's the same as in writing: SHOW, don't tell. Don't waste time trying to verbally convince her of your great qualities. Just be yourself and let her see them for herself. Instead of telling her about your awesome sense of humor, make her laugh until her sides hurt. Instead of telling her how smart and sophisticated you are, take her to a museum and talk about your favorite exhibit, or introduce her to a new form of literature or art or music. Instead of trying to tell her how sexy you are, do s… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 07:15 PM |
| 4 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"The thing you need to understand is that LTR's don't happen over night. As a matter of fact, many of us have different definitions of a LTR. Some people would consider 6 months a LTR, while some wouldn't quantify a LTR unless it was over two years. The point I'm making is that before you can even venture into the realm of LTR, you have to start a "relationship"; you have to build and maintain a positive mental, emotional, and physical "reoccurring" interaction. You have to build and maintain int… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 05:23 PM |
| 4 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"I'm pretty sure we don't know each other, because what you described sounds nothing like me, but here's a Challenge for you? What's my first name, where do I live (city), and what do I drive? | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 05:13 PM |
| 2 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"Yes, you have to get her hot, but you don't have to try to get her into bed in record time. If a girl is willing to sleep with you on the first, second, or third, go for it, but if she's a little more reserved and isn't read until the fifth or even tenth, but you know the physical attraction and chemistry is there, if you're continuing to build that desire, and you feel she's worth the wait, then wait. And there's a difference between shy and reserved. To me, a shy girl is someone who needs time… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 05:10 PM |
| 8 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"The best way to answer your question is by telling you a story: I met this cute Latina at a Subway sandwich shop. She offered me a free soda and that was all it took for me to offer my number. We talked for a few days and I picked her up for our first date later in the week. Took her to Dave and Busters, a restaurant/arcade for adults, and we ate, played video games, and talked. We were standing in front of the House of the Dead 3, and I was in the middle of telling her a random story of awesome… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 05:04 PM |
| 4 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"Here you go | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 04:47 PM |
| 33 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"It all starts with your look. It's extremely rare that a woman consents to dating someone she's not physically attracted to you. There has to be something that catches her eye physically. From that point on, it's a simple matter of your conversation and interaction with her. Think about your natural thought process when you meet an attractive women. There's this sort of mental "Progression Checkpoint System" we have built in: She has a great smile and pretty eyes, and that dress is making her ch… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin" - Part OneI just posted Part Two on r/seduction. Take a look; I think it answers this question pretty well. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin" - Part OnePart Two is now available. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:24 AM |
| 12 | Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin" - Part OneWhat I found is that smelling like "sex and sin" isn't about being a douche, or being the asshole everyone talks about girls flocking too; It's about carrying yourself in a sensual, sexy manner. Now, the definition of sexy may change from woman to woman, but sensual is pretty standard across the board. Looks, textures, scents, tastes, sounds: anything tactile. This is want sensuality is all about. When you walk into the room looking like a million bucks, clean and fresh, and carrying yourself wi… | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin" - Part OneRespectfully, I disagree. Yes, financial success does add a great deal of confidence, but more importantly than financial success is "Personal Success". Just because you're not a multi-millionaire, have billboards with your image posted around the country, or appear in film and/or television, doesn't mean you can't feel comfortable and confident about where you are in your life. We're not all the 1%. Yet many of us still find love and happiness. Many of us men still find away to carry ourselves … | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Because the women involved we're truly in love with me. As in, if I proposed, they would have said "yes". Many/most of them still would, and part of me knew from day 1 that I was never going to give them that. Don't get me wrong, I don't feel like I wasted their time, but I feel like they never got what they wanted/needed. They never got the ending they hoped for. The 3yr relationship ended for that very reason. She wanted me to cut out all the others and just be with her and I wasn't ready. The… | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...OIC. Well, please allow me to clarify things for you; "I need to talk to you. I wan't you to know I really enjoy your company. You're smart and funny and we have a great time together, both in and out of the bedroom... mostly in (wink). I feel that things are starting to get pretty serious and I just want to make sure we understand each other. I have four best friends. Four people I would literally kill for and die for. Without question or hesitation. And I love each and every one of them. Equal… | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...00:57 HANDS DOWN THE SINGLE GREATEST OPENER YOU CAN EVER USE! | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Okay, I see what you mean; the law of supply and demand comes into play, along with the predator/prey dichotomy, so I understand your challenge and frustrations. There are a couple of things I would suggest to increase you're odds off success with women, as a well as avoid looking like your searching for your next meal: Day game is always a plus because it not only gets you out of environments where talking to a woman is expected, it gives you the element of spontaneity. Take a lunch break walk … | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...I'm going to assume you're calling me an "asshole" because you assume I was cheating on these girls... | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Please accept my virtual-hug! | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...All, I'm going to offer is that your heart doesn't give two shits about statistics and studies. If and when you meet that girl that makes you're knees weak and your stomach do flips, it won't and shouldn't matter to you how many dicks have been in her mouth. The only thing that should matter is how she treats and cares for you. If you want to kick a girl to the curb because she doesn't fall in line with what your "studies" show, than that's your choice, but you may be missing out on a ring-worth… | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Dude, San Diego?!? And you're not meeting anyone??? The beaches!!! Gas Lamp District!! The bars and clubs!!! The mall!! FREAKIN' TJ!!!! I'm originally from Los Angeles, and I've been to SD many times, so believe me when I tell you, work schedule notwithstanding, if you're not meeting women, you're not trying to meet women! Hell, take the 2hr drive up I-5 and spend the weekend in LA, or even the OC. Go hit the slots at Pala, or Pachanga. Treat yourself to a day at Sea World. Or just grab a body b… | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...While there are subtle differences in some ethnicities, I will say that ultimately, it comes down to the individual; some women just have more experience, fewer boundaries, and better control of their bodies. That said, here's a quick list of some things I've noticed about different nationalities: Asian women don't use the word "NO" very often when it comes to sex and different types of sex. Hispanic women get wet. REALLY wet. Many of the Hispanic women I slept with were squirters. The Russian a… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...To be completely honest, I'd have to say that most of my encounters of late have been work related. I work in a environment where I deal with the public constantly, a parade of people and faces. If you're job isn't structured this way, I suggest going out and exploring you're surroundings, and doing things that you enjoy. Chances are, there will be an attractive woman spending time at a few of these locals. Also, visit the website EventsAndAdventures.com; its not a dating service, but it sets up… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...More important that the image you try to portray is being true to that image. Confidence is a big plus, but just because your a confident person doesn't mean you're the most outgoing. It means that when you do decide to talk to someone, you're looking them in the eyes, speaking clearly, projecting your voice to make sure you're heard, and speaking with confidence. It's holding your head up high, walking with your back straight with your eyes on the prize, knowing that you can handle whatever lif… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Agreed. It's pretty much a law of averages; the more people, the better you're chances of meeting someone you'll connect with. In smaller areas, I'm sure you run into a lot of the same people, friends of friends, and so on, so finding someone who doesn't know you directly, via a friend, or by reputation can be a challenge. The only advise I offer is cultivate your healthy relationships as best as possible, and try to explore your surroundings, and see what else is out there. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 08:10 AM |
| 7 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...This was a point I was trying to make: Women know. If you're crushing on a girl, and she says "we're just friends", it's not because she's oblivious to how you feel. At the same time, I advocate "coming out" simply because it allows clarity, communication, and mutual understanding. I guy can't say "Well, maybe she didn't know how I really feel and didn't want to ruin the friendship.", or worse, he won't have that gnawing feeling of "I wish I would have said something instead of just trying to ki… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 08:07 AM |
| 11 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...As a point of curiosity, and in reference to a lower thread, when the men in question have "come out" to you about their feelings for you, has it ever been a surprise for you to learn how they "really" feel, or did you kinda know all along? | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...We all have those girls that haunt our dreams, including the ones we had to walk away from. But, the healthier thing to do is to move on, as opposed to slowly dying inside. And there's no one way to get over a girl, but the best advice I ever heard was "loving yourself trumps waiting on someone else to love you." | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Okay, you're overthinking it. Psycho-analytics notwithstanding, you can't fit everyone in the same mold, or label them based on a certain behavior or what have you. But, understanding your point, these are things you talk about with the person you're dating; find common ground, similar values, etc. I would suggest keeping an open mind. There are dozens of factors that can lead to divorce, and a girl who had some wild college years may not be one of them. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 05:44 AM |
| 30 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...It is possible to change a woman's "perception" of you, but IMO, it's not worth the time or effort. Consider a reddit post; you post a pic, meme, link, whatever; and you get some upvotes, and you get some downvotes. The downvotes are demeaning and condescending, and generally pretty harsh. How much time are you going to waste trying to convince the people who downvoted you that you're post was good? Now, there's a difference between a debate and exchange of ideas, and someone just saying "You're… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...I'll sum up my attraction by comparing it to this post: Some people appreciate it, some people don't. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Finding someone on the same "experience" page as you can be tricky nowadays. To my knowledge, there is no "I've only had sex twice" club that holds weekly meetings and has a newsletter. My best advice is not to focus on someone who's experience level matches yours, rather focus on finding someone you're compatible with, someone you share common interests, someone who has the same goals and desires as you. Lets be honest, if you meet the perfect person (for you) tomorrow, is having ten more sexua… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...While you're opinion is very valid, and I see your points, I don't think you give women enough credit. Females aren't stupid or blind. If there is a man in their life that's crushing on them, they are aware. If you have female friends that wanst more than to be just friends, I'm sure you know about it. You can sense it in the way that speak to you, their body language, their overall interaction with you. It's not a secret. Same goes for women. Now, if that woman, aware of your feelings and inten… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 04:00 AM |
| 14 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Maybe it's because I prefer to open solo that I have a tough time understanding this. Nevertheless, I'm going to try to give you some advice: I'm thinking that you prefer to open in a group because when things get awkward or if you have trouble transitioning, you have friends around that can offer "buffers" or distractions, and ease the mounting tension. You may get stuck in a conversation and don't want to deal with that awkward silence, so you might point to your friend who's doing something s… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 03:28 AM |
| 21 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Then make that a part of your charm. I was working as a cashier when I was 21. A hot blonde comes through my line, and I glanced up at her, smiled, and nearly dropped her carton of OJ on the floor. "I'm sorry. Beautiful women make me really nervous." That's all I said to her. Two hours later, my manager comes up to me and hands me a piece of paper. "Someone names Jennifer called and ask me to give you a message. She want's you to call her when you get a chance. Here's her number." I had no idea … | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 03:17 AM |
| 34 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...I never (i.e. the last five years or so) go out with the intent on meeting someone. Imagine if you will, a cheetah stalking the African plains, hungry, searching for prey, crouched low in the grass. Suddenly, the wind shifts, the grazing gazelles smell the cheetah on the wind. What's the first thing they do? RUN LIKE HELL!! IMO, the same happens when you're out "hunting" for women. They sense it, and tend to shy away from any/all approaches. Now, imagine if that same Cheetah just moseyed on up t… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...If you have any specific questions, or anything in particular you want to discuss, feel free to PM me. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 02:26 AM |
| 9 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Time management, my friend. I lost my virginity at age 15, so I've been dating for nearly 20years. At 1000+ "connections", that's only an average of 50 "Hey! How are you?"'s a year. We'll call it "One a week". At 150 partners, that's only 7.5 partners a year, and accounting for threesomes and one night stands, it's closer to a new partner every two months or so; really not that impressive. Now, when it comes to real, meaningful relationships, that's when it gets a little tricky. My longest relat… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 02:25 AM |
| 30 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...And if he/she's not on board with getting physical, then you need to make a decision about keeping them around. If a girl puts you in the "Friendzone" and you stand up and say "Hey, I'm really not interested in being just friends. I want more." and she declines, the ball is back in your court. If you decide to continue to interact with her, then you are accepting the terms she offered "We can hang out, but it'll only be just as friends." She is crystal clear on where you stand, and you are cryst… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 02:14 AM |
| 210 | Okay, r/Seduction, when need to clear the air...Talk to her/him!! - One of my biggest facepalms on r/seduction and r/dating advice come from the avalanche of posts "How do I talk to her?" "How do I let him know how I feel?" "How do I approach the HB7 in my biology class?" "Falling for a friend and don't know how to let them know I want more..." Are you shitting me?? Each and every one of us have seen a romantic comedy where two people are in love with one another, then some bullshit happens that causes all kinds of drama, hilarity ensues, and… | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 11:55 PM |
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