Background: I game here and there and I’m good at starting a conversation or a courtship but I’ve never been good at escalating properly to a romantic encounter. And now it’s crucial I do....me and this girl are both work colleagues who live at work for a week at a time. We have flirted for nearly a month now. The chemistry is there. And even a few people in her department who pal it up with me have pulled me to the side and literally said(dude she knows you like her.and she likes you back you just gotta wrap things up and make your move. Nut up or shut up). but it’s obvious the shots I have taken have not been leading and direct enough because we have not isolated for sex or moved things along. I shot a weak isolation attempt 2 weeks prior saying we should hook up and she thought on it hard and mentioned a girl friend. But also admitted that texting and flirting with me has made her consider a fling before she leaves for a new job position. how ever things have not escalated Past innocent flirting or strong eye contact. She leaves for a new job in Italy in a week. So the pressure is on to make it happen but I don’t want to bro it up, get over aggressive and make a month worth of trust and connecting go down the drain. I need some serious escalation/isolation advice. For a guy who’s seriously lacking at both.