You've spent hours reading material, watching videos, working out, practicing in the mirror... all hoping to eventually get what you want:

The ability to open attractive women and escalate to romance and initmacy.

And you're still struggling.

You still cant quite make the connections. You still struggle with maintaining the conversation. You still have a hard time building attraction. You still cant seem to make it to a second date. You still cant get them invested, either romantically or sexually.

You still cant get what you want.

But why? Why is it so hard? Why is getting what you desire so difficult.

Well... it's probably because you never stopped to ask one simple question:

What does she want?

That attractive woman sitting alone in the coffee shop... What does she want?

That beautiful woman moving like sex on the dancefloor... what does she want?

That girl walking with her headphones in on her way to clasd... what does she want.

You're so focused on what YOU want, so focused on how to communicate what you want, so zeroed in on how to make her give you want you want...

Did you ever wonder what she wants? Did you even ask?

The definition of seduction is the ability to get someone to do what you desire and making them believe it was their idea.

And the way you do that is by offering them what they want.

You have to give to get. You have to entice before you can take.

The next time you approach or connect via app, ask yourself "What does she want?", and then ask if its something you can offer. If so, dangle it before her and entice her closer. Let her know what it takes to get it. Let her see how amazing it is. Let her believe its everything shes ever hoped for.

And let her give you what you want and think it was her idea.

Cheers.