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"We could date again" No broski, youve already given her far too mamy chances. She is refusing to change, thats just who she is ay her core. Cut it off. Shit call the police to get your stuff.
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:16 PM
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Holy shit, you're pompous, annoying, and an idiot. Get off the sub
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:10 AM
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100% low interest. Most people can and would forgo some social anxiety or fear anxiety when theyre geniunely excited about meeting someone. If not, shes probably got hella baggage and do you really wanna start something with someone like that? Espicially if they cant push past something so simple, or find a way to navigate through it. Most people who are workikg on themselves with this type of shit wouldnt set up a date in the first place before establishing a "safety-net".
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:13 PM
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"Hey, hanging with you has been fun, I was thinking we get drinks next weekend, no cats. Wanna go?"
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:58 PM
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Shit sounds like fucking horoscopes. Do you believe in those too?
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:04 PM
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Hahahaha yeah, was punching the air when I woke up 😂 100% gonna do that next time. She was fine asf
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:33 AM
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Yeah im laughing and cringing at myself rn 😂 Shit man, hopefully, but I doubt it, I dont stay in one place cause of my job, so would be pure chance if I do.
/r/seduction30/04/24 01:22 PM
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🤯
/r/seduction30/04/24 04:23 AM
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Yessir 👌🏾
/r/seduction30/04/24 04:19 AM
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Definitley did that 😂, but this sub is about how to get fucked, not how to get fucked up
/r/seduction30/04/24 04:19 AM
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Hahaha yeah, youre not wrong at all. Honestly, a bad mix of low tolerance, and not enough food. Went above my usual limits, and being drunk only amplifies my adhd oblivousness. Shame I cost myself a chance. Still was a good night tho 👌🏾
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:12 AM
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Self explanatory, but its also just a display of neediness. The more desperate you are for something, means the stronger "need" of it. Desperation comes off in many ways such as flattery and excessive praise in this situation. There's no logical reason she should be that "into" or desperate in a complete stranger, also known as you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:44 AM
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Word of advice, the more interest she off right off the bat, the less actual she has in you but in rather solving her own needs.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:09 PM
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What if you're wearing perfume?
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:31 AM
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Insecurities
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:38 AM
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......technically you cannnnn, that's why it's manipulation. It's just not ethical Plus you'd have to find some who's vulnerable already. A lot of work, for very little pay off. I'd rather manipulate myself to go to the gym everyday smh
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:18 AM
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Ahaha yeah, it's a common saying. It's common enough it's relatable and easy to get, but unexpected enough to be funny. Also, a very self assured response, which is how you wanna answer a shit test. You just need to give the right inflection when you say it, in a joking manner, and probably shrug as well lol.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:15 PM
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"Idk, my mom thinks I'm pretty cool"
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:02 PM
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Idk man. Not sure what caffeine does to you, but I literally can not function without it, but I have ADHD lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:09 AM
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It could be a date, it'd be justifiable in thinking so, but hear me out: She mentioned it, told you about it before hand. Said it was a friend, then made every effort to keep in touch with you on the way back. It's probably not a date, and she sounds pretty trustworthy. You can also just ask her, and it would be justifiable to do so. Just don't make it accusatory when asking.
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:23 PM
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This is good advice
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:20 PM
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?
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:13 AM
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Yeah I feel like generalizations of any kind when it comes to people are pretty bad. Only limits your perception and world view.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:01 PM
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I do the same thing whether I'm super interested or not. I just like to know what in responding too, before I have time or the motivation to respond to it. She told you not to take it personal, so don't take it personal
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:51 PM
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I disagree. In my experience, I wouldn't say it's a majority I've met a lot of attractive women that blow me out the water when it comes to conversation. A lot of the time, they're taken tho 😂
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:44 PM
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No, not saying it's a loss, currently, youre still hanging out so things could happen, I'd would just continue to hang out and escalate until she says no. She could just be nervous. Some women aren't forward with what they want. Just enjoy it for the moment and see what happens
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:21 PM
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Just because you mentioned it to her that you're shy, doesn't mean she understands. Or is even willing to accommodate your shyness. She could be shy too. Whether you like it or not, conventionally you have to make the move otherwise it's not gonna happen. Unless you find a really forward non traditional-ist but doesn't sound like you did.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:10 PM
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I have ADHD, was diagnosed as a kid, never went on it as a kid. The career I'm gunning for, airplane pilot, doesn't accept people with ADHD, so I'm trying to regulate it without a prescription. I take a lot of caffeine. How much has being medicated for it improved your life? Is it........ Life changing lol Also, did you ever try any other alternatives besides being medicated? The caffeine works, but I feel it doesn't work well enough tbh.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:10 AM
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Ay man, listen, you're the man in the relationship. You have to take the lead. Every single confident man still gets nervous. No matter what. What makes them confident is the ability to go through with it, even though they're shakey. Use the word date, make it clear. If you don't want to use the word date, say let me take you out. Either way you need to let her know it's a date, and that YOURE taking her out in a romantic way. That's because that's what you want right? So go for it. Secondly, if…
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:54 PM
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Honestly man, keep talking to her, it's clear to her now that you're into her. I say talk to her for two days max before asking her out a different day. Not a 'you owe me'. Although it seems like she's into you, it doesn't matter if she's into you or not. The point is you're into her, so you have to step up and see what's up. Ask her out because YOU want too. In those two days see how responsive she is to you. IF she's hella responsive and you guys still talk a lot, I would ask her out. If she's…
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:33 PM
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Says saying "Wait, why?" Is bad. Then says "Just ask her why". The fuck did I just say? Stop smoking crack bro, it's bad for your health.
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:22 PM
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You're cringe bruh
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:21 PM
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I mean you can literally tell her don't bring anyone, but getting heated about it won't do anything. If she insists on bringing someone else, it's not like you can stop her. All you can do is cancel. That's what I'm saying.
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:21 PM
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Good shit man, glad it worked out. Good luck on your date. Word of advice, there's a lot of dumbasses in this sub giving shit advice. If they're telling you not to treat the other person like an separate human being with their own feelings and values, it's shit advice. Only thing that will ever get you is insecure women and toxicas.
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:19 PM
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Shouldn't matter, but generally yes imo.
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:08 PM
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Okay, I guess you missed the "nothing more, nothing less" part of my post. Two outcomes here now tbh, if she's into you, she'll respond to that "Why do you want to bring more people." If she isn't, it's a loss, and a loss for future prospects. It's great to be ok with the fact that it's a loss, but it's better to realize it's nothing about you and not to react badly to rejection. Asking her 'why she wants to bring more people' is accusatory and just negative in general. Plus you're not a dumbass…
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:36 PM
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Kinda cringe to try and restrict who she brings. Any confident woman would take that offensively unless you said it in a joking tone. You can't tell people what they can and can't do, only thing you can do is choose how you, yourself moves foward with this new information. I agree with the cancel tho
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:54 PM
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Don't agree to go on it as friends. Only thing that is acceptable here is to take a raincheck with confirmation that it's an actual date. I don't care how much you like this chick, you don't want a one-sided experience with this woman who doesn't put in equal effort for you. Know your worth.
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:47 PM
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If you haven't answered yet, ask her "Wait, why? Is it gonna be a double date?" If it was actually implied it was a date, and she's playing dumb asking things like, "oh was this a date?". Just be like "Yeah, I thought it was, guess I got the wrong idea. My bad, let's cancel on this." Don't say anymore, don't say any less. If you guys were friends, just play it casual, don't give her any special attention. All in all, it's probably already lost, the only thing you can do now is not fuck up your f…
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:43 PM
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Youre insecure, lack confidence and self worth, and in turn are very prideful. Insecurity and pride go hand in hand. You sound like you assume the worst in everyone because you think you possess very little redeeming qualities. Fix those first.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:25 AM
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It's a mixed bag, literally had a woman tell me that she hates talking about it, and for me just to make a move. So what I do, is slowly escalate and judge from there. I don't just reach straight for her crotch like some kind of sex starved demon, but rub her arm, tickle her, kiss her. Whatever you want.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:22 AM
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I've been on vacation didn't feel like arguing while on it So then it's half your consent. Half you're control in. Take ownership for your actions. That mindset sounds like you let women lead all your interactions. Probably part of your problem. I can and am currently doing better with regards to women if that's what you're saying. If you actually want to fix yourself, take a look at yourself, tell me what you think is wrong and I'll give you some pointers. You know yourself better than I.
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:16 PM
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Most hookups in my opinion aren't about talking about everything and cuddling, and face timing. Neither is asking a coworker how you feel about her. That's showing interest. A LOT of interest. Take the hint my guy. She wants a relationship. Tell her you want one too. Or better yet, ask her if she wants to go on a proper date.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:53 AM
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"Yeah, for sure" Go back to your rotation
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:37 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Consensual is both party's agreement. So it's half you, half her. So therefore it's half in your control. No shit, you can't make up someone else's mind. That should've went without saying. Now what? Fix your shit attitude you sound pessimistic as fuck and I bet that translates to how you act, and how you treat and perceive other people. People, espicially women, can sense that you're unhappy and a downer. No one wants to hang out with someone who's gonna rui…
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:58 PM
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It's really not. It's consensual. Work on yourself if you're having problems. That or lower your standards
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah that's the unfortunate part of life. Some things are out of control. I'm not saying you shouldn't make a move. 90% of the time it's up to you. But I'm saying waiting CAN work
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:17 PM
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It works if they find you attractive
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:30 PM
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frfr, or some Sennheisers with a Schiit Stack.
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:42 PM
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Nah fuck that, don't offer if you can't actually pull through. Date someone who isn't broke lol
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:14 PM
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lmao what a high number imo is like 20+ in your twenties. I'm only 23 and im already on 7 lol. Seven is a low number
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:18 AM
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With most girls I like I'm pretty normal except when I'm not normal and give them attention. I don't spend every moment with someone I like trying to court them lmfao. If you're that into him, stop being weird and go talk to him.
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:22 AM
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Holiday inn
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:33 PM
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Ay I'm black, I've never had to tone it down with women. But here's the thing. I've been told I'm not "traditionally/stereotypically" black. I've been told by a black chick, you're one of those NTB(Non threatening black guys) never even heard of that term before her. Don't call all women I meet, baby, shawty, baby girls. Not saying all black people do, trynna give you an idea based on some bullshit sterotypes. I'm 6'3, 230, athletic, I work out and it shows, but my favorite fit to wear is a like…
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:38 PM
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🙏🏾
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:22 PM
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I get told I neg a lot , but honestly it's just natural to me. I don't have any ill intent, but I'll be like lmao what a loser in a playful way, or be like I bet you were a weird one growing up huh lol, if they told me they liked watching people get beheaded online lol. True story^ I do also give genuine compliments and tell people they are fun to hang out with? Idk I have almost no filter.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:17 PM
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Bruh read back what you just wrote? What? How is this not clear LMFAO. Stop second guessing yourself.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:05 PM
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Exactly, I took one look at this and was like yikes.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:14 PM
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'Cause she's toxic, and can't communicate her feelings. Move on. Trust me on this.
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:09 AM
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You're in the wrong sub. Try a dating app.
/r/seduction09/10/21 07:44 PM
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Dude got stood up and a text 6 hours later, and aloof is wrong of him? Naaahh, definitely not, engaging at all is the wrong move. I would've been hesitant, and after the two weeks thing, I would've been gone.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:12 AM
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Textbook games people play. Why would you want to date someone who makes things so complicated?
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:06 AM
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There's absolutely no reason to wait around for a person to change their mind about you. Why did they have that mindset in the first place?
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:04 AM
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Bruh, Im pretty sure you're telling yourself you're having fun. How are you having fun, putting way more effort into someone else than they are ever gonna put into you. Wym 'if I get rejected again' you already got rejected once, why are you even thinking about trying again. If you're having fun being her friend, go for it. If your having fun, orbiting a woman, that's pretty sad compared, when you could be having reciprocating fun with a girl who's actually interested in you. Whole situation sou…
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:03 AM
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Just look a little more assertive. Take up more space. You're a pretty boy, or at least have the vibes. Trust me man, I'm in the same boat. It's partly how I dress, partly how I carry myself. Im black 6'3 with peircings.
/r/seduction15/02/21 09:55 PM
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Not really. I feel like if he gets along with women well, he knows how to be around women?
/r/seduction12/02/21 05:55 AM
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Say whatever. Girls like sex too. Girls get horny too. Just don't make it all about you You need to get over that block.
/r/seduction12/02/21 05:54 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction06/02/21 09:48 PM
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I recommend therapy but if you want to change your ways, you should start slow small steps like making friends. I'm actually trying to work on my social skills, through texting do if you want to be texting buddies hit me up. I have snapchat and a phone number :)
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:30 PM
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So do I look good in a TShirt? http://imgur.com/gallery/0JJ7urp
/r/seduction29/10/20 05:04 PM
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I've never been a nice guy, but I've been trynna get my ex back for a while, who's been apparently fucking my friend. I introduced them to each other, they ended up liking each other or whatever, and it started after my friend and I parted ways, my ex and I had a complicated ass relationship which never really worked out, but I've been having a hard time letting it go. I found out a few days ago they've been fucking, and I succumbed today asking for closure, ended up in a huge fight with me look…
/r/seduction29/10/20 03:04 AM
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Yeah for sure, let me know 🤙
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:41 PM
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I literally hate you. How you just gonna downplay yourself like that before even trying. Where's your confidence mannn
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:34 PM
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Ay same, I'm 22, lemme know if you want meet up and hang out.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:44 PM
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You ever thought of recording these with like a voice recorder?
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:44 PM
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I feel like I notice that girls don't like me when I'm talking to them though. But I think that's in my head but I honestly don't know. They get all nervous around me and start shying away so I just back off.
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:46 PM
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Sounds good man let me know
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:19 PM
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Sounds like she wants to be serious and she's testing you to see if you're just in it for the sex. Since you said she's gorgeous she's probably really used to guys just trying to fuck her. Sex, isn't that high on her priority list. Just relax, and enjoy her time. Sex will come later if she's into you. Or at least, that's my take with very little information
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:21 AM
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I agree with this guy.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:09 AM
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Don't wait. Be friends. If it progresses, it progresses. But don't expect anything other than friends. Pursue other options.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:08 AM
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Follow on what?
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:05 AM
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She sounds like the cheating type lmfao
/r/seduction23/08/20 10:23 PM
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Sounds like you want someone who understands you, and your experiences. Id find someone with a similar "disability?" It'd be a lot easier to connect and form communication around that cause they go through the same things you do everyday. Or just someone with similar interests. If you're going to chase "like cold approaches" you're going to put a lot of people in a awkward position when you cant speak so you're going to have to communicate in some other form and that in itself is going to be dif…
/r/seduction22/08/20 02:26 PM
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How do you start conversations with people you find unattractive? It's the same thing, you just find them attractive so now you're worried about what they think of you, and it's making you self conscious and insecure. You should research how to stop caring about what others might think of me. You're honestly probably a pretty neat person and shouldn't be so self conscious.
/r/seduction16/08/20 11:47 PM
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This. Make a joke out of it, or lightly reassure her that you're loyal. I like "I mean I cheated on math class a lot 😅"
/r/seduction16/08/20 11:14 PM
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It's a simple as getting to know her, making her feel special with light little compliments. Show her that you like her personality. Then just make a move. like Charmin Ultrasoft; less is more. Since they're used to ZERO attention. A little goes a long way, and a lot overwhelms them. Now help me with this "aggressive game" lmao An elaboration from a women herself: "Hone in on this particular woman for a while if you are attracted. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the world for a while…
/r/seduction16/08/20 10:53 PM
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Sounds like you want to have control when it happens which is impossible
/r/seduction11/08/20 02:43 PM
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Damn, I hate how you're so right lol
/r/seduction10/08/20 08:20 PM
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Honestly dude, if you enjoy your time with her, and you want to fuck her, why not just date her lmao Once you start fucking everything, everything is there for a real relationship except commitment. Question your motives, figure out why you don't want to just be with her before you ruin a good friendship. You shouldn't fuck good friends unless you want to turn it into a relationship eventually Speaking from experience btw.
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:34 PM
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Just hang out with her one on one and make a move
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:28 PM
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Teasing comes naturally. Teasing is playful banter with someone you have established enough comfort with that they know your intentions are not ill. Teasing doesn't build attraction, confidence enough to not care what they think about you does. Don't tease until you get to know them tf. You should be supportive of them, and then playful when they slip up, then you tease. I agree with u/scumby_dumb
/r/seduction11/07/20 12:18 AM
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Honestly,I think it just depends on how attractive this person is, and if your mindset is similar. But, sounds like you simply care about this person. That's like natural? What you think just cause you're fuck buddiesz you won't care about another person's well bring? Hello?
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:35 AM
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I get what you're saying, but every female I've ever been FWB has always ended wanting more, and I think they ways wanted more from the start, but just went w/ the flow.
/r/seduction25/06/20 04:12 AM
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Express your emotions, state how you feel, but don't wear your heart on your sleeve.
/r/seduction22/06/20 09:18 PM
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Wait 48 hours before responding to that. Or just hit her up with something completely different, low pressure, and something she would actually like.
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:35 AM
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Stop talking to females to talk to them. Only talk to the ones that you find something interesting about them . Then actually try to get to know them and share interests.
/r/seduction07/06/20 09:21 PM
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It was never as harsh as pussy, been small things throughout my life, and just passing comments from friends that really made me stop and think. Mostly nbd until, a couple years back. I was stressing really hard about whether or not this person enjoyed my company, I felt like I was being annoying, and he was like "not tryna be mean, but why are you acting like a bitch?" Started working on myself, didn't really have a problem with my emotions. Felt good. Then, I had broken up with a gf of two yea…
/r/seduction04/06/20 05:07 PM
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Bruh, you're legit no help
/r/seduction04/06/20 04:42 AM
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"If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough." -Albert Einstein All you did was rephrase my question, into a statement. let someone who understands what their preaching comment.
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:03 PM
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Multiple girls I'm fucking have told me "I wouldn't want to date someone like you".
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:58 PM
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Got a girlfriend of 2 years and she wanted to marry me. Never even dated my best friend, but we had a complicated ass relationship for about 8 months, and now she hates me. This sub doesn't really teach anything about relationships or maintaining them. That's more of a department that revolves around experience, and knowing what you like, and compatibility
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:55 PM
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2nd part. Self Esteem. Can you expand?
/r/seduction30/04/20 10:57 PM
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More like cuff me and take me to jail bb
/r/seduction30/04/20 01:39 AM
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I cant, and I really cant imagine that going over well, unless theres already sexual tension that has been built up.
/r/seduction29/04/20 11:30 PM
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Very little context, but I'll make it as simple as this. Does she call you a selfless friend when you try and flirt, or is it out of nowhere? If its a random compliment, then yeah shes probably interested. Only a guess tho. I got a bunch of compliments from this girl who I adore when she was interested. Random little shit like "you should be famous" and shit like that Wanna know for sure? Shoot your shot fgt. Also why tf do my posts get Instadeletrd when I make a posts about a specific girl, but…
/r/seduction29/04/20 11:24 PM
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But now I can taste the roof of my mouth :(
/r/seduction29/04/20 11:20 PM
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Read the six pillars of self esteem. I started reading it, it's a good book, but yeah I 100% feel you on everything you posted. I feel like I'm not enough a lot, and I'm decently attractive. It is what it is man. Honestly, what I've done is trying not to think about whether I'm good enough or not. I just go for it, and see what happens. I get shot down at, and my self esteem plummets but then theres moments where I actually progress with someone or improve, and I feel good. And i think that help…
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:35 PM
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You want to convey that you find her attractive and are interested in her, but you dont know if she is worth your time. Pretty much what girls naturally do to a guy lol But honestly play it cool, until shes showing signs of interest, then you start building tension.
/r/seduction29/04/20 07:51 PM
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Honestly, let me ask you this? Are your guy friends "attractive" or actually attractive? I only really date girls I find really attractive, but I mess around with women I find "attractive". Also, if the chicks boring I wont really entertain dating her, matter of fact, I've dated a couple "attractive" women cause they were really fun. Is it the same for you? Also, most of the time when someone is an asshole, they're acting out of their self interest. If they really liked you, they wouldn't do thi…
/r/seduction29/04/20 06:12 PM
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Probably the clearest post I've seen on neediness. Kind of boils down to having expectations, and vocalizing them is good. Expecting change and bitching and moping when it doesnt happen, is needy. Being desperate, not being afraid to walk away. If your SO doesnt wanna change, forget them lol. Sucks but that's how it is.
/r/seduction29/04/20 06:02 PM
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Too aggressive. You sound like a prick. You can be assertive but dont be aggressive. You're sounding like shes yours and she isnt, shell drop your ass if you're a dick. "Hey, look, I like you, but idk why you're over assuming I was on a date. let me take you out some time later" But honestly, I like my reply better. You dont have to answer he questions if she. Rings it up, just ignore them and continue on with what you wanna say
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:09 PM
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Too true cause I'm come from one myself. Why you think I'm here?
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:06 PM
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You should've added "who said it was a date" after you said stop that. That wouldve been good imo. Now, you have to backtrack a little. I'd send, Nobody ever said it was a date, you're over here assuming things, but I'm free on "..." I'd love to take you out on one." Also, her "I'll let you know" might've been her trynna play it cool and not seem needy and her eyes you blew her off
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:17 PM
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Honestly, as you get to know them, just watch how they treat other people. Watch how they treat their family. That's how they're gonna treat you, when they're done trying to impress you. Once they get comfortable around you
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:07 PM
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Sounds like you guys are already dating lmao So what's the issue man? Same shit, dont overthink it Ho to hang out, try and make a move, shell probably be more open to it. Just know if you guys do sleep together in her mind, you're probably already dating.
/r/seduction22/04/20 10:19 PM
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She wants to hang out with you alone. What do you think man? At the very least shes interested in you and wants to get to know you better. The idk anything and I don't want anything, means she wants something. That's deflection without you even asking anything. Shes obviously hoping for something or has an idea in mind. Idk all the context, but sounds like you guys are just mutual friends and never hung out 1 on 1. Here's what you should do: If you go into this with the attitude of I'm trynna fu…
/r/seduction22/04/20 09:41 PM
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Solid response, thanks.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:00 PM
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It doesn't matter, cause it's not gonna change the outcome. Just go meet the chick. If you want to look better learn fashion and work out.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:06 PM
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"Tough and social". Who fucking likes tough and social? Be fun and social. Stop trying to appear things. Just enjoy yourself. You'll enjoy life, and people will enjoy you. Nobody likes anyone who comes off as above them.
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:19 PM
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You dont have to be. You dont have to copy their whole style. Or their whole outfit. Just take notes. It has to flow. I feel you though man. I'm just starting to learn fashion and that's one thing I've noticed. Ngl you dont look that bad, but they are tight asf. I'd say try and elongated tee with those. Maybe a denim jacket and a flashy watch
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:41 PM
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Bruh, it's all about continuity. If your gonna rock hella tight Jean's, you got to full go with either the rockstar look, or metrosexual. See what other guys with extremely tight pants are wearing and emulate.
/r/seduction10/04/20 05:17 AM
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You're 100% right, I just think I'm boring and can't offer a fun time. I know logically I'm not, I'm pretty great, but idk, I feel like I'm not interesting. I can't tell stories for shit. My humor is different than most, I didn't have much of a social life growing up cause of upbringing and parents and I feel like I'm laying for it now. I got along with men really easy too, I make "friends" easy, but after that it halts. I don't really get closer to anyone than just "oh yes a super cool guy" I d…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:30 PM
1

How's Fierce by Acrombie and Fitch?
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:35 AM
1

Everything I can, honestly, where do I start? If theres one place you should start, where would it be? I have my own future down, I'm talking personable, and attraction wise.
/r/seduction14/03/20 08:40 PM
2

What's your advice? Genuinely curious and willing to learn.
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:20 PM
2

Obviously you dont thi m you're fine so lift. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by lifting
/r/seduction12/03/20 08:35 PM
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lmao my guy, she's interested. Dont overthink it. Just do it. If it doesnt happen theres your answer. Ive learned people like you and me, we worry about whether or not shes interested. Honestly, at the end of the day, it doesnt mean shit if shes interested or not if you dont makes a move. So just make the move and you'll find out. And next time, if there is one, dont ask us, just ask her out worry about what time you can make available to hang out with her
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:29 PM
2

Why dont you just kiss him lmao A girl did that to me in highschool. Five years later I still smile about it lmao
/r/seduction27/02/20 06:02 PM
1

Just bring it up, stop being afraid to lose this chick. If you lost her, then find another one
/r/seduction11/02/20 03:28 AM
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Okay man. Sounds like you're insecure cause you think you're boring. You're afraid that shes gonna find out your boring.. Sit down lil faggot and listen to this. You're not boring. You're a completely different life, experience, and perspective than she is. Doesnt matter what you talk about, shes interested, cause shes interested in you. Send her something that you find the least bit amusing, shell be interested cause shes interested in you. Emotional connection? Ask her how shes feeling. Tell h…
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:47 PM
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You're wrong, read the sidebar. What you consider assholeish is a man with confidence and options who doesnt settle for less than he deserves.
/r/seduction03/02/20 01:34 AM
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This is the dumbest shit I ever had the misfortune to lay my eyes on. You want to learn to be an asshole, or you want to attract women? Pick one.
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:35 AM
1

Okay sure, but the concept of not trusting a man cause he led you on is universal
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:20 AM
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I wouldn't say it'd aimed a specific girl, although I can see how it is, I'm asking more of the general question, how do you pursue a girl who was once interested in you, but no longer believe you'll commit. Which I think a lot of newcomers would have a problem of.
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:42 PM
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This is beautifully written and completely shpuls be considered as one if the best writes of this sub
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:28 PM
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Same problem w/ me, but a word of advice. Just extend the reply. No thanks Turns into No thank you Turns into No, but I appreciate the invite.
/r/seduction15/01/20 12:41 AM
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Jesus Christ this sounds like advice from that guy in THAT video. I'm sure you mean try again on a different date?
/r/seduction04/01/20 09:23 PM
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Do both
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:11 AM
7

You really think everyone has a type that they adhere to and never get attracted to anything else?
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:55 PM
1

I dont just want sex with her, I want more. She thinks i just want sex.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:01 PM
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Okay can you be a bit more transparent with what you're trynna say and the advice you're trynna give? I'm actually in your situation right now. long time friend. Hooked up repeatedly. I caught feelings. Went the jealous lil bitch route. Constantly tried to hook up with her. Pushed her away. I pulled back. Apparently she caught feelings too? All she thinks is I want sex. She on guard pushing me away, but she still likes me. Idk how to go from here.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:10 AM
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You're literally saying " I dont know if giving him a sign or giving up w/out trying is the way to go" If you never ask, the answer is always a no. God Bless my friend.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:18 AM
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Bruh just talk to her. It's not impossible to like two guys at once.
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:40 PM
2

"I was looking for some glasses, but the only thing I really needed to see was you" Idk if this is a good opener but it's something i just thought of lol
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:34 AM
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Well, start showing basic signs of interest. Eye contact, touching, just go up and talk to him. If you go out of your way to simply talk to the guy, and just find any excuse to touch him it'll be obvious. Even of its awkward, it'll be obvious. That's all cutesy romantic shit tho. If you just want to fuck the guy, look him up and down and just give him a half smile. Then talk to him, and when you start the conversation, walk up from the side touch his arm or shoulder and just ask him how his day …
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:10 AM
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I'm pretty comfortable around most people, it's just that I can be an asshole without meaning too I can be pretty rude and insensitive and joke around and say mean things. It's just the first things that's come to mind unfortunately. I honestly hate that I'm not empathetic and sensitive. When it comes to hanging with people I'm pretty good, it's just I'm realizing I'm not sensitive and I can inadvertently hurt people. It's just how I've always been and I wanna change. I literally made this girl …
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:33 AM
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What if I'm a good looking narcissist who doesnt have a lot if experience taking social risks? I grew up below average looking and recently started to become pretty good looking. Also, dont like most people. Help me lol
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:08 AM
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She sounds like an emotional train wreck. Shes gonna hop from guy to guy until she figures herself out. Shes probably hurting and constantly wants emotional validation. Shes gonna take it where she can get it. Move on.
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:18 PM
2

Evernote? Nice.
/r/seduction02/11/19 05:09 AM
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Just talk to her like nothing happened Cause nothing did, you just slept together. If anything be a tiny bit more sensitive.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:33 AM
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Sounds like, you're not interested in them as people. As getting to know them. You're interested in sex w/ them. Which is only surface level getting to know someone. Its okay, I'm the same way, was the same way. You have to make an effort to talk to them. It's hard, its awkward, its gonna take time, just try to talk to them constantly. About anything. Ask questions. Listen to listen, not to respond. Take your time w/ responses through text. You'll slowly improve. I feel like this is mostly minds…
/r/seduction26/10/19 07:00 PM
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🐠🐠🐠
/r/seduction26/10/19 06:48 PM
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Well, as a man, it's not fuck me eyes. It's more of "what I want to do to you" eyes.
/r/seduction06/10/19 02:11 AM
1

Wanna shoot me a list?
/r/seduction06/10/19 02:11 AM
1

Ouch. How to not be this? I feel like I'm this.
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:46 PM
1

Oof is he me? Cause that sounds like me. From my perspective hes definitely attracted to you, but doesnt want to over commit cause over committing is needy and would you really want him constantly banging your line trynna talk to you? 1.) Flirting with the one girl you REALLY want to flirt w/ is a lot harder than flirting with girls that you're not really attracted too. It comes easier. 2.) Doesnt want to be over committing 3.) Hes keeping the same energy you've been giving. And he doesnt want t…
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:40 PM
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Yeah I'm struggling w/ this rn. I have other girls to talk too, but I dont want too. I've already hooked up w/ the chick I like and were good friends, but I want more, and shes pulling the "I dont wanna risk our friendship card" which is understandable because shes never had a stable relationship, but whether or not inwant too, i still genuinely like her
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:58 AM
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Man this comment honestly hit me hard. I used to have the mentality that men and women cant be friends, only acquaintances at best cause feelings will develop for one person and then it's just a one sided relationship and who wants to be friendzoned. I'm not sure really why I developed that way, just I think a lot of people I knew and talked too held this mindset, and I kind of just accepted it as truth. I also feel like a lot of television portrays this to be true. I recently got rejected by a …
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:01 PM
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Nah. Keep her guessing man. You want her to follow you when it comes to relationships, if you follow her lead, she has all the power and shes already wishy washy. She might never initiate, and really, its expected if a man to initiate. I dont like it, but that's how it is.
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:16 AM
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look honestly doesnt seems like she was interested before. She might be now If you have any classes with her, talk to her. Then ask her to get coffee or hangout sometime. No more texts. Do not text her. Just talk to her and if YOURE enjoying to talking to her, just be like "we should hangout more sometime. You wanna grab coffee?"
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:32 AM
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This is shit advice. In general women are more picky then men, look at dating apps. Secondly, having no shame in your game, is selling yourself short. If you're just fucking people you're not attracted too. You're just fucking yourself over. Put work in to attract the type of women you like.
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:25 AM
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You dont ask, just hang out with her and make a move. If you ask, you ask when the sexual tensions already there But no. Never go back to an ex, unless you're trynna work it out with her and actually date.
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:23 AM
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Fuck I'm 6'3, guess I'll never be able to break necks 😥 I think game and confidence matters a lot more than height.
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:59 AM
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I feel like this is Seduction summed up in one post. Or at least the most important part in attraction. Then everything after is simply how to progress once shes already into you man Thanks for the excellent post, I just got out of a relationship and forgot about all this. Appreciate it 👌,
/r/seduction09/09/19 10:48 PM
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I mean yeah. All that is on you man. No one can tell you how to live your life man. Take charge of yourself and go find shit you enjoy. If your QOL is shit, then that's priority before women. Trust me, I'm in the same boat. I've been working on it, and I've been happier than I was before
/r/seduction09/09/19 10:46 PM
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Yikes, ay well if he is really serious with this chick, and y'all already hooked up, well, you can do better than that Glad you talked it out though, no matter the outcome that was the right move imo
/r/seduction09/09/19 11:18 AM
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Ay good luck man 🤞
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:23 AM
2

You know that saying you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink. Well you have a thirsty ass horse man, you just gotta lead it to water. Just find an excuse to hang out with her alone, in a setting where things can progress. Then find some way to initiate. Kino
/r/seduction09/09/19 02:58 AM
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Sounds good, lemme know how it plays out.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:37 PM
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Watch this
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:28 AM
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Hahahahah no. It's funny cause I'm somewhat in the same situation, only she didnt want anything meaningful. I didnt at first but I realized I was open to something further after I thought she might have wanted something further too, and so I went after her like that, and now we dont have anything. Look what I'm saying is, if you want something, be upfront and straightfoward. The reason she stopped talking to me is cause I didnt know what she wanted and pressed her for an answer and pushed her aw…
/r/seduction05/09/19 12:27 AM
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You're honestly right man, Inhave always been super obsessed with trying to fuck women ever since I was little. I had a lot of sexual exploration with women when I was really young, like 10-12 ish and I always assumed it was that but after kind of self reflecting, I think it was more of the fact that I had always thought being able to.fuck a chick was proving to myself that I was attractive and cool enough to fuck these women you know. It also explains why I would get bored of relationships easi…
/r/seduction05/09/19 12:14 AM
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Hey man, never really been good at writing proper replies but I just wanted to say thanks for taking the time to.read my post and comment on it. Honestly, don't know what I was expecting, but I felt your answer gave me a little bit of insight. Feel like I just wanted to tell somebody lol. I will definitely check out Six Pillars, and probably look at Jordan Peterson. I really appreciate it man. I'm trynna start another journey to improve myself. I feel like that's the basis for seduction
/r/seduction05/09/19 12:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/czfonc/i_started_off_writing_this_for_a_purpose_and_i
/r/seduction04/09/19 03:54 AM
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Hey, I'm gonna be writing a post here soon asking for some general advice and my situation on who am I as a person. A lot of these key points resonated with me, and I was hoping youd take a look at it. Itll be on my post history if you wanna check it out for me.
/r/seduction04/09/19 02:11 AM
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Dont look at it in terms of alpha and beta. It's just, liking who you are and enjoying yourself while realizing your short comings vs anxiety, lack of confidence, and constantly feeling insecure. Just think hard about what you dont like yourself. Figure out if it's something you need to change or if it's something that isn't a bad thing per se, and you gotta embrace it. Then work on what youd like to change.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:14 PM
1

Without context, if that was a random text, that's a really awkward thing to recieve and or reply.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:57 AM
2

Seeing how you literally just used an ad hominem, you like hypocrisy too huh
/r/seduction11/07/19 06:39 PM
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You're saying no shit then disagreeing with what he just stated? What are you, retarded? You struggle with coherent thought?
/r/seduction11/07/19 06:38 PM
1

Nah seems like having shitty opinions and judging others is what you find fun.
/r/seduction11/07/19 06:31 PM
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No, not really. Youth is attractive. Maturity wise theres probably a huge age gap, but physically, 20 year olds are gonna be hot at any age assuming their in shape.
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:36 PM
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Okay, well, not trynna just repeat something everyone else said. It's easy as this. Put your hand on his arm, while you talk to him and ask if he wants to get coffee sometime. Dont be surprised if you got shot down. I would. 18year old female and 45 year old Male. His ass is gonna get fired if shit gets out around the workplace. Not trynna preach morality, just telling you what is likely gonna happen. And if hes smart, why hes gonna tell you he wants to keep it professional. I'n the eyes of your…
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:33 PM
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Unpopular Opinion, and I don't know y'alls relationship, but she mightve only mentioned that she wanted to fuck other people cause she was into you, and just trynna get your attention. She might want you romantically, and trynna let you know shes all game for you. Idk who knows though. Women are complicated.
/r/seduction26/12/18 04:55 AM
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Thanks big man.
/r/seduction21/12/18 07:26 PM
0

In a mirror, huh?
/r/seduction21/12/18 05:15 PM
2

"Pride cometh before the fall" is the actual quote lol.
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:21 AM
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He probably made a move and flirted a bit. Also, concerts are just easier to escalate into than a dating situation in my opinion. Instead of going on tinder and shit. Just go to events, and start from there.
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:40 PM
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I don't know tbh. Never been in an open relationship before. I guess not. So, probably should tell them
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:19 AM
1

Well, when I'm approaching women, I make it clear I'm not trying to be in a serious relationship. Just have a fun time, one night stand, fuckbuddies sort of thing. I'm straight off the bat. However, when doing so, should I still tell them I'm in an open relationship. I'm not really sure if that would follow up in what I'm looking for you know.
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:15 PM
1

So if you're ready. Let him know
/r/seduction08/09/18 08:51 PM
3

Nobody has a perfect body. Watch a dark movie. Keep the lights off if you want.
/r/seduction08/09/18 07:09 PM
6

Why. He wants to see you naked. He's been waiting for a year plus I bet lol
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:57 PM
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You've been with your boyfriend for a year. Stop caring about looking desperate. He's your boyfriend. If you want to take it slow, just start rubbing his inner thigh when making out.
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:45 PM
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or I've stopped myself getting close to them because I feel they won't be attracted to me once they find out about my legs. Well there's your problem dude.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:25 AM
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Why are you hanging out with a 17 year old man. You're 20. Maturity level is gonna be a huge factor, and if you're in the states. Just no. That's illegal. Also, you should've left the moment she said seemed disinterested. Realize that you're worth something, and your end goal isn't to be a part of a relationship.
/r/seduction21/01/18 04:35 AM
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I'm gonna need you to explain that last part please. Also, when she said that she was too old for me, I replied with, the longer you take to get over that, the older you're gonna get. She laughed was like haha fair point.
/r/seduction26/12/17 11:41 PM
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I text her Merry Christmas. She texts me,"You do remember me! Haha Merry Christmas 💕🎄" I responded with "lmfao, yeah, would be hard to forget about you" What you think? Wasn't trynna be too flirty. Think she has a bf. Also I had a manager I used to flirt with back in the day. We never ended up doing anything though cause she's 11 years older than me, and she said she didn't want to mess around with coworkers. She also tried to say that she's too old for me, but she used to snap me pictures of he…
/r/seduction26/12/17 10:06 PM
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The thing is. I can talk to people. Any day, any time. Older younger whatever. It comes easy to me. It's just when I'm sexually attracted to an older women, I just go blank and can't find anything to talk about. Idk why it is, it just happens. I'm trynna figure out why.
/r/seduction14/12/17 11:44 PM
1

I didnt even know it was removed. Wouldn't surprise me tbh, this sub has gone to shit.
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:52 AM
0

Same man, I too, am in a similar position
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:03 AM
1

You can always fuck around with a single mother. I got a good fuck buddy going on and she's one.
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:24 PM
1

That's a little rapey don't ya think? I would try to get some base while you're sober before you escalate further while you're both intoxicated. So you can confirm she was into you.
/r/seduction30/11/17 11:42 PM
1

Too true.
/r/seduction30/11/17 11:39 PM
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The text wasn't all that needy. It showed you're willing to communicate and a willingness to resolve things Check out my edit for the above comment
/r/seduction31/10/17 08:46 PM
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What'd the text say? She respond? Either way, forget her. You can do better. Edit: Oh read the edit... Sounds like, directly from what you've written, that she wanted to be pampered. As far as cooking goes anyway, that she wanted you to do all the cooking and her all the baking? That she wanted you to surprise her with dinner while she watched, you feed her bites of food to taste, and you talk throughout. Like typical Hallmark movie shit. Nothing is wrong with that if that's what you're both int…
/r/seduction31/10/17 08:23 PM
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Check out my comment dude, I'd love to hear your thoughts
/r/seduction31/10/17 08:22 PM
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I completely disagree with you. In no way at all did I ever get that vibe that he was entitled to her, using a punishment/reward system, and that he was forcing stuff onto her. Matter of fact it seem clear to me that he invited her over with the intention of cooking together. It seemed that she expected him to cook everything, and he took that as playful and teasing. He had already made out with her beforehand so im assuming sexual interest was already there on both parts. In this situation I th…
/r/seduction31/10/17 08:22 PM
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Nah, doesn't seem like shes high quality man. I wouldn't keep her around, if she just doesn't want to help cook lol. Such basic shit lmfao. I'd be pissed if someone wouldn't help with simple shit.
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:32 PM
6

What'd you reply to "I know I'm fine lol"?
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:29 PM
3

Honestly, my take on it is saying whatever you want with the intention of building attraction. If a girl ever asks you your height, I'd be like "I tell cutie girls, I'm 6 feet. So, I'm 6 ft haha"
/r/seduction18/10/17 10:39 PM
2

Damn man, What do you do for a living?
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 06:39 PM
1

As a black male. Race is irrelevant. As in the terms if it's honestly like this: Some people are gonna hate you 'cause of your race. At the small time, some people are gonna have a fetish for your race, and a very few are gonna secretly want to fuck your brains out, and at the same time call you a nigger behind your back. In the end it doesn't matter. Gel some confidence
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:59 AM
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Five years? Well, by age 21 I want to be able to dance. I'm black, and I can't dance. So that really fucks with me. I also want to be yoked as hell. Like 240 lbs with 10% body fat. I'm 6'3 and 200lbs right now. I expect myself to have started college although I have no idea how I'm gonna achieve that cause I'm working pretty much minimum wage and my parents are kicking me out in April, and I live in California which is expensive as fuck. I also only graduated high school with a 2.90 'cause my yo…
/r/seduction03/09/17 08:15 AM
1

There was, but idk if they're food has had a history of diseases, I'm definitely not trynna see if their females do.
/r/seduction03/09/17 08:04 AM
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My personal favorites are... "The longer you take to get over that, the older you get" "You're probably right. Bingo on a Saturday night is more your speed, huh?" "You know, I might just be into that." Have to use these with smug confidence
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:22 PM
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Sit next to her. If you don't have anything to do in your dorm, then just talk with her. Show her your interests. If you can't even do that just go for broke. Tell her she's got something in her hair. She'll know what's good. If she tries to get it herself, after a couple of times of her trying to get it, say you'll get it for her. Then gently touch her face and lean in. That's it really, but also really obvious and not smooth. If you can talk to her just joke around, and touch her. Kino. Start …
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:23 PM
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If you know someone well enough, of course it's fine to give them a little shit. But if you find that this "shit" involves something that puts them down in front of others, even in a "joking" way, then consider that it could become an addictive way to elevate yourself. I get what you're saying here, I never really thought about it that way 'cause growing up I and my peers had always joked around that way. Even my dad has always joked with me like that. Then again he's narcissistic so I can see h…
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:13 AM
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I appreciate the honesty, got any more information about situational joking? As far as running my mouth, it was more like she was flirting with me and I was making jokes to some people I considered close. It was just sexual innuendos about her, and I was seeking advice from them. I wasnt sure if she was actually flirting or not. I feel like I've always had a problem of running my mouth and I'm slowly working out that kink. As for the jokes it was along the lines of "she already has kids, what's …
/r/seduction22/08/17 01:56 AM
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I mean the confidence is a newfound thing. I used to be more reserved but I said fuck all that. I'm coming up on a year there, and I guess the confidence started in the last sixth months. On the same coin though, I got new people saying I'm cocky too. It's weird, 'cause I swear they all were attracted to me at one point. I got a couple of females who still are on me. I tease a lot too, maybe a little too much. Recently I've toned down, but whenever I tease I'm always making sure I throw in a com…
/r/seduction21/08/17 07:35 PM
1

Yeah, 'cause I have to work with them. And I've been trying to change my personality a lot ever since I started working here.
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:43 PM
1

Ranging from 18-24. A couple around 30.
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:43 PM
1

This. Tease her, then tease her sexually. Make her prove herself to you.
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:42 PM
1

Are you attractive? That's really the only question. After that, just show interest. If he's being shy, isolate him.
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:54 PM
1

Same man. I'm 19, I used to be intimated by this hot ass 30 year old who works with me. I could tell she was into me. Decided just to walk up to her and say hi, and proceed with whatever the fuck I want. She thought I was older. I snap her every now and then. We got a decent thing going.
/r/seduction09/08/17 12:16 AM
1

Hahahaha same thing happened to me about a week ago, only she was my manager, single and 11 years older than me. I'm 19. The caption said you busy? I jokingly said, I am, but I think I can make time for you." We flirted for a bit without setting up anything. Idk what happened but she lost all interest in me. Maybe I was just validation? Maybe I showed too much interest. My advice is not to bring it up until you flirt with her in person. Then jokingly bring it up and try to escalate.
/r/seduction02/08/17 05:37 PM
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Yeah, but I don't want to get her fired. I just was trying to use this as a learning experience so I don't fall for the same thing from a different bitch later in life and get used. I like the flirting too. I use her as practice
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:37 AM
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Man, on what I've learned there's no way to tell either way. You gotta just go for it and face the chance of rejection. Men hit on female's all the time. If she was not interested, she would've told you so and you could've finished watching the movie and known for sure. So, yes. Just next time take the chance.
/r/seduction22/07/17 01:45 PM
1

What are you trying to improve? You didn't make that clear
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:12 PM
1

Altoids.
/r/seduction19/07/17 01:18 PM
5

Same. Just follow the Kino ladder. It's gonna feel awkward at first, wrong even. You're gonna get rejected, and told off. Hell, my coworker bitched at me for touching her shoulder. Not everyone is gonna be into it. People are weird, fickle, and have deep insecurities. After a while though, it's gonna click and it's gonna come naturally. Best of luck man.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:35 PM
1

Alright. I'll try some of that. She complements me all the time, and we get along. We used to even flirt, hard. It's just a weird relationship cause she's my manager and 11 years older than me. I still wanna fuck though. Also man, don't worry. I'm romantically inept, not socially inept ;)
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:17 PM
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I was just trynna tease her. Maybe it was too harsh? She's pretty laid back and chill, so hopefully it didn't rub her the wrong way. I'm not tryna be her boyfriend though. Pretty sure she would be down to fuck. Any thoughts on how I should come at her? Or tips on negging her?
/r/seduction18/07/17 03:25 PM
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I texted a women this, after seeing a picture of her friends with haircuts on her snapchat story and it captioned "New Hair, Who dis?" I had texted her "Shut up lmfao, youre terrible." She had responded with, " Whhhhyyy? Whats terrible!?" I responded, " Nah, you need to stop with these terrible jokes ASAP...Rocky." She responded with "Hahaha that's my line." "You know you like it." I responded with," Hahaha you right. Youre a dork, but thats cute." she responded with,"💁". Would this be a good ex…
/r/seduction18/07/17 01:51 AM
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That's normal man. Some people just mess around like that. Or the sex is bad.
/r/seduction15/07/17 01:04 PM
1

Own it. Joke about it. Or spam her by liking all the pics
/r/seduction06/07/17 06:03 PM
2

Anyone have the comments from TwoX?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:02 AM
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Appreciate the post my friend. I have this older women at work who I'm fairly sure was trynna smash. I was trying to figure out how to talk to her with the end goal of banging her in the backseat of her car. I'm gonna apply this tomorrow.
/r/seduction04/07/17 03:52 AM
2

I definitely would. If I was of legal age to drink lmao
/r/seduction01/07/17 09:36 PM
2

It's pretty pathetic that you think that this is some sort of competition of self worth or some shit, to think that I would waste my time coming at you with all I've got? But I can tell you're already a pathetic overweight piece of shit. Nigga you're fat and you got issues. That's all I got cause thats all I know what's true about you. I'm not gonna waste time out of my day stalking some bitch so I can feel better about myself. Like you tried to do to me. I don't give a shit about you or what yo…
/r/seduction29/06/17 07:10 PM
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Alright honey, I think you're diving too deep here. It was out of pure curiosity. I don't need to explain myself to you but I'll indulge. I only did that cause due to genetics one eye is bigger than the other. That's a small thing That's it. You've ever been curious before? You ever wonder what you would look like if you didn't resemble a beached whale? I bet you have. You can't compare a one time thing vs several instances in the last day. Thats consistent reassurance. You're still a hypocritic…
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:52 PM
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lmao I wasn't shit talking your nudes. I came to see a thick girl. You're fat. Not thick. There's a difference. You're trying to pass off like you are. I've come to grips with my problems. Have you? The difference between you and me is realism, my girl. Besides the fact you post so much shit is a scream for validation. You're being a hypocritical bitch. Im not an asshole or unappealing. I'm just honest That's food for thought love.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:20 PM
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Yeah that's low-key what I was thinking too. I think I was simply reading too much into things. Thank God I didn't try to initiate shit Also I don't really like her per say. She's pretty chill and I enjoy hanging out with her. Just I wouldn't mind fucking her brains out.
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:59 PM
1

How do I flirt? I got girls eye fucking me I just don't know how to fucking flirt. Or escalate. Or fucking hug women. I was a socially awkward bitch in highschool.
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:00 PM
1

Okokok but does it look good on you? Man it's not about that. You still see ugly niggas getting girls everywhere. Shit, overweight men are still pulling bitches. It's not about that man. Work on your personality. Are you who you want to be. Do you have a zest for life? Do you walk with a swagger? Try some self-introspection. If you want pm me a pic of you.
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:00 PM
1

Get big. Keep lifting. Testosterone fills out your jaw line. It actually makes it wider. Work on your hairline then. Find a hairstyle that suits you. Most important part is make sure your lined up. Work on your personality more than you work on those gainz. Stop dating fat girls man. Avoid them. It's better to be single than to be dating someone less than you deserve. Also, always dress like you're gonna be meeting some HB10s. Source: 19 year old black guy that was struggling with the same shit.…
/r/seduction15/06/17 04:42 AM
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Bruh, I'm 6'3 and decently attractive. Height ain't shit I still can't pull women. It's about confidence and playing to your strengths. Find what works for you
/r/seduction13/05/17 04:21 PM
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True, can confirm. I'm 6'3 and black. Semi awkward and don't lay as much as my 5'7 Mexican coworker. It's probably like a 4:1 ratio
/r/seduction10/05/17 03:09 AM
8

Move on. That girl is fucking weird.
/r/seduction03/04/17 07:41 PM
2

Its quicker.
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:37 PM
1

Think you can coach me? I struggle with basic conversation, and game. I don't even know how to flirt. I can start a convo, but I can never keep one going even if I want too
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:17 PM
1

Bruh coach. Me. I will take this advice to heart.
/r/seduction09/12/16 04:24 AM
1

I am. I am bitter and angry. Or rather i was. Now im just kind of resentful. I hate the fact I was an awkward annoying bitch in highschool. I hate the fact im uncomfortable around women in like sexualy tense situations. I hate the fact i dont know how to flirt and cant escalate. My dad never taught me, and. Honestly hes not all that great with women. Dont getvme wrong though, I dont show this. At least I dont think so. Ive been told numerous times that Im "great". When i moved from a state a cou…
/r/seduction07/12/16 05:07 PM
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You know what. I was gonna cuss you out, but youre probably right :v
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:03 PM
0

I was against seeing it. Whole family saw it and i tagged along cause free movie. It was actually pretty great. I just wish they wouldve had an original idea though.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/16 08:54 AM
2

They weren't dating though. They were friends for six months.
/r/seduction31/03/16 01:17 PM
2

As a guy, I would love to be approached by a women who is interested. Without a doubt. Just go talk to him. If he locked eyes with you he probably is interested in you. A have a question for you. If you were at a party how would you feel about heeling approached and what would you expect said Guy to do to get you to chill with him.
/r/seduction19/02/16 03:10 AM
2

lol, that's cute. Thanks.
/r/seduction27/01/16 01:55 AM
7

Could you explain how you called her out on it? And how she reacted? Sort of like a play by play?
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:46 AM
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