Okay so I have gotten better at game over the past months and have learned so much. The reason for this post is because I realized there is an important factor when going out.

MAKE CONNECTIONS!!

When I go out, I’ll chat up diff girls and establish myself as a fun outgoing guy. I chat them up for a bit then go somewhere else, usually to go flirt with other women. It shows the target girl that I can flirt with other girls too and that I don’t NEED her.

Establishing myself than leaving sets me up for a future lay. Im not trying to fucj her that night, but know that I had a great first impression so that next time I see her she’ll be happy to see me. I set the tone right away and let her know that I find her attractive, but to a degree. I discount them, and what I mean by that is if she’s blonde I’ll be like “your cute, but I’m not a big blonde guy”. Or “I gotta make sure your not crazy first”. It makes the girl feel like she has to impress you instead of the guy trying to impress her. I have the mindset of a high value guy and try to personify it so that these girls feel like they have to work towards me.

Next time I see them, I know I had a good connection and I’ll flirt some more. Sometimes it’s enough and sometimes I have to do a little more game. Eventually they usually are pretty much begging me to take them home.

The reason for this post is because I used to tell myself that if I didn’t get laid it was a bad night. Fuck that! Now I go out to 1. Have fun and 2. Make connections. If I get laid great, if not great, but I know that by the end of the night I established good connections for the future.

Don’t be nervous, but just have fun and DANCE! Nothing shows a guy can let loose like playing around and dancing. Shows you don’t give a flying fuck. I dance like no one is watching, which isn’t true, but I don’t even look at others because I’m in my own vibe having fun and girls love fun guys. We mistake guys getting laid as assholes when in reality it’s just guys doing their own shit without CARING what others think. There’s a diff between a docuhebag and not caring.

This tip is not too related but it’s something new that has helped a lot when it comes to thinking quick on the spot. I started freestyling all the time and have gotten a lot better over the last 3 weeks and I have noticed it has helped me a lot to think of witty things to say. Just my input!