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Atleast your not swiping 10+ hours a week like most dudes
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:18 PM
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If you like doing activities or physical stuff then put put or even trampoline park. Personally I want the girl to know who I am as a person on date one so we’re not wasting each others time.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:13 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/akftv6/from_afraid_to_look_a_girl_in_the_eye_to_getting/ Everything I learned about bar/club game when I was in college. I slept with over 60 girls that year too. It’s not hard, just something to practice and build upon your mishaps. I never buy a girl a drink unless she REALLY impresses me, then I will. I think what works for me is treating the girl like a bro. I call girls “bro” and “dude” all the time, because that’s how I see them. Sex never crosses my…
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:56 AM
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I’d add on thatwasepic was GREAT when I was gaining skills and confidence. Obviously he’s a good looking dude so it helps but his social skills is how I formulated my own
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:40 AM
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This was me in my hoe phase. I could seduce and sleep with any girl I wanted, but became deeply depressed because I couldn’t get a girl to like me for me. That was one of the darkest times in my life too. Made me realize that deeper connections with someone satisfy the soul far more than sub level lust.
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:13 AM
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Personally I don’t really text girls. I’ve learned that to me, it’s better to set plans then talk in person. I used to text girls all the time and then in person “didn’t have anything to talk about” of course that doesn’t mean not to text because some girls get the impression you aren’t interested, but just keep it brief
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:04 AM
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Exactly!! Trust me bro, I did the same thing for years. Never watch pickup artists, it’s all bullshit. Just listen and you’ll naturally have replies. Your witty reply was forced because it probably made 0 sense in the context of the convo. All good, just learn this lesson now and adjust
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:15 PM
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Ya basically. I always start with the light brush on the arm, then touch the back then keep going. It sounds weird but it’s just a way to test boundaries without pressing too hard
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:35 PM
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I made a very detailed post about it a few years back when I was in college https://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/akftv6/from_afraid_to_look_a_girl_in_the_eye_to_getting/
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:34 PM
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100000% this. Your friend is wise. This was the key for me, and it makes the conversation really fun too. Like literally the other day this girl and I were full blown detective mode on why the government decided to assassinate Harambe because he knew they were turning the frogs gay. Was it stupid? Totally but we both were dying laughing because of how stupid and random the conversation was. I learned it doesn’t matter at all what you say, but how you say it. She could tell I was amusing myself F…
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:40 AM
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I disagree. Kino is a way for me to gauge how interested the girl is in me. If she shows continuing signs of being against it, then I back off and just keep it friendly. If she’s into it you it will be obvious, then you progress the kino further. Kino isn’t some way to seduce, it’s only a way to test the boundaries and look for signs of reciprocation
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:17 AM
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It’s all about your self concept. Do you believe height is important for you? That since you are 5’8 you will get rejected? Well that’s exactly how the girls will view you. They can sense a guys insecurity so fucking fast it’s insane. You need to believe that height doesnt matter and that you can get any girl because you are a good looking guy and fun to be around. That’s it
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:29 AM
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How about looking at women as normal people. I learned by just getting good at talking to girls with no flirting or attachment to outcome involved. Then after which I added little bits of flirting over time. Most of the time, I seduced women without trying to seduce them, but simply by just talking and being playful with them. I rarely EVER try to flirt with them, it just happens.
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:27 AM
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I got good at game when I didn’t try to “game”. If I had to pick one of the skills I got from seduction, it would be being an active listener. Tell me if this sounds familiar: You are talking to a cute girl, and while she is talking you are in your head thinking of a witty reply from some video you watched online. When you go to reply you sound awkward or forced. See if you just actually listen to her like a bro, you tend to find you are much funnier than you thought. No thoughts, only listening…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:23 AM
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Honestly bro, you gotta go fail. I was TERRIBLE at talking to girls. Thought they were some insane species of alien. Basically had enough and forced myself. SOO many awkward interactions and weird situations but eventually I picked up on my mistakes and minimized them over time. Like anything, reps is the only way. Here is the key though, don’t think. Like at all. When she’s talking, just listen. Listen. You think your listening? Probably not, which is where the overthinking for most guys come i…
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:10 AM
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That was me. Enjoyed it for a few years, got with 50+ in a year too but it just became so…. Depressing? I realized they liked me for what i portrayed to them, not for who I was actually, the guy who wasn’t Rico suave 24/7. It’s funny, now I’m more prone to make the girl wait on sex until we get to know eachother more. I crave genuine connection now :) It was a crazy fun period of my life, but not anymore.
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:36 AM
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And see that is the crux of it. You gotta fail. I sucked at talking to girls too and made a fool of myself many times. How bad do you want it? If you do, you have to practice! Go out and make a fool of yourself trying, but after don’t take it to heart, learn from it, internalize it so that next time it won’t happen again. That’s how I learned, and that’s the ONLY way you will too. If you look at my top posts all time, I have a VERY detailed post about everything I learned. Should answer most thi…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:49 AM
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Are you in college? And honestly for me the best wingman was a wingwoman. I’d say make girl friends first. I was able to sleep with numerous women off mutual girl friends. Rarely happened off guy friends
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:41 AM
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Flow state is attained through practice! Think of it like driving. You can zone out while driving and instinctually take over without much thought. Same goes for seduction. It just takes practice. If your looking for a step by step guide on how to do so you won’t find it, for all that can be done to enter it is practice and a sense of familiarity. A way in which I got into flow state before going out was by talking to every girl I could prior. I would banter some and joke a bit to get me into th…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:39 AM
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100%. Biggest success for me when 10xing my numbers was goofing around!! Big difference between joking/goofing around and being a goof. Add in some playful teasing and flirting and you can get most girls. Doing this i rarely ever met a girl I couldn’t get at the time. I say you can deff mention sexual stuff while chatting but in a playful way at first. Once it’s been established it makes it easier to bridge the convo to more direct sexual convos. Playful witty conversations is what most girls lo…
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:03 AM
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100%. I never got girls until I adopted the mindset of having fun first. Think about it, if your not good at game, and then you add the pressure on yourself that you HAVE to get laid to have a good night, your setting yourself up for failure!! I went from 4-55 in a year by not caring at all. That’s not to say not to flirt! Of course flirt, grt better!! But don’t make your sole priority to get laid! I’m telling you, every time I did that I never got laid!! Not once! It put SO much pressure on me …
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:09 AM
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It can work, but just how you play it. My gym crush was doing yoga next to me while I was as well. She was doing an impressive move and I looked at her and said, “wow that’s really impressive, im trying to work on this” and showed her. We ended up chatting for 30 min and went on a couple dates. That was my first time doing it, but what made it feel different was that it was a natural fun convo where I wasn’t really flirting.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:57 AM
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This is the answer
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:18 AM
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Was in your shoes homie. Hooked up with close to 40-50 girls in a year seeking this “validation” and all I found was depression. The only person who can validate you is yourself. Seeking happiness from others will never make you happy ❤️🙏
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:17 AM
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Sums up my experience. Went from believing having sex a lot would solve my issues. Only now realized what I actually wanted was someone to have a meaningful relationship with. Went from ~7 - 50+ in a lil over a year and was enjoying it until I wasn’t. Just endless meaninglessness sex. Now after many dates I tell girls I don’t do hookups. Quite the switch up!
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:32 PM
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I agree. I make eye contact with everyone super naturally now. I find it weird how so little people can hold eye contact very long. Whenever I’m chatting with girls I hold strong eye contact without even realizing I am. Retaining 2.5 months now and attest it all to this
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:48 AM
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Sound like me. I can be very witty, playful, flirtatious for a bit, but I really love deep introspective conversations to get to know them. Agreed it can potentially kill the vibe but I can’t be playful, charismatic forever. I’m deff a introverted extrovert
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:33 AM
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1000% man. Adjusting my game to just getting to know her and joking around has made game a lot easier. I come across as indifferent and just fun banter with no ropes attached. The girls sense that I don’t care that much, which lightens the mood since they sense I’m not talking to them ONLY for sex.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:20 AM
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I mean ya, all of those things are key but it’s how you do it that matters. Like many have said, the best tactics are having fun and carefreeness which allows you to do all of this subconsciously
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:54 AM
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100%. I’ve been picked up many times because the girl really fucked with me and my energy. They saw I wasn’t just after sex but tryna get to know them. Women are people, not objects
/r/seduction23/11/21 07:23 PM
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Sure, DM me
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:52 PM
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Learning body language and reading it comes with practice. Like I state in my post, I’ve had hundreds if not thousands of encounters. I learned from failing. There’s not much else I can say specifically because I’m not you. You might think your encounters are going well but until I can see for myself I’m just relating what worked for me. Gym wise I go 6 days a week. M/Th - chest/tri T/F - bicep/back W/S - Shoulders/legs I’m usually there for about an hour working out. Very short breaks in betwee…
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:09 AM
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Your targeting one specific thing I said compared to the essay I wrote. Go through top of my post history. I wrote a very detailed account on here that got over 1k likes.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:37 AM
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Alright negative Nancy, believe what you want. If your life is so miserable you have to belittle someone trying to help you then so be. As someone who has had much success I was just giving some advice. I feel sorry for you. Hopefully you adjust your depressing mindset
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:30 AM
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Well I’m constantly wrong. I’m constantly adjusting things and tweaking things. Seduction is not a clear cut book, it’s an ever evolving game. I’ve eaten my words hundreds of times before, idk what your getting at
/r/seduction22/11/21 12:38 AM
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Ehh don’t think so far into it. Maybe she realizes she’s showing too much affection and pulling back. Honestly the game is stupid and I’m personally tired of it. Just be you, and if it works out cool! If not then you can find someone else
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:13 PM
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Exactly. I realized I’m an introverted extrovert and need to warm up before I pull. I’m well past 50+ lays and have had no issues. Gotta work with your own personality
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:11 PM
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Working out is a sure fire way to gain natural confidence. I tell that to all guys who aren’t good/don’t workout, because that’s how I started before I learned game
/r/seduction21/11/21 03:07 AM
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Awww, that was sweet. Ya dude your so good. Reading it it felt like the start to a relationship, so your fine
/r/seduction21/11/21 03:03 AM
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Do what you gotta do. Takes me an afternoon to get into the flow, but honestly once I’m out having fun then approaching isn’t so bad.
/r/seduction21/11/21 03:00 AM
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So if it wasn’t a “date” type thing I would think you are fine, but I just know from experience some girls would get jealous from it. It’s hard to give an accurate opinion since I don’t know the type of girl it is. It sounds like your good with girls so you deff know the type I mean. Could be a fuck up with one girl and could be the best possible move with another.
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:33 PM
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So what is your point? Why the assumption 100% of girls are there to get fucked??
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:26 PM
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1000% Was in a frat so 90% of my fucks were one night stands after just meeting. Fucked me up mentally, and became very depressed. No true personal connection, but rather superficial/surface level liking. Now I don’t have sex nearly as often because I pick based off if we vibe or not.
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:47 AM
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Ok, so it’s after a certain point in the convo. If it was the initial message, then I would lean more towards just guys being horny/ being very upfront. If you guys are flirting in the messages and he says that then it’s just escalation on their part
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:41 AM
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Your probably not going to like it but it’s by failing many many times. Going from introverted with girls to charismatic/fun took a lot of work. You have to first get the idea out of your mind that every girl you think is cute that is nice to, you then plan out your whole life together. It’s weird and nonsensical. I’m good with women, but let’s say that I always go 1/10 for the rest of my life. I wouldn’t care because after failing so many times I’ve conditioned my mind to know that it’s not a b…
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:36 AM
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I feel like it’s a fault of social media/ porn. Now guys put women on a pedestal since they see them all the time through a screen rather than in person. Your right though, women are dope as fuck and I’m so happy I worked on mindset
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:30 AM
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Honest truth? You have to get rejected. I’m talking over and over again. It sucks at first, but over time your ego settles down and doesn’t care. After thousands of encounters, I understand not every person will like me. That’s okay, and most of the time it’s not personal. The ONLY way you will became very good is failing. Over and over and over and over and over again until one day you realize you are winning more than losing. Some nights I get it after 1 encounter. Some nights I go 1/20. At th…
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:28 AM
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I’m best when I’m having fun myself and making myself laugh. Almost everything I say is lighthearted and cheerful. Try to enjoy the vibe of the place you are at first then try and flirt
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:22 AM
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Depends on the type of girl you are dealing with. Some girls will view you as more appealing since you’ve proven you don’t need her and can fuck other girls. On the flip side she could think it was insulting and think less of you. Also I would factor in how the interaction was going with her in the first place. Was it cheerful and flirtatious? Or was there not a lot going on which is why you seduced another woman? If you really wanted to get with her then i doubt you would have seduced another l…
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:16 AM
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I think your viewing it from a narrow viewpoint. I go to the club to have fun, not get girls. If I do? Cool. If not? Cool. Most girls do the same. I’m sure some really want to have sex (I have brought girls home 10 min into the convo, but that is extremely rare) but I highly doubt majority go there for the sole Intent of getting laid. Girls naturally have an abundance mindset since 99% of the time they are being pursued. Majority of guys who have not been laid often put this huge burden of fucki…
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:11 AM
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From someone who has learned game, you have to be upfront. Most guys won’t notice the body language or subtle hints girls give off. You gotta be really nice and talkative with them for it to potentially click. I know early on my issue was overthinking everything. A girl could be trying to grind on me and I thought well she’s not FULLY grinding on me so I shouldn’t pursue. Be blunt, and straight up and you will have success
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:03 AM
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That’s so strange to me. I’ve been with almost 70 women, almost entirely ones I met out. It’s way easier in a fun setting. Online dating is usually more formal
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:21 PM
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I’m confused then. How the hell did you get with 80 girls from that? How are you getting with these women without being good at getting girls out and at clubs/bars?
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:07 AM
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So what is stopping you? Have you learned from your mistakes and improved? Do you workout? Do you pursue multiple girls a night or quit after 1? I was horrible with girls, but deeply reflected on the interactions and learned from mistakes. Some nights I would flirt with 15 girls to go home with 1. Doesn’t bother me. Point is I got rejected 9/10 times at first, but after tons of encounters I polished my game and improved. I didn’t get with the 10/10’s until I had worked up to that, which took a l…
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:03 AM
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100%. If he’s doing it off the rip I wouldn’t recommend that. Gotta flirt and build up to it. Especially at a rave on molly, that tension makes it feel amplified. Think about it this way, foreplay is the most important step with sex. Makes the sex and climax so much better. Flirting, especially on molly, with built up sexual tension makes it way more fun because you feel that energy slowly rising. Raves make it easier but you still gotta seduce them
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:55 AM
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I had a wonderful relationship for many years from that experience that ended mutually. I agree, most of the time it probably won’t last but it’s not impossible
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:48 AM
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IMO this is the first step i recommend to getting good at seduction. I go out to have fun, not pull girls. Women always end up around me. Putting pressure on yourself to get laid is obvious to women. I’ve been with a lot of women not because I really really wanted to, but because I could care less. Girls see I’m indifferent to it, which shows I’m a guy who can get other girls, I don’t need sex. By just having fun and just joking around with girls like they are your boys with some flirting and yo…
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:46 AM
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1.) After a couple eye contacts i usually do. Girls sense the fun care free vibe you give off and will want to be around that. 2.) like someone on here said, two step is my usual and it really works. At raves I’ll go harder but for dance clubs keep it simple. 3.) I’m not much of a dancer tbh, I’d rather just flirt with her and get with her, but if you want to dance I would still flirt with her first. Don’t be that guy that Grinds up on girls. 4.) I was in a top tier frat and we only wore streetw…
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:38 AM
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You honestly summed it up perfectly. I’m a two step guy and just feel the music. The moment I finally said fuck it was the moment i began to feel the music and let loose. Ever since then I’ll dance sober or not, I just enjoy dancing.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:30 AM
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Similar to me, but it wasn’t boredom but depression that got me. Youd think a guy with about 70 girls would be happy but i was the most depressed I’ve ever felt. I almost became to feel like an object for a while. Realized what i desire is true emotional connection rather than superficial. I had a wonderful 2 year relationship that ended mutually, and now I’m back in the game but this time time only pursuing girls I vibe with. Example was 2 nights ago at EDC. Met a sexy blonde, beautiful body an…
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:23 AM
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I’m around 70. You would think I’m crazy when I say when I was fucking girls left and right I was the most depressed I have ever been. Frat douche life was fun but realized over time that I wasn’t happy. I began to realize that none of these women knew who i was really, because all they saw was the smooth talker I showed. I was very good, and circumstances allowed me to have an endless supply of options. I had done it! I had found success in an area I lacked for most of my life. I always believe…
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:14 AM
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And? Im giving you an example. I was goodlooking and fit and barely had results at the time. Obviously if you are fit, attractive and charismatic it’s easier, no denying that, but two factors are in your control. If you do workout, then I would work on charisma which is all this guy had. I know you believe it’s impossible, but are you really gonna accept the status quo?!
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:51 AM
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It at the very least showed her you are shy. Think of it this way; if you are talking to someone and they keep looking down or away would you think they are listening to you? Probably not. She initiated conversation and you basically showed you aren’t interested. I get it, your nervous, but it’s because you view women as a Goddess. They are people. Good way to practice is having as many small talk scenarios with girls you don’t find as attractive. reason being is because you will not feel nervou…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:41 AM
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I’ve seen many examples where that is untrue. The first case I ever saw was this hefty guy in my hometown. You looked at him and then at the girls he was making out with and thought ??? Turns out he was fun to be around, and treated the girls he was interacting with like they were his boys. The girls always felt happy around him, and with a little bit of playful flirting, he would get with them. So how did he do this? Wasn’t money nor looks but rather his mindset. He treated the girls the same w…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:33 AM
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If that’s the case fuck em. Why would you want to be with a girl who doesn’t have similar interests as you? After sleeping with many 10/10’s, I’ve realized how much less I enjoy the company of a 10/10 that I don’t vibe with. I will pick a decent 6/10 any day of the week because we click, and I feel like I don’t have to play the game. My point is, you should be pursuing girls who you genuinely like as a person rather than looks alone. It makes the conversation genuine. If you are talking to a 10/…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:26 AM
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Hmm, personally from what you said she is atleast attracted to you. I’m a decent looking guy and get looks but not to the point where I’m getting stared down. It could mean she is really into you, and is confident enough to basically be obvious to you. Balls in your court now. I get your shy but if you are directly interacting with her, you gotta atleast feel it out in person. Just have some small talk and see if she is happy to see you or indifferent. If she’s into you, she will be happy to tal…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:17 AM
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Would highly stress the importance of listening and not interrupting. I feel like many guys say they don’t know what to say, but I found it was because I wasn’t actively listening. I know I wasn’t! See, many guys are so desperate to get pussy that they genuinely aren’t interested in the person. You think you are, but you are not. You view women as an object rather than another person, which is why guys put women on such a pedestal. I used to view it as a show of worth and it showed. After being …
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:55 AM
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I would add getting good at fun banter with anyone. Banter with women wherever I go is always fun and basically is practice sessions for me when it comes to seduction. See to me, banter is such a key attribute to my own success. Bantering with people you talk to for a bit never really is sexual at all, but mostly just me being cheerful and cracking jokes or something. I think this is such an easy way to increase your success ten fold because seduction is mostly witty banter with ladies. If I’m n…
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:04 AM
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Personally I would never mention not wanting to be a creep or that you don’t know what to say. It might work for you, but from my experience telling a girl you don’t want to be a creep will have her thinking your a creep. When I shoot my shot, I kind of go all out. What’s there to lose? I’ll say something like, “If falling in love at first sight is real, I think I just fell over 😫” You might think it’s weird but DM’s like this have worked on every dating platform. It could go one of two ways. Ei…
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:38 AM
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I get what your saying about not flirting with girls which is fine, but you can still have fun banter. I do this with almost every girl I encounter just because it’s more cheerful and charismatic then what they are used to. Don’t have to flirt at all, but getting really good at fun lighthearted banter with guys or girls will go a long way. Banter leads to witty remarks that you weren’t even aware you could do. And if anything ever happened with your girlfriend, you will be fine since improving f…
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:26 AM
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Don’t listen to any dating coaches. If I could recommend one youtuber to watch who embodies what I feel is the best way to pick up girls is Jack Denmo. He exudes confidence and doesn’t give a fuck if the girl/s are into him or not. Congrats on the sex!! I’m so happy to hear you had 5 seconds of fuck it courage, that’s sometimes all you need
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:17 AM
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I’d add on that depending on how you deliver that line. Personally I’d reply almost sarcastically, leaving room for a little tension/flirty. I’d do it that way because I still want to maintain my playful, flirtatious demeanor as well as telling her that’s fine. Talk about a power move. She says no sex, she’s testing you to see if you are desperate or not. And if it didn’t happen, that’s alright. The point is that I don’t take her taking sex off the table that seriously. Sex is normal for me in m…
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:05 AM
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Fuck no, you didn’t get lucky!!! You earned it. Most guys would have seen the extremely obvious signs she wants to fuck and they chicken out. I did it plentyyyyy early on. Like hello? She wants to escalate this, and your in your head double guessing whether or not she wants to do something? You can’t expect to initially read body language very well, but the more encounters you have where you are present minded, you will pick up on common body language most girls show when interested. Im sure som…
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:56 AM
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Of course looking good and being in shape helps, let’s not deny that, but your mindset when you go out should be that you are going out to have fun with your friends and dance!! This kid I went to college with got with 9/10 girls yet he was decently overweight. How is that? Simple. His persona exuded one of not caring what they thought of him as well as being very funny subtle flirting. The reason I said the mindset above is key is because many guys ( myself included) would put so much fucking p…
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:47 AM
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Anytime man. I’m always down to share my knowledge. Going from introverted and afraid to talk to girls to 60 in a year 1/2 was due to mostly my mindset and carefree attitude. Appease yourself man, make yourself laugh and they will too. If they don’t think it’s funny or don’t get it, who cares? I think it’s funny. Just ignore it and say something else. Talk to girls like you would with your best friends and you will see how much more genuine you come across.
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:16 AM
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Compliments a compliment. Girls will rarely go out of their way to say your cute! I love when girls call me cute because it’s usually based off my looks and personality which to me is more fulfilling!! Handsome to me is what girls call a guy if they are not unattractive but not super good looking either. It’s like the equivalent of calling a girl pretty. Own that shit bro, take the compliment with a genuine smile and maybe say something random like “wait are you hitting on me?” How you deliver y…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:56 AM
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When I was fairly new to seduction, id get ready to go out and would watch some comedies like the office. It just helped me to be laughing, plus watching a witty comedy show put me in the right headspace. Your mindset is key going out, and if your going out to have fun instead of pulling girls you will be shocked how easy it is. Girls want to have fun, of course some want to go home with someone, but majority are they to have fun! Most guys come across as creepy because your mindset is one of “i…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:49 AM
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I agree, guys overthink everything! I know I did!! I thought girls were some kind of complex puzzle when in reality I was putting them on such a pedestal. Now, I’m at the point when I can feel the sexual tension now whether that be her body language, how she’s talking to me, and legitimately feeling the energy in my body. Those guys who know what I’m talking about, that energy is very very noticeable but requires you being fully present with the girl your chatting to. Get out of your heads fella…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:41 AM
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I blame the YouTube gurus for putting it into desperate men’s minds that they need to have a bunch of witty lines ready to go. What is this, theatre? If your having genuine fun and listen to what the girl says to you instead of not listening while your in your head sweating to think of a witty line. Good banter with girls is completely random and whatever comes to mind first. Some of my favorite encounters with girls are ones where I’m bantering with them like I’m joking with my boys. I call eve…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:38 AM
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You said it much more concisely than I did, but yes! Besides working out, this is the most important unspoken aspect of getting laid. Girls want to be around fun, childlike energy. What I mean by that is kids couldn’t give a fuck if they look silly!!! Mindset is everything! Before I put so much pressure on myself when I would go out to get laid. Guess what? I crumpled under the pressure and went home disappointed with myself. Now, I say fuck that. My squad and I are going to feel the music and f…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:32 AM
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Glad you figured it out!!! That was IMO the greatest difference in me attracting girls and not. If your having fun doing your thing you appear in a happy, blissful childlike fun! I dance like a madman!! Am I good? Maybe, but I fucking own whatever dance moves I’m doing. I think for women they can feel the positive fun energy, and are much more likely to find themselves by you on the dance floor. I went from no girls to 50! Go out, have fun!! Men who are already nervous put such a stressful goal …
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:26 AM
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I think you figured out the key to game. When your out with the intent of just having fun, it makes it easier to approach since your in such a childlike carefree manor. Ever since I switched that mindset up I’ve had way more success
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:30 AM
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Getting fit is by far the easiest way to build actual confidence. Look good feel good
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:42 PM
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I’m very good with girls, but even I couldn’t just walk up to girls. I have to warm up. I’m deff a introverted extrovert, but in order for me to become a extrovert, I need to talk to just run of the day people. Bar staff, cashier, shop clerks, etc. After I talk to like 15 people I’m usually in the mood to be more talkative. I also in a sense like to “flirt with everyone” what I mean by that is that I like to have fun jokingly banter conversations with people because that’s how I flirt. By doing …
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:14 AM
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Move on, it’s not that serious. We all have to come to the realization that not every one of the billions of girls will like it. It’s a number game. If I approached girls and got sad after the first time I got rejected I’d have like a body count of 5. Some tough nights where I would talk to 15-20 girls in order to secure the bag but guess what? All the matters to me and my buds is that I secured the bag. No one cares about your failures and neither should you
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:10 AM
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So to me, the thing that really clicked for me was going out for the sake of having fun with no expectations. See I believe putting that pressure on yourself that “we gotta find girls” often leads you to no girls! Atleast for me lol, but I started going out with the thought of, “ Wolfbee, we’re just gonna go have fun, meet people, dance and just have genuine fun!” After adjusting my mindset girls would find themselves around me or I had built up enough fun, carefree confidence that having witty …
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:07 AM
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100%!! Prior when I had like a body count of 3, I had the false sense that in order to complete me or make me feel whole I needed the validation of a hot girl wanting to sleep with me. After getting like 50 in one year it began to make me really sad inside. I had completed what I thought I wanted and yet I felt sadder than ever? I realized that what I really wanted was to be happy with myself and I was looking for external sources to bring me my own happiness which is silly. Girls are great and …
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:55 AM
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Exactly, like to me it’s just not as fulfilling on a soul level like it was. I was horrible with girls and after getting fit (Which IMO being fit is THE easiest way to build legitimate confidence) and building confidence it just became fun. Don’t get me wrong, theres nothing more fun then having a few drinks and having a fun banter with a cute chick but after that nights over I’m always like “now what?” It’s temporary gratification and afterwards I have nothing to show for it beyond just other g…
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:12 AM
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Meanwhile I’ve been with over 60 and feel sad because I feel like majority of those women never liked me for me… i promise the luster wears off quickly
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:39 AM
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I was a man whore for a year or so and after a while it took a toll on my mental health because I Came to the realization that the girls only liked me because I was a smooth talker/ good looking. In a way I almost felt objectified and that none of those girls actually liked me for me
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:37 AM
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I went from like 6/7 to mid 40’s in one year, if you look at my top post of all time I wrote out a pretty detailed post about everything I learned in that year of game. I’m still really good at game now but i don’t go out like I used to. Out of everything I learned, to this day the best thing I do is just have fun/fuck around with them making myself laugh because it’s more genuine
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:35 AM
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I also tell people it’s really not all it’s cracked up to be. My bc is in the 60’s and mentally I’m at a point where I enjoy the flirting but get down on myself because I feel like girls never like me for me but just because I’m good looking… it’s hard to put into words and people think it’s bragging but it’s truly something that just makes me sad a lot
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:32 AM
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I think this works based on how you say it. If you say it’s jokingly it could work but if you just say it straight up idk if I would do that .
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:03 AM
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Agreed 100%. I went from getting no girls at all to over 43 in one year, and funnily enough I was the most depressed I’ve ever been. I thought fucking girls would bring me happiness but in turn it was a temporary bandaid for my own demons I hid.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:19 PM
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Also I’d recommend jack dorsey on YouTube. He’s very good and does sober day game
/r/seduction28/06/21 02:19 PM
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See it’s funny because i just hit 50, which to girls could show me as a hot commodity but to us guys that would tell me she’s a hoeeee.
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:20 AM
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Agreed, I’m just got lucky #50 so I attest to all the tips. The biggest thing ive learned is that you just have to be playful. I talk to girls with the intent of making myself laugh and fucking around and usually girls dig it cuz my aura is one of not caring/confidence.
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:16 AM
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I find im at my most witty when I watch a witty show or podcast not too long before I go out
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:07 AM
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Tell me more about you, I’m someone who went through the same thing and turned into a chick magnet. (Look at my post history to see my step by step to getting any girl)
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:45 AM
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I’d agree, i enjoy the validation of being able to pull attractive girls rather than the act itself which sounds kinda bad but from where I started that’s what I enjoy most.
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:52 AM
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Impressive. Within the last year I went from 2-45 and it’s dope but tbh I’ve come to the conclusion that game is what I’m truly into rather than getting with the girl. To me it now seems superficial and I just don’t enjoy it as much as when I first started racking up my #’s. Ya I keep track because for me it’s a pride thing since I used to be the ugly duckling who couldn’t even talk to any girls. Congrats on the poon though, I hope youve been checked tho :P
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:44 AM
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Im a bouncer so I can prob help. Always hold eye contact and smile at girls and I usually warm up by talking to everyone because I’m a natural introvert. I’d say when it comes to your vibe it’s something that you gotta work on. I try to have fun with everything and give off a playful vibe as much as possible with high energy. Im not naturally like that but forcing myself usually gets me in that mindset. If a girl approaches you just be casual and smile a lot and give off a sexual vibe. It’s hard…
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:40 AM
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You just have to be in the moment and enjoy it. Her clit is your friend and if you can get her off before your pants even come off you are already solid
/r/seduction31/10/19 05:09 AM
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See for the longest time I thought I never knew how and looked for steps in how to do so. It’s really simple, just smile and say hi! What’s your name? I move around the room and talk to everyone. I don’t start by talking to girls but rather warm up with guys then I’ll branch out. Girls love to talk so if you can just genuinely ask questions usually you can branch off their responses. Be in the moment! Get out of your head! I tried thinking of Witty things to say but never could until I stopped t…
/r/seduction31/10/19 05:05 AM
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Exactly. Had this happen early in my day. Had a girl I thought was perfect and outta my league like me so I put her on a pedestal. Guess where that led me? Ghosted lol
/r/seduction04/10/19 07:20 PM
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100%. Putting anyone on a pedestal will drive them away. Neediness is unattractive to everyone over time and having other options shows the girl that you don’t NEED her but enjoy her. Have an abundant mindset. Girls in my experience are emotion based and like what they can’t have.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:00 AM
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Put yourself in a position where you are forced to talk with people. I know not everyone here is in college but I started working at a night club where i was forced to talk to people for hours. Over the last 4 months I’ve learned a lot and realized how easy it is. We overthink everything and the moment i got out of my own head and was in the moment is when I found success. Most important things I’ve learned: Tone of voice- say things with confidence. That means you have to speak up! Mumbling wil…
/r/seduction13/08/19 01:57 AM
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For my bros in college, work at a night club! My social skills have gone up ten fold by working at one the past 4 months. Sober or drunk I can talk to almost any girl. Working sober I watch and learn from watching guys. I practice different things on girls and the best part is there are an ample amount to talk to. I have learned so much but I’d say the most important have been body language and tone of voice. Getting good at those will give you results. Most of the time I’m chatting up a girl I …
/r/seduction13/08/19 01:44 AM
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No? If the vibe is right and you feel in the moment I don’t see how that would be sexual assault?
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:32 PM
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Honestly I have gotten pretty good at dancing over the past couple of years and my positive energy and carefree-ness does a lot of my attracting for me. I go at it 100% and don’t half ass dancing and it’s so much fun. See I’ve learned it doesn’t really matter what you do but timing it and within rhythm is key. I wasn’t always good but since I stopped caring about what people thought while I danced it came across as more authentic and not forced. I Grinde sometimes but rarely do anymore, because …
/r/seduction09/07/19 11:35 AM
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Happens. If the girl is horny enough and drunk sometimes it doesn’t take much? She said she wanted it for over a week so the buildup was there
/r/seduction04/07/19 12:50 AM
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Looking for the same thing. I went from bad at game to good fast. Can pickup a girl from a bar but can’t keep them around for anything serious
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:21 PM
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What? Im either misreading or don’t see the problem. Imo bud you’re just over analyzing it
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:37 AM
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Exactly. I remember the first girl that liked me was a 10/10 in my eyes and I felt lucky that she liked me. 2 hard heartbreaking lessons later I am in a place of abundance talking to atleast 6 girls on a daily basis. I would not be the man I am today without those hard lessons but I am happy I went through them because I would have never changed. In the moment you feel like you’ll never have women but it eventually fades and 2 years later I look back and laugh at how much oneitis I had.
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:38 PM
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100% jealous. The fact you aren’t giving her details too makes her even more jealous. Girls love what they can’t have and seeing you happy with another woman instead of he drives her crazy. Girls love the chase and you are offering it to her rather than her bf which she is “settled” down with
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:01 PM
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I show rather than tell. If I have a girl I’m interested in at the bar I make sure she sees me flirting with other girls and having fun. Shows her I don’t NEED her. Don’t make it too obvious but it shows her you can pull other girls
/r/seduction24/04/19 03:48 AM
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Happens. Took me a couple times before it was normal and i wasnt nervous
/r/seduction16/04/19 03:16 AM
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When they say don’t chase it doesn’t mean not to go for girls, but to have an abundant mindset. The moment you give them 100% attention and do everything to try and make her happy you lose her. Go for girls, but don’t put them on a pedestal
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:41 AM
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I invited her inside and she agreed. At that point I already know she is somewhat down because of accepting to come in. I kinda work up to it with foreplay and shit.
/r/seduction14/04/19 01:25 AM
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See that’s where I used to mess up as well. I would watch endless videos on WHAT to say rather than HOW I said it. Girls notice the small details while your talking to her. Just be confident in yourself. It’s harder at 8am but maybe wake up earlier, workout, listen to some music and assure yourself you are the man. In short, just ask for her number and try to set up a date shortly after. Not too much contact. I won’t tell you exactly what to say. You need to grow by trial and error or you’ll nev…
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:03 PM
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Bc means because and 20 is a number that shows that I’ve had a lot of ladies but not fucking a lot. Whether girl is impressed or not, I tell them that. 35 would turn a lot of girls off. The ED like I said is stopped by feeling the sexual vibe. Good luck
/r/seduction13/04/19 05:56 PM
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Either works. I just assume that if my first impression was good enough they’d hit me up but I agree, getting her number has better results
/r/seduction13/04/19 05:47 PM
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Literally had a girl 2 nights ago I took on a date go from “not looking to date” during dinner to “you’ll have to wait till our second date” when I tried to escalate sex. Just cuz she says it doesn’t mean she can’t change her mind. Contact but minimal contact.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:32 AM
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This is me currently. 1 1/2 semesters in and I’m at ~25. The sad part is i don’t even know if I enjoy it or not. I seem to enjoy the “clout” of getting laid and having my Greek setting see than actually doing it. Idk. It’s nice but does get tiring quick. But I can’t lie, it’s been nice to explore many diff girls bodies and try things out. Just wish I could remember most of their bodies is the problem now 🤔
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:26 AM
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This. If your making out in the car, just be like “why don’t we continue inside?” Just shoot. If she says no, then no big deal, but this is your best shot.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:21 AM
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I relate a lot to this. Left HS with a body count of like 6-7 and barely any experience. Now I’m at 35 and haven’t looked back. I was so scared of talking to girls and was not confident at all. Over the last year I’ve transformed myself mentally into a state of abundance. In the beginning a lot of the sex was kinda bad because I knew I didn’t have a lot of experience which lead me to the scared ED. Happens and will prob happen to you. All I can say is that with more practice you will get better …
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:17 AM
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Ok, so you are 15 and she’s 21? You fucking stud. Good shit already. Anyways ya don’t call. Try to always chill in person but try to escalate as soon as possible so that you aren’t friend zoned. You gotta make your intentions clear. Are you her friend or a sexual man.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:01 AM
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Ya don’t listen to him dude. Listen, just next time your in class just go up to her with a smile on your face. “Fancy seeing you here” or something along those lines. Be like “I like your vibe, we should grab food sometime” and give her your number. See the truth is is if you don’t present well and say it with confidence and like you mean it it might not work. Unfortunately shit happens, but if it doesn’t workout re-evaluate what you could have done diff. Tone of voice. Posture. Care free. etc a…
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:59 AM
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Is it bad? No. It’s not bad. Atleast your doing it, but it’s not great to be able to only do it drunk. Try and harbor your drunken tendencies like more confidence, not caring as much, etc.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:50 AM
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Damn I wish girls cared this much about trying to fuck me. Maybe I just don’t realize? Anyways, I’d meet up first to make sure he’s not a creepdick. The dude should make the move though. I’ve been with plenty of women and I’ve only had maybe 1-2 that went for it on me. In our minds we literally look at every bad scenario possible, but I’ve gotten good at trying to feel the sexual vibe then once I do I shoot. Hopefully he mans up. Bottom line. If I were him and knew your scenario 😴😴
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:48 AM
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Hey, some of us here came to this sub as newbies and have matured so we can deff give input. In regards to OP, I agree with above and not say anything. Keep going with it as usual and just watch what she says and how she says it. She probably likes the thought that other girls want you because it’s a sense of pride. You should know soon whether or not she truly likes you because then you’ll hang out for even longer and want to spend time
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:42 AM
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Glad it worked out but never ask for a kiss. You gotta go for it and if she pulls back atleast you tried but asking usually is awk and doesn’t work
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:45 AM
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I like to tease girls and make fun of them playfully. Like the guy above said, you gotta work up. Im good at game on the days where I talk to people most of the day, then go out at night. By then I’ve been chatting all day so talking to women is more fluent
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:37 AM
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Yep. Sounds sarcastic but it’s the truth. We are too in our heads and will not truly listen before speaking
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:11 PM
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Just described myself now
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:29 AM
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I agree 100% with what your saying. See it’s hard to put into words exactly what I’m doing and thinking because it’s constantly changing. I gauge every girl and adapt how I feel they are. You can read if a girl is open right away. When I discount them you gotta understand that the manner in which I do so is playful and flirty. If I said it with a serious expression of course it wouldn’t work. Like I said, words cant truly do game justice but if you look at a previous post i have on here it goes …
/r/seduction28/03/19 08:12 AM
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Exactly. Getting laid is nice, but initially I was scared because of lack of practice. Luckily I’ve gotten my awk experiences out of the way 😉
/r/seduction28/03/19 02:16 AM
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Nah, fuck that bro. I haven’t gone out alone before but many times I wander off from my party. Idk when im drinking I like to wander. Anyways I just meet people. I’ll go by and talk to dudes idc, Just to keep the chatting mentality up. You’ll see girls by bar just casual talk. No pressure man
/r/seduction28/03/19 02:14 AM
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This is something I want to know as well. Im struggling with this now. I have a couple scenarios that could turn into fwb but I’m not sure how to approach or even bring it up
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:56 PM
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Just by this post you already have told me YOU believe you have low self esteem. It’s a MENTAL GAME, and not one you can easily hurdle, but have to work on gradually. It took me over 7 months to finally have an abundant mindset and life has been far better. Talk to everyone, freestyle in your free time to get better at coming up with things on the spot, and don’t give a fuck. She doesn’t like me? Cool. She likes me? Cool. I have the same reaction for everything and know that not every girl with …
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:54 PM
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Look at every “rejection” as a learning experience and they’ll never be bad again. If I get rejected I laugh it off and try and find out what I could have done or said differently. You’ll never pull every girl but you can work on getting there!
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:24 PM
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Agreed. I’d rather live a life of atleast I tried than what if.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:23 PM
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I agree. In my post I tried to combine the two because I know exactly how majority on guys felt when learning game. I have hundreds of failed attempts and just got denied 2x last night as well. The more you try the more you realize that there is not a SET way to pull every girl, but guidelines for doing so. My usual frat boy cockyish style which usually works for me at my Uni got me called an asshole 2x ln so I realized what my mistake was, made some adjustments then proceeded diff with the next…
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:37 AM
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Hmmm seems similar to what I posted not too long ago. Thought it was coincidence till I saw the lean in arm around tip. Don’t mind because it’s universal and the rules are the same but found it funny.
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:42 AM
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What’s a good example with day game? Im good at night game, just need day game help.
/r/seduction21/03/19 11:06 PM
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What?
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:46 PM
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Outside I pull girls regularly. Other than this last week, I have gotten laid by atleast a diff girl every week since like mid January and
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:54 PM
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See that’s the thing... I go insanely hard at these things usually with only a few drinks in my system. I just love the music and love to go hard
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:57 PM
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Yes! I can't believe I forgot about raves. My first rave is what made me realize that I shouldn't care about what people think of me while dancing and ever since then I dance like no one is watching! Its a wonderful environment where you meet some amazing people. You are 100% correct too with his mindset going to a rave. Over my last few months of success Ive come to realize that my priorities were backwards! Get laid Make connections Have fun See thats where I fucked up. I would leave fun event…
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:16 AM
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Ok so I will start by saying this. YOU. ARE. FINE. Absolutely nothing you said had any bad red flags or anything that would give you a negative vibe. You are overanalyzing every little thing you do so of course you'll see those flaws. I used to do the same thing and still catch myself doing it even now. So I also had a speech impediment growing up. I had a really hard time pronouncing the "th" in "the" and a bunch of other things. I tend to speak really fast and slur my words. Now I try and slow…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:13 AM
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I go to a big university that is known for the women and parties so my scenario isn’t that shocking if you knew the college. Now, why don’t you ask your gf’s? I ALWAYS ask them to hook me up, even if I don’t plan of fucking whoever they introduce me to it still gives me another connection. Give me more info about your scenario and I can give you advice
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:11 AM
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Ok, so I’m an introvert as well. Most days I’d rather be in my room alone. I need to cool down and social interactions usually drain me. That being said I still get laid frequently. How do I do this? On the day I know I’m going out I’ll just talk to as many people as possible leading up to the evening. Before I head out I usually pregame a little bit and blast music, hype myself up. I like telling myself I’m the fucking man and shit like that. By the time I leave I’m already in a good state and …
/r/seduction12/03/19 07:44 PM
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Look at my post history on this sub. I have a very detailed guide of things that I have learned and applied over the past ~6 months. Just to give you some idea, I go over: 1. Eye contact 2. Body language 3. Tone of voice 4. Kino Etc. into great detail. Check it out!
/r/seduction12/03/19 05:40 PM
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Social circles and making friends with girls are KEY! Im in a fraternity, (not saying you need to join one) and it has been far easier to get laid. Having girl friends too is wonderful because they can hype you up to their friends. Meet people, make connections and GO when you are invited or try to make plans. Once you have your few groups of girls who are friends don’t fuck more than 1-2 of them. Trust me, it can get bad lol
/r/seduction12/03/19 05:38 PM
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Nervousness, I stay away from texting personally. Just act casual and just talk
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:09 PM
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Sounds good to me, maybe something else after then leave it at that. Talk in person
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:40 AM
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Well then just try and be confident. I have had only a few movie nights without anything involved so I can’t give much input. Just go for it, like I said if not, then you get friend zoned unless she’s the only wanna date type
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:21 AM
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Get some chill lights off of Amazon. Im telling ya, having dope lights instantly sets mood and having like a candle or some scents. She knows what she is there for, so don’t pussy out. Arm around, waist when y’all sit. I’d do couch tho, idk I feel bed instantly isn’t a good vibe. When the movie starts I go game immediately to gauge what I’m workin with. Pay attention to how she reacts to everything you do then slowly progress. I love going for the thigh or lower back. From experience girls are r…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:49 AM
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Simple answer man. Don’t put a girl on a pedestal, EVER. Never ever do it. Look at my post history on here and you will see where I go into detail about what women want in a guy. Begging for her will push her further away. You HAVE TO BE YOUR OWN MAN. Have the fucking manhood to put your foot down when you need to. I don’t know how well this relates to your situation but it’s the same idea. A girl I vibed with wanted me to go with her to buy her and I a drink. It was a rave type setting and i wa…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:43 AM
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Talk to her in class? I understand it’s not a good setting at all so it’s hard. I like playing the barely talk on sm then see them out approach but it’s a little hard here. I’d just dm her, get her snap. Be like “ I knew you’ve been eyeing me in class, you gotta be a little more low key girl, what’s your snap?” Something slick like that, but capitalize fast. Have a chill night or something very soon so you can bone this chick. Wine gets girls horny asf but for me it just makes me tired. If you c…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:36 AM
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Didn’t read the entire thing but I agree with challenging women. I use it all the time now and it has worked wonders for me. The hard part when doing it is having to understand that every woman is completely different from another. I’ve lost girls because I was too challenging and I’ve gotten 10/10 because I was just right in how challenging I was. You have to gauge each girl that you meet and you will know somewhat early on how much you can get away with. Don’t be too challenging with nice girl…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:30 AM
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Act like you really want to know stuff about her. Be engaged and an active listener. Talking points will come when you let her talk. Don’t think of witty comebacks when she’s talking, but take a second to ponder then reply. I’ve gotten really good at this and it has worked wonders. When I talk to a girl I’ll make eye contact with what she says and smile as I’m talking and act like I care what she’s saying. Your body language and tone is read by a girl instantly so learn how to recognize your own…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:21 AM
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Ok so I’m in kinda same kinda boat when it comes to game and the environment to pull. You did nothing wrong, played it well. The thing you posted irked her for whatever reason but fuck it, on to the next. I mean sounds like she was a hoe regardless so fuck it? I mean you could have fucked but then you go through the fact she’s probably annoying on the inside. Fucking is nice and all but you still gotta chill with them one on one after. Let it go bruh, I’m sure you pull enough so that one fuck is…
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:13 AM
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No, which is funny because people will ask if I am. I just go really hard at these events I guess. Your right though, hop on it while I can
/r/seduction04/03/19 03:32 AM
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Fraternity at a big university. I was as self conscious and shy as possible but forced myself into an “uncomfortable” situation for me at the time. I’ve just learned a lot in a short time and have had the perfect social setting to tweak and try new things.
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:56 AM
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Ya your right, it kinda depends some girls are down some aren’t cuz they feel like a hoe? Idk. I’m just looking for some advice more on how to be slick like I am at night.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:05 AM
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Okay, I appreciate the feedback! I was hoping for some more advice from people but I’m glad someone replied
/r/seduction03/03/19 02:59 AM
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Yes. Flirt with everyone. I experiment and try new things. Some might say it’s wrong but I view it as a fun encounter where we both had fun
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:48 AM
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After matching have your initial opening and whatever pickup shit your trying. After success and getting SC set up a meeting within the next 2-4 days. Any longer is bad because that initial interest probably disappears. Don’t text them. Save every talking point you have for when you meet in person. Never show your hand before seeing them in person.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:44 AM
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He’s not wrong. Obv most girls have morals and won’t fuck on the first date but that’s not to say it’s impossible. If your slick enough you deff have a chance.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:41 AM
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It’s interesting. I thought I wanted the same thing. I went from really having no girls ever to over 25 BC in a short time. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a lot of fun seducing women and fucking new girls a lot. Every encounter is new and the way I have to pull them is almost like a game for me now. Seeing their bodies is always like a new achievement on my bucket list. Thing is, I’ve somewhat gotten tired of it. I just feel that there is no true closeness and intimacy that you receive with a SO. obv …
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:38 AM
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Exactly. After many trial and errors you will get better at reading girls body language. She can’t fake that. If she is giving you strong eye contact, smiling, getting close, biting lip, pushing back hair, facing directly at you, open posture. I could go on. If she was flirtatious with you and did a lot of what I say she just might be shit testing you. Idk girls are weird and all shit test differently. At the end of the day you gotta do you and show it. Don’t consider it a loss. Could be a long …
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:30 AM
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Practice. Im telling you man it’s simple as that. Eventually it will be second nature and you won’t even have to “force it”. Allow it to come naturally.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:24 AM
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I am in a top tier fraternity and can give you advice on what I have learned. I have a big event too tomorrow! Hopefully we both slay. Anyways, I was like you. I was afraid of having sex because I knew I really had no experience at all. “Lost my v card in a short time and hadn’t since cuz anxiety trying/ ED). Anyways I always would kinda shoot down for sure sex encounters because of it. Listen man, you learn by trial and error. Simple as that. Won’t sugar coat it. Many of my first experiences he…
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:22 AM
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Exactly. Messing up confidently is far better than polite/awk approaching. Like you said, just having the balls to do it leaves a good first impression
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:02 AM
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Every encounter is a learning experience. Every failure is something you can put away in your brain and work on. Every encounter I look back on and figure out what I could have done differently. Things out of my hands I don’t worry about. Just focus on things you can tweak to eventually lead to you becoming a stud
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:50 AM
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As someone who didn’t care before I promise you actively listening and trying to care will improve your attitude towards it. I didn’t care but I forced myself to start trying to talk to everyone. After a year I have gotten far better. It sucked at first but now it’s simple to talk to a person. You are on this subreddit so obviously you are looking for a solution. Well here it is. Man the fuck up, recognize what you want to change and actively work on fixing it. If you think you will ever change …
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:37 AM
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What is that?
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:30 AM
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Exactly. Girls know how to pull the right strings but rarely do unless you look like zac efron. Accept it guys. That’s how the world works and the sooner you can accept it is the sooner you will have success. As a guy we are “supposed to approach”: I might not agree but I’ll play along because most guys won’t and guess what? I get laid. Man up guys. Talking to girls is not as difficult as it appears.
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:29 AM
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I agree 100%. I have take every single fucking “bad encounter” and learned from it. I came to my college as an introvert who couldn’t talk to any girl. I fucking promise you it is not that hard. Get out of your damn head and listen to a girls response. Guarantee your heart is beating and you are thinking of a witty response while a girl is talking to you. Breath. Take a second to think what she said then respond. Far better than half ass retorting something while she is talking. Listen and think…
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:19 AM
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Another point I forgot to add is NEVER fucking admit you have no success with women. Jesus man, that’s the worst thing you can do. You already firmly placed yourself in the friendzone with every girl you told that to. I casually mention other girls to my “girlfriends”. I don’t force it. When I am at a bar I will flirt in front of every girl I meet. Example- I meet a girl I vibe with a lot and at having fun? I will say it was nice meeting you, get her info then move on to another girl. Shows I Do…
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:15 AM
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You are 100% correct. I am in a top fraternity at a top tier “party” college and I usually don’t have girls approaching me. Just a casual conversation is enough to pull some girls. I have gotten to the point where I’ll just attempt to talk to everyone around because why not? Worse case scenario I talk to the person next to me. Guys. 99% of girls will not approach you unless they know you. Get used to it. Have fun. Have a positive vibe and smile. Have fun with the people you are around. Don’t tak…
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:04 AM
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Listen guys I’m going to be 100% real with you. As someone who was too afraid to approach at all im telling you it’s not hard at all. I guarantee everyone in this subreddit who needs help has the mentality of getting laid whenever he goes out. FUCK that. My 2 priorities when I go out are to 1. Have fun and 2. To meet as many people as possible. I used to tell myself that if I didn’t get laid I didn’t have a successful night. Fuck that. If I fuck dope. If not dope. That mentality alone is better …
/r/seduction23/02/19 09:51 AM
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Advise for warming up for an introvert? When I’m in the zone I can pull any girl but when I’m not in mamba mode I feel awk. I’ve learned I have to work up to it but any tips you have that might speed it up?
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:33 PM
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Appreciate it! It also helps me to reaffirm what I’ve learned when I have others who say it works! I know it works but it reassures. Any questions lmk!
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:31 PM
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Haha I thought it was me at first but I’d have to be 23 for it to work
/r/seduction01/02/19 10:09 PM
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lm so confused it says deleted
/r/seduction01/02/19 09:01 PM
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Hahaha I never saw that, that’s funny
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:16 PM
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I can’t emphasis this enough! Ever since I’ve changed my mentality from “im going to get laid tonight” to “im gonna go meet a lot of people and have fun!”I’ve had better results. Girls love guys who do their own thing un-phased and can be fun to be around. Girls are all about emotions guys, so go have fun!
/r/seduction01/02/19 01:00 AM
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Exactly! Thank you, scarcity is important. I wouldn’t have gotten certain lays if I didnt “ignore” the target girl and flirt with others. Made her insanely jealous
/r/seduction31/01/19 06:08 PM
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Exactly. Have to start somewhere. Glad you’ve been practicing eye contact because that was a game changer for me. Just talk to everyone and become a better conversationalist first, then worry about the flirting and stuff after. Just start small
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:03 AM
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Those are great for day game! I haven’t done a lot of day game myself so that’s still an area I’m growing in! Appreciate the tips and I will deff check his page out! Any questions you have feel free to shoot.
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:00 AM
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Like in my post, I walk like McGregor. Arms loose, taking strides, showing utmost confidence. Make eye contact. Keep your posture straight. Just work on the small things first and relax! Don’t take life so seriously!
/r/seduction31/01/19 12:54 AM
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Just off of your response you are already overthinking it. I NEVER think about what I’m doing. Practice by yourself at home and put on some loud music and try and FEEL the music. That’s the simplest way of putting it. If I’m not feeling the music I wont dance.
/r/seduction31/01/19 12:52 AM
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I have not! Everything I have learned have been tips I’ve read on this subreddit as well as personal experience. Mostly personal experience tbh. And YES! Having a mentality of simply going out to please yourself and have fun is far better than “the hunt”. First off you put pressure on yourself to find a girl or you feel down on yourself. Ever since I switched up my mentality I’ve had FAR more FUN and have met lots of people. Funny thing is I never try to but it just leads to it
/r/seduction29/01/19 11:48 PM
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I go to a big university and it’s very common which is why I find it mostly believable
/r/seduction29/01/19 05:36 PM
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Same way bro, I’m an introvert who gets tired easily haha
/r/seduction29/01/19 05:35 PM
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Even if it isn’t your seen pussy is still pussy ya feel? Im of the mindset to just pursue. But I feel that, my scene is bar/dance club.
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:07 AM
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Should of pursued more bro! If two girls are making out with you off mostly eye contact along that’s usually the type of girl whose easier to seduce. If they began to walk, maybe grab their arm and pull them in again? Idk, but you for sure should have done something! Congrats nonetheless and keep grinding!
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:03 AM
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3some story 👀?
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:00 AM
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That is savage as fuck on her part
/r/seduction29/01/19 08:59 AM
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That’s what I’m saying. I watched them all, even simplepickup back in the day. Juan is by far the smoothest.
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:03 AM
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Dude... you have every tool you need already! You know how many guys would kill to be in those shoes? Shit I’d love to have blue eyes! You are already good looking so what holds you back? The PAST! Leave it in the past. You are in the present and you are a handsome motherfucker who can pull whoever he wants! Act like it! Gain that mamba mentality. Become the man. Embrace it. What I would recommend to you friend is to talk to a lot of people through your day. Just talk a lot, about anything, but …
/r/seduction29/01/19 04:06 AM
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Work on yourself first. Obv your in a situation where you can’t meet as many girls so you know what you do? Start simple. Talk to EVERYONE you can. Become a better conversationalist. Talk to 5 random people for a little bit then try and approach a girl and see how much easier it is than not talking to anyone then approaching. Talk to girls you find unattractive to. Just practice your conversation skills so that when you do have the ability to go out, you’ll be ready. Practice the small things fi…
/r/seduction29/01/19 03:59 AM
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Im 6’0 and im in good shape. I used to work out but college life has gotten the better of me. I wont sit here and tell you that appearance doesn’t matter because that’s a lie. Initial interest is sparked but how attractive you are... until you talk to the girl. One guy I know is 6’3 blonde hair blue eyes and in good shape, problem is he used to be fat so he’s insanely shy. Has trouble talking to ANY girl even though they’ll go and talk to him (yes he’s that good looking). I give that example bec…
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:49 AM
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No need to apologize friend! If you need any other advice I’m happy to help.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:40 PM
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I don’t believe so?
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:38 PM
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Exactly. Your in that flow state which is what I aspire to reach. People have to realize that you suddenly don’t change overnight, but it’s a gradual turn for the best that takes numerous failed experiences to work. Like I said previously, people have to understand that my success is because I failed so much.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:38 PM
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Exactly. And believe me I do ask them. Im not trying to brag but I am in a top tier fraternity at a university that is known for having some of the most beautiful women in the U.S. so a lot of what I have learned has come from these women. It’s funny because some of the things I’ll ask them about, for instance, “what if a guy is clingy?” They say they are into that but there actions show otherwise! I haven’t asked about hugs yet but I feel like asking about that might be a lil weird tbh, but wha…
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:18 PM
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Thanks for the reinforcement. Like my post says, you HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT IN EVERYTHING YOU DO because girls will notice the slight sign of insecurity. It sucks, but that’s all there is to it. Change your mindset. I always hype myself up hours before going out. I’ll listen to Travis Scott concerts and sing loudly and dance, gets the blood going. Reason I do that is so I feel more comfortable. I’ll also yell im the fucking man and that I’m a G. Sounds silly but it works for me. These guys saying …
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:10 PM
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Deff not as much. I do but maybe like once a week or two weeks. I try not to because 1. Don’t want dick to be stimulated by a video 2. When you actually get a girl naked you won’t be turned on (happens). Im subscribed to a lot of porn subreddits here but I barely look at them, because porn imo isn’t even close to how real life is. Sex is usually sloppy, sweaty and not as “pretty” as it’s in videos. Gives you a false sense of reality imo
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:03 PM
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Still though! Practice at home alone if you are too uncomfortable doing it in public. Try it out!
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:16 PM
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Exactly, look at women as normal people, not another species. If that girl made a comment about the drink I would have retorted saying, “ I like to have a fruity drink, what’s wrong with that?” Call her out on it and make her try and tell you her reasoning. More than likely she’ll see how stupid she sounds.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:14 PM
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Exactly. That’s why I like to ask them what they are passionate about. Usually gets them talking for a long time then I’ll mention what I’m passionate about. Having hobbies and things you do on a regular basis shows the girl your not some weirdo staying home all day playing games( old me)
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:59 PM
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Exactly. I agree 100%. That’s why you just have to learn from experience because so much of game is being able to know what kind of situation you are in.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:56 PM
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Thank you! My goal was to try and be as genuine as possible. When I wrote it out I was laying in bed. I didn’t write down anything beforehand, but winged it off of my experiences and personal revelations. I feel like being in college gives me a great opportunity to really understand the psych of women because I’m constantly having functions and events with them so it’s forced me to learn game quickly. I will be posting more things I learn frequently because it not only helps others, but helps me…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:51 PM
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1000% this guys. Movies lie to us. Women don’t want a guy that is emotional with them. They want a strong guy. Once you begin to overdo the “friend” card your doomed.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:41 PM
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Ok so if I wait for a woman to escalate I’m missing out. I’ve had girls who are super shy that wouldn’t escalate at all. If I take your advice I don’t get laid because I’m waiting for them to escalate when in reality they won’t. Don’t overthink it dude. Too much kino is creepy but a little every now and then is fine. I judge how much kino I should do based on the girl. Everyone is different and there are scenarios where I wouldn’t because the girl is obv not into the convo at all. You just gotta…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:35 PM
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Exactly. Too much kino comes across as creepy. It’s something you have to learn by doing because I can’t say a specific amount of time I keep it for, I judge in the moment based off the girls body language and if she’s enjoying the convo.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:32 PM
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Exactly. Now a wing man is great when there’s two girls and you want a one on one with the lady, but having a girl excitedly introduce you to her friends will help significantly! 2 nights ago we had a pregame where I met a bunch of new girls I’ve never seen before. I talked to all of them a little bit but I was dancing and having fun at our pregame teasing different people and just overall having fun. Next thing I know I’m invited into the bathroom with all of them taking snapchat stories and ex…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:31 PM
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There’s your problem. Your going the friendzone route. I never talk about relationships or other guys. They can bring it up to me but I won’t add much input if any. Showing you care about her “boy issues” WILL put you in the friendzone. That’s why I try and establish touchy kino. Usually guys who are “friendzone” wouldn’t be establishing kino right from the getgo. When you first meet a girl she more than likely determines if you are or not. Come across as a cool guy whose playful and confident i…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:25 PM
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Why? Obv not all scenarios are the same but why not? Obv is she’s smiling and open go for it. How can it be bad advice? Your escalating and showing kino. I don’t leave my arm on her either, I’ll say what I’m saying with the arm on then take it off after I’m done. Maybe you misunderstood? Im not leaving it on the whole convo. Sorry should have been more clear
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:13 PM
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Ok! I’ll read it and comment after my class! I promise you if you are attractive then it’s far easier than you’ll believe.
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:03 PM
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Give me some examples. Im in clas now so you got some time! Im sure I can help!
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:01 PM
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Like I said, whenever I meet a new girl or see her again I hug. Just how I’m wired now. Now that is a good gauge and there’s plenty of times I’ll hug after too but I gauge it off the vibe and situation. Now when knowing when a girl wants to kiss is something I could write about if you are interested. Seems you have a good idea now but lmk if you’d like my thoughts on it!
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:41 PM
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Maybe misread? I might have worded weird but I’m trying to convey that when I had 0 kino I never got laid. When kino became a normal part of my game I got laid 3x more than I did. Yes 3x0 is 0 lol, but I’m trying to convey the effectiveness that is kino
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:39 PM
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What is your situation like? I can offer some help if you explain your circumstances
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:37 PM
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Exactly. I feel no remorse because it’s never a scenario where I’m enjoying myself and she isn’t. We both are having fun. I’ll even dance around the group of “ugly girls” just because I like to dance and have fun regardless of who they are. I’ll often leave my own group for a little bit in the night and walk around and dance with people I see that are having fun too! Easy way to meet new people. People love positive vibes so you going hard with another group going hard guarantees they’ll enjoy y…
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:35 PM
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Ok so your first to ask about dancing! Dancing is something that I feel. Not forced. I FEEL the music, the vibes, the atmosphere. It all goes back to my first edm festival. I tripped off ecstacy and felt like I was one with the music. My body just did whatever. I never think about my dance moves ever. If you do it comes across as forced or weird. I’d say put on a concert live and just dance. Enjoy the music. Feel it, embrace it! Practice and practice! Thank you for your post, I will be happy to …
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:32 PM
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It 100% helps. I wont lie. But there are things we call can do to improve our minds and how we operate. Have you seen RSDMax? Do you think he’s particularly a good looking guy? He’s not bad looking but at the same time pulls sooo many girls. It’s because he’s cool, calm and presents himself as a guy just having fun. Girls love that kind of “flow” mindset. Someone who doesn’t take themselves so seriously.
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:25 PM
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Sorry to hear about such hardship brother, I haven’t dated anyone since I was scarred so I’m not worried about that too much yet. I told myself I wouldn’t date anyone at my university either because it’s infamous for being one of the biggest party schools in America
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:23 PM
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Ok, so no, I haven’t gamed alone. That’s a goal of mine is to but I haven’t gotten there yet. All of my success has predominantly been in the club/bar scene. Now when it comes to how I started? It started because I was tired of “having so much potential” (what a friend of mine said) made me open my eyes. Enough was enough so I forced myself into a lot of awk encounters but did it nonetheless. The ONLY way you will improve it practice. That’s it. I gave the example of starting with girls you find…
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:21 PM
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Appreciate it! Any questions feel free to ask
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:18 PM
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I don’t just abruptly leave, I’ll put my arm around them and say I’m gonna get a drink or that I’m gonna walk around a little bit. Simple. Say it with intent. If you want details I’ll say it as I’m looking around the room, then I’ll glance back at her, smile then say I’ll see her later on.
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:17 PM
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Ya never add someone on snapchat without asking them directly first. There are occasions but I’d say 9/10 ask them directly.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:12 AM
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Im in college now and have fucked a lot of my girl-friends. We’ve never brought it up tbh. The problem lies if you start doing it more frequently. That’s when I think it should be brought up, not fucking every once in a while.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:11 AM
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Use them!! Girls are amazing wing men! Go out with them and you will see a difference. Girls are far more interested in the guy with 3 girl friends at the club than 4 dudes. Shows your comfortable around women
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:08 AM
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If you have her on SC or insta, post with other girls. Nothing gets a girl jealous like seeing a guy with another girl. I try and use this tactic as often as possible. Some might call it manipulation buttttt I get laid so who cares? Whenever I meet someone and finish conversing with them I’ll talk to another girl somewhat in vicinity so that the girl can see. Last night my swoop got insanely jealous and even told me so that night. When flirting with other women and having the girl laughing, enjo…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:06 AM
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Hmm. Are they together now? I’ve been in a work scenario similar and it was kinda awk at that point. Maybe not for you. I’d just be friendly. If you don’t know much about her start with basics. I’d say not to overthink it. Easier said than done lol. Works a tricky scenario cuz you don’t want to express interest and be denied cuz then your stuck seeing them all the time. I could say to just not think about it and still be friendly but we all know that’s hard to do. Idk man, I would just go with t…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:50 AM
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Of course, that’s why I put my age and that I was in college so that people understood where I was coming from. You might be able to use some things but ones like “saying random shit” probably wouldn’t do much to a woman in her 30’s midway through her career. Hope i atleast could inspire and motivate! Enjoy life as much as you can and chat up everyone and see what it can do for ya.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:41 AM
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Biggest take away I want people to get from this is to not take shit so seriously. Learn from your mistakes and don’t over analyze everything you do. See what you could have said or done better and move on. Having a care free, flow state mentality is what I strive to achieve! One day I might achieve something close. Cheers bro!
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:39 AM
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Aww I’m flattered! I really wanted to help those who struggled like I did. It sucked but we can all do things to better ourselves! If you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask!
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:32 AM
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Have you approached? A little hard in a work environment I’m sure! Best of luck
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:31 AM
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Explain further?
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:00 AM
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Haha, looking back I meant that obv he’s not faking it but that I’m not “trying to hard”. I just let it flow and it makes it more natural
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:23 AM
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Haha I might be able to give some insight but i gotta think about that. Maybe tomorrow
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:00 AM
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Exactly. Im not even close to understanding game and I’m already a lot better off. Only up from here!
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:42 AM
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Hahaha this is gold
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:41 AM
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If I do a handshake it’s a firm one. Loose handshake shows lack of confidence
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:21 AM
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Ok, when he says manly and deep I don’t think he means change your voice. I believe it goes off of what I said about saying things with confidence. Say it definitely like you fucking mean it. You could be talking about rainbow unicorns but if you sound confident doing it what does it matter? Ln I talked to a girl about fucking hippos like wtf?
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:18 AM
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Of course, don’t act different but don’t put her on a pedestal. Girls realize that shit so fucking quick. I’ve been dropped a couple of times in my early days because of it. I thought they were out of my league and treated them as such. They don’t want a fanboy, they want a strong independent man who don’t need no bitch.
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:16 AM
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Lmaooooo I love reddit. Thank you for that
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:12 AM
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I’ve had 7 diff girls in the last two weeks 😁
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:12 AM
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It’s late for me. Im in a very social fraternity and seeing these guys here made me feel somewhat inadequate which motivated me to change.
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:12 AM
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Ok so when it comes to plans, I usually reach out 2-3 days in advance, that way she has time to let you know. Reach out and that’s it. Judging from the response, it’s a no go to me. If a girl is truly interested she’ll make time. With that being said, I would still msg her saying “hey I’m going to (whatever place: bar/coffee/ etc.) Friday evening, you should meet me there.” And leave it at that. Saying it like that shows that you are going regardless of if she comes or not showing your doing you…
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:11 AM
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Well that’s a good sign if she followed back. Usually girls follow people they find attractive and since she doesn’t know you... more than likely the case. Now the thing is you added her, so it will be weird if you see her in person and don’t say anything. Imo dm’s rarely work but I’d give it a shot why not? Nothing bad comes of it. Your shooting your shot. Just msg her and say I’ve noticed you around campus and think you are cute, add my snap so we can make plans. Just keep it short and simple.…
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:07 AM
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Exactly. Go out and have fun! I’ve met girls plenty of times because they saw my squad and I were having so much fun and wanted to be apart of it. Work I’m having fun and vibing when you go out. The rest will come with more practice.
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:04 AM
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I understand where your coming from. First off, fuck your “best friend”. No best friend tries to bring you down. He should be saying how much of a stud you are. I played games a lot majority of hs so I missed a lot of social interactions. You can’t give up. Life is hard and sucks and isn’t fair but why let it get the best of you? Idk you man but cmon your better than that. You wouldn’t be on here if you weren’t trying to better yourself. Start slow, you can’t expect to go from 0-100. Get to 10 f…
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:03 AM
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Keep at it bro! It’s a tedious process that will benefit you so many ways in the long run!!
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:28 AM
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Great to hear! Im glad you are already seeing progress. It’s not easy, but I’m sure you feel far more confident than you did 5 days ago! Keep going and shoot your shot brother!
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:17 AM
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Do I feel bad? No. Is it kinda fucked up? Ya it is, but if I care about everyone’s feelings then I wouldn’t flirt in the first place. You could say me flirting with every girl I meet is fucked up since I’m kinda leading them on. But where else will I get practice? Am I just supposed to not flirt with anyone and stand in the corner?
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:53 PM
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Fair enough. Now I don’t hug a girl after I initially do. After we chat I say I’ll see them later on. Some girls I do. Last night a girl couldn’t go out so obv I hugged her and told her I hope to see her soon. To me, being as touchy as possible (don’t overdo it) builds kino and sexual vibes. When I never touched girls I got laid 0 times. Being bold and touchy has gotten me triple the amount of pussy. Again to each there own. If you get laid without doing that power to you!
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:39 PM
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Exactly. Like I stated previously, I never go out with the intent of getting laid. Puts pressure on myself that I don’t need. I go out to first and foremost enjoy myself. If you are having a great time other people will notice as well. Shoot your shot. The ABSOLUTE WORSE CASE is that they laugh at you. Who tf cares? Laugh at me all you want Bitch but atleast I had the balls to come talk to you. Just approaching is already a win in my book.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:35 PM
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Yes! Humans naturally loveeee to hear our names said. I wont say there names constantly but when it’s something important or flirtatious.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:29 PM
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Ah that’s one I forgot about! Mirror posture is a good way to tell if she’s interested. Girls who are interested sometimes subconsciously mimic your posture so that’s a good indicator she’s interested.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:27 PM
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Appreciate the feedback! If you have other pointers you’d like to go ahead feel free! Im constantly learning new things and love feedback!
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:26 PM
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I agree, looks do play a big part of initial interest. I hate seeing people say it doesn’t matter because it does. But the good thing is we all can do things to improve ourselves to make us physically more appealing.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:24 PM
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In my eyes, I look at it as a numbers game. I go in expecting that I’ll have 1 successful interaction for every 10 I try. I set it low so I won’t be disappointed and when I have better numbers it makes the night even better! Keep shooting man, that’s the ONLY way you will ever improve. I love that you laughed it off too. That’s the exact response you want. Don’t ponder it and be upset. Let it go immediately and move on.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:22 PM
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To each there own. I just know I’ve had insane success going for the hug. It’s only awk if you make it awk. All comes down to how confident you are in yourself. Im very confident in myself so when I give a hug it’s never an awk one. Last night I met 8 new zeta girls. Gave them all hugs and chatted them all up. Had a bunch of other frat bros there but guess who they all took pictures with and flirted with. Like I said if you have success, don’t change it, but I know 100% hugging with confidence i…
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:19 PM
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Ok so if I really just want to fuck this specific girl I’ll do everything I did then buy her a drink. Get her all chatty and dance a little bit. At that point I’ll turn up the sexual vibe ten-fold. I’ll be grabbing her ass, hips, etc. my go to to leave is asking if they smoke that good shit. If they say yes then I’ll grab them by the hand and lead them out. Girls like spontaneous things and you giving her no time to think, just bringing her out usually is successful. There are times where the gi…
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:05 PM
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Exactly. If they are talking about you after you leave you have already won part of the battle. Leaving a impression they will remember helps you get one step closer to slaying!
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:58 PM
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I appreciate it. I tried to come across as straight forward and no bullshit.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:56 PM
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It is a lot of what I see here, you are right, but I feel like I’ve added some things I haven’t seen. To each there own, Hope it helps!
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:55 PM
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Took way too damn long for me to figure it out. The BEST thing I’ve ever done was put myself outside of my comfort zone. Gotta risk it for the biscuit!
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:53 PM
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Ya, I rarely get the same night meet hookup. Happens but not often. Make your connection and see them again. Leaving a good impression gives you a great chance of hooking up another time you see her
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:45 PM
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Nope. Almost every recent success have been ones i have just met. First impressions can make or break you so show them you are a cool cat!
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:30 PM
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No way his is. He might? Idk but his interactions all seem genuine and I have learned soooooo much from him. He’s truly shown me how to be chill in those situations.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:28 PM
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I’ve struggled with depression too and consider myself an introvert. Socializing is draining on me so I completely understand where your coming from. But I didnt want to be quiet anymore. The best advice I could give to get the ball moving is to start talking to everyone you can the day you are going out. You can’t expect to be silent most of the day and then go out and be mr witty. Doesn’t work that way. I for sure would be horrible at flirting if I did that. It’s a gradual progression. Also be…
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:27 PM
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So basically when I say the chase i mean in regards to wanting a guy that isn’t super in to them. You can flirt with them but showing an insane amount of interest in them turns them off. When I’m at the bar I’ll chat them up for 3-8 min. Make a good short first impression. Establish some kino and say I’ll see them later on and go somewhere else. The point is to leave them intrigued. If you do it correctly, you’ll see them again either that night, or another night and guess what? She’ll be a lot …
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:23 PM
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Be bold. Girls respect boldness I promise you. I hug them EVERYTIME I see them. Even if I saw them yesterday I’ll still hug them. Like I said every girl I meet I go for the hug. I’ve yet to have a girl decline. Some even have extended hand out and I’ll retort with “im a hugger” and go for it. No hesitation. Like I said we have to get out of our own heads because we put thoughts in there similar to what your saying. Go for it. Shoot your shot. Be bold. Girls will respect the bold asshole far more…
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:16 PM
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I wont lie, I haven’t dated too much. Im also in university (Frat life) so I haven’t decided to settle down yet but my tips still apply I promise. After you set the date through snap/text leave it at that and say I’ll see you then. When you guys meet up just talk about basics at first but listen to what she says and bridge from there. If you still have nothing, I always go with “what are you passionate about?” Show genuine intrigue and ask questions that aren’t bland. I like to challenge girls. …
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:13 PM
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That’s what I like to hear! Put yourself out there man. You don’t want a life of “what if’s” but a life Of I put myself out there.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:07 PM
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I kinda play a game with myself. I challenge myself not to look away first. It has helped a lot with eye contact because it’s become normal to me now.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:59 PM
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Meet LOTS of women. Like i said talk to every girl you can. The more you talk to them you start to look at them as just a NORMAL PERSON which is what I think a lot of us struggle with. I don’t really have an exact way to not fall for someone but I know from experience that surrounding myself with women has made it so I don’t get attached as easily! Any other questions shoot bro!
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:58 PM
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Appreciate it bro! I understand what your saying which is what I tried to do diff in the post. Just giving straight up what I’ve learned. Any questions you have im happy to answer!
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:55 PM
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Your correct, but you still have to be able to talk up a girl. How many times have you fucked a girl by barely saying anything? The only time it’s ever happened for me is when I was drunk and saw a tinder girl I matched with but didn’t msg. You still got to put in some work, pussy doesn’t fly to you instantaneously.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:36 PM
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Exactly. If I’m trying to vibe with a girl and she’s clearly not about it I’ll just walk away. I wont give them any satisfaction. They are the weirdos for being so cold. Plenty of other girls out there just waiting to be chatted up!
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:34 PM
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From what women have told me, successful dm slides are few and far between. Did she follow you back as well? I’d msg and say something to the degree of “here’s my #, msg me so we can make plans sometime” if she msgs you great! If not you know she’s not interested. If she does msg you establish plans and THATS IT. Leave it at that.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:26 PM
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The club is a tricky thing. You gotta understand that the girl is most likely drunk or tipsy so their looser. The morning after they feel more regret and “hoeish”. I never msg the day after. That’s your first mistake. Wait a couple of days then send something simple. “I’m going to (whatever place, bar, coffee, club A) you should swing by!” 1. It shows that your not making direct plans with her. Your going to the place regardless of if she goes or not. Less pressure on her already. Leave it at th…
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:18 PM
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Honestly bro kino is how i get the sexual vibes going. Looking into their eyes when talking, smiling occasionally. Teasing them. All things you can do to establish that vibe. I don’t really say anything that’s sexual for say but I show I am a sexual man by what I do. I would start slow with just being able to hold a convo for a bit. And show INTEREST!!! If you show genuine interest a girl is much more likely to chat you up too. And that goes for all interactions! Show genuine intrigue in what th…
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:13 PM
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I also highly recommend thatwasepic. Juan is a good looking guy but his conversation skills are something to be marveled. Like I said, the day of your event get out sooner and go to a coffee shop or something and start a small convo with the cashier, ppl in line, etc. gets the social ball moving . I also listen to music that gets me fired up. Motivates me. But yes, practice practice practice! That’s the ONLY way you will get better. Who cares if you embarrass yourself? What’s the worst that happ…
/r/seduction27/01/19 08:24 PM
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Lay off for a bit. You made the mistake of 1. Let’s get breakfast and 2. Let’s get dinner. Way too much after first night. In the morning girls feel somewhat regretful in my experience. Probably has nothing to do with you. Like I said you are already putting her on a pedestal. Her behavior and body language should have told you not to pursue too much. Leave and message her again a few days later is what I would have done.
/r/seduction27/01/19 08:01 PM
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Are you in college? It’s never too late dude. Better late than never right? Im 22 and just got good at talking to girls within the last year. First off I wouldn’t talk to a girl that long. 5-8 min then go grab a drink, meet other women. Nothing in my experience turns a girl onto you like seeing you flirting with other women. I have girls crazy for me not because I’m some kind of super hot guy or anything but because they see I don’t need them, I can talk to these girls over here. Sounds like you…
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:42 PM
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Fuck it, you can msg both. Kind of fucked me over though last night. Obviously flirted with 3 diff girls and they all ended up pissed and I went home with no one even though all 3 were initially down :(. Play it safe but just know girls tell their gf’s EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:25 PM
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Don’t text back. Show you have a life too. The moment you start answering everything she asks she’ll know that you put her on a pedestal. It’s ducked up but that’s the game
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:23 PM
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As in?
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:36 PM
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Think of it as a numbers game. I say I’m successful if one girl is interested out of 10. Failure isn’t failure if you look at it as a learning experience. Don’t be so in your head. Keep trying brother, I was at a low esteem as well and told myself I wouldn’t allow it so I’ve gone out and tried! You will be embarrassed, but you will learn.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:21 AM
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I only text when I want to make plans. I hate texting. We talk about SO many topics that can be discussed in person. I lost so many attractive girls in my youth because i wouldn’t leave them alone. Makes me cringe but i learned. Have your own life, show you are your own person. And yes, have other girls to go to. Nothing makes a girl more attracted to you than seeing you with other girls having fun. I’ve tripled the amount of girls just by doing that. They see me as a guy now that doesn’t NEED t…
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:14 AM
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You have heard it millions of times already but the answer is still the same. Just do it. The split second you have is what makes or breaks you. Either walk up immediately to her or you stand there and overthink. You could make eye contact and smile and see how she responds but I’ve found just walking over is best. Shows clear intent. Practice. Embarrass yourself. If you don’t think it will happen it will. You can learn every trick in the book from God himself but you will still make a fool of y…
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:10 AM
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One more thing I want to add is practice. That is the single greatest thing you can do. It was hard and I embarrassed myself plenty of times but I learned. Whenever I see someone I try not to think but just go over. That split second makes or breaks you because 9.5/10 you will overthink it and kill your opportunity.
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:06 AM
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What is your setting? College? Hometown? The best advice is get out of your own head. You say you have a lot of great advice but can’t apply it to yourself? Why is that? Simple. You overthink it and start flying through step by step what you should do. That was my biggest issue. You want to be in a flow state. Im in college so idk how well this applies to you but I try to find a girl whose having fun, smiling, dancing. they are already in a happy mindset so when someone also in a happy vibe come…
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:04 AM
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Im in a fraternity and this happens a lot. Super annoying cuz sometimes you won’t have a friend around atm to wingman. Just flirt up the target girl and get her snapchat. If she’s interested she’ll usually snap first, if not, one later on in the week say we’re your going. That’s my final attempt. If she doesn’t I just move on.
/r/seduction26/01/19 11:54 PM
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Move on. I hate texting and the only time I’ll msg the girl is to establish plans and that’s it. Shows you have other things to do rather than text her all day.
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:06 AM
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Exactly. I start the physical contact with getting close and putting an arm around them telling them something in their ear. Most effective way I’ve found but I don’t do it right away. I always introduce myself with a hug. After talking for a few minutes I’ll proceed by getting closer, playfully touching, etc. eye contact is huge. A guy who can look a girl in the eyes when talking is a huge plus. I know I avoided eye contact a lot, but since I’ve made it a goal to keep eye contact I find girls w…
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:03 AM
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Idk I’ve hooked up with 6 different girls in the past 2 weeks and honestly id say I kinda want a gf. One night stands are cool but personally it gets tiring. I’d just like a girl to be into me for more than the one night. Im in college too which is why it’s not as hard. Idk if your young I say go meet women, you have the rest of your life to be faithful but with that being said, you won’t find that intimacy that you get with a SO.
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:00 AM
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Well for one, I wouldn’t have it scripted. I’ve tried that in the past and end up sounding very awkward and forced. Just be like, “what are your plans for this weekend?” If it’s nothing then just say “we should grab a coffee during the day” keep it simple. Telling her she is the most beautiful girl in the class might work, but from past experiences say otherwise. Keep it short simple and sweet and leave it at that.
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:56 AM
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Practice man. I was horrible at talking to girls but you get better after talking to a bunch of them. If they aren’t friendly move on. I wont even say anything I’ll just walk away. There are plenty of girls who are there to meet people so find girls that are vining and enjoying being there
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:53 AM
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Exactly. Nothing gets a girl to want you even more like seeing you flirting with other girls. Used it last night and was super effective
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:49 AM
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If she is willing to come to your room she knows what’s up. Right when I bring them to my room I shut the door and start making out with them immediately
/r/seduction15/01/19 03:31 AM
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I know most people say you have to “feel it out” or “you’ll know when” and it sounds easier said than done but that’s the honest truth of it. You’ll feel the sexual vibes coming up. You’ll both be smiling looking into eachothers eyes. You’ll feel the vibe. I almost compare it to butterflies in your stomach but not a bad way. Now the only thing is I’m in a college setting so I’m not going on dates at all so I’m probably not the best to ask, but I figured I’d add my input as someone who was terrib…
/r/seduction15/01/19 03:18 AM
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Hair is good, your athletic built. Only thing that stuck out to change is get your eyebrows done whether being waxed or threaded. The amount of compliments I get when I get them done is worth the pain.
/r/seduction15/01/19 03:01 AM
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Not a bad idea! Might try that, why not. Im attractive but by no means the hot one in a bar. Trying to learn and grow!
/r/seduction14/01/19 12:09 AM
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Appreciate the advice. For my own personal situation it’s in a college bar. I ask questions and actively listen with eye contact but sometimes it doesn’t feel like they are as engaged. That’s why I’m looking for topics or ideas that might help?
/r/seduction14/01/19 12:02 AM
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I understand completely. Its like when we know 100% their attracted to us we dont know what to do. Im curious to see what anyone else says because i have similar frustrations .
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:58 PM
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How long have you been working out?
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:59 AM
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Thank you for replying, i was sad no one was gonna comment 😅. But okay. I just have to force myself. Just say fuck it.
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:56 AM
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In my experience, not escalating has cost me greatly. I cant tell you how many times i didnt get the girl because i was afraid to escalate. Go for it. If you are on a fourth date she obviously likes you. On the next date just reach for her hand. Hug her when you first see each other. Just go for it bro!
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:10 PM
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My brain is my own worst enemy
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:46 PM
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What if she's comfortable enough sitting skin to skin on a couch? I know it sounds silly but i mean i always tell myself in my head "its just friendly".
/r/seduction19/07/17 08:19 PM
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Appreciate it brotha. I will look more into the kino ladder and you are right. So many different people in the world and some might be about it while others arent.
/r/seduction18/07/17 08:22 PM
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