How do you know when to progress to physical contact or touching.

ApollosSin · 2017-07-18T18:35:30+00:00

Same. Just follow the Kino ladder. It's gonna feel awkward at first, wrong even. You're gonna get rejected, and told off. Hell, my coworker bitched at me for touching her shoulder. Not everyone is gonna be into it. People are weird, fickle, and have deep insecurities.

After a while though, it's gonna click and it's gonna come naturally. Best of luck man.

Ragondux · 2017-07-19T14:49:47+00:00

There are two potential problems with you touching her: maybe she doesn't like being touched, or maybe you're being creepy. You can't do anything about the first problem, so focus on not being creepy.

The easiest way is to convey that touching is normal for you (I know it's not). How do you convey that? Touch everyone from the start. On a safe place: forearm or shoulder. If you suddenly start touching her after a while and she's not ready, she's going to notice the change and it's going to look creepy.

A (very small) trick: I like shaking hands when I meet women I don't know. It's very socially acceptable, even a bit formal, but you touch her hand from the beginning. It's then a lot more normal to shake hands again after a bet, ask for a high five, and so on.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-07-18T19:05:56+00:00

normally i keep physicality low until i have pulled the girl to my place. you should not be trying to physically escalate on girls that you are afraid to lose. you have to be willing to accept that some of the girls might blow out. cultivate an abundance mindset and just begin escalating. first by cuddling, next by making out

recipricating · 2017-07-19T04:34:25+00:00

this type of question is easy to answer, but necessary to ask at some point. you'll find, simply, having a good reason to touch her will cure you of most those problems.

Title	How do you know when to progress to physical contact or touching.
Author	wolfbee16
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	July 18, 2017 6:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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