A lot of guys who come to seduction have a mindset that is deteriorating for their emotional health.

They are seeing women and attraction as something to conquer. It's probably due to not being loved as a kid, past shitty relationship experiences, inexperience etc. Nothing wrong with that.

But the thing is that kind of attitude creates defense walls in your mind. That mindset stops you from being vulnerable and unless you show vulnerability the girl you want to be with won't fully trust you. There won't be any closer bond.

So see if you can find a way to be more of your authentic self without hiding something or faking anything. It's a lengthy process but the end result is more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.