She (23f) broke up with me (21m) a little over a year ago and I made a lot of mistakes in the past begging , pleading, etc. I’ve been in no contact for a while now after getting the “I’m not looking for a relationship and friendship is all I want to purse atm” speech. The other day she messages me after I’ve been silent about getting into dermatology school. So we’ve been catching up and we have a date set up for next Saturday. But I can see her being distant and her taking hours to reply etc but why do I keep feelings the urge to reach out when I don’t hear from her now? Why would she reach out if she is just gonna go back to being distant and one word replies ?

Updated I do like her and want to make things right but don’t want to mess this time up. We basically broke up because of being 3 hrs apart originally and me being way too needy. We’ve been texting for a couple days but she’s still distant so I’m just confused why she reached out. She’s agreed to get together next weekend after break but no specific day. Is it best to just let her keep initiating and reach out the day before to confirm I just want to be 100% this time around and not mess up anymore