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How To Handle Girls Teasing About Your Looks

dailymanup

April 10, 2019

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Title	How To Handle Girls Teasing About Your Looks
Author	dailymanup
Upvotes	4
Comments	2
Date	April 10, 2019 9:08 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bbju5l/how_to_handle_girls_teasing_about_your_looks/
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[–]authorized_sausage 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ImJustSo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I say you tell such toxic people to go fuck themselves

That would bring the toxicity into my court and I ain't about that life. Social skills go a long way and one that's extremely beneficial to have is being able to tell when someone is being actually aggressive, trying to inflict physical or emotional damage.

Simple teasing can be taken personally, or you can roll with the punch and not be such a reactive person. When you do, you discover that many people rarely mean things the way we take them. They were playing or they weren't thinking whatever they said could even be insulting. If my first response is to tell them to fuck off, then I'll never find out the truth of that person. A 'fuck off' may not be what they expected at all, they may have expected a funny, flirty, sexy, socially capable guy to riposte as elegantly and smoothly as his demeanor, clothing, grooming, and body language suggests.

Edit: And of course a fuck off is perfectly acceptable once it's established they're definitely toxic. Personally, I just immediately stop paying attention to their existence, but I respect "Fuck off-ers".