Third date - how do I tactfully suggest we go back to her place?

wolfbee16 · 2019-04-12T16:23:52+00:00

Pick her up at her place, then drop her off after dinner. Escalate in car and continue inside.

MegladonBass · 2019-04-12T16:04:55+00:00

Why not hang out at your place instead

WIA20XX · 2019-04-13T08:56:23+00:00

There are a bunch of ways to do it, but the overall theme is plausible deniability.

Before the date, you need to know if she can spend the night.
- Does she work in the morning?
- Does she have roommates that are expecting her to come home?
- Is her dog gonna cockblock because it needs to be walked?

Etc.

The date needs to be sensual from start to finish.

About 1/4 of the way you need to start selling her on something back at your place. And as the date goes on, the idea sounds better and better.

Dessert.
Drinks.
Surprise.

You're not trying to trick her. Actually have the thing at your place.

You're giving her plausible deniability. She doesn't want to just go back to your place to get to 5th base. Because the sensuality is there, the sexual tension is being built throughout the date. You don't make the rookie mistake of kissing her at the restaurant, but you do break the touch barrier.

You sell her on this thing. She knows what time it is, and you don't need to cheapen it.

You have this killer creme brulee, she can head over. BUT NO SEX. But one thing can lead to another, and do you have contact solution ..

MegladonBass · 2019-04-12T16:06:53+00:00

True I’m just saying in my experience I don’t take girls out. Usually I have them come to my house or go to there’s right off the bat.

Title	Third date - how do I tactfully suggest we go back to her place?
Author	Cheap_Sack_Of_Shit
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	April 12, 2019 2:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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