So there’s this Instagram model I’ve been aquatinted with for a couple of years. Only minimal online interaction. Last couple of months we’ve been chatting via DM and a couple of private voice chats. She’s in Canada. I’m in the US. Interaction became very sexually charged and it progressed to us making plans to meet. I’m flying to Toronto on May 31st.

Under normal circumstances if I make a date I don’t talk to the girl at all until a day or two before the date to confirm. Do you think I should follow the same protocol here? Communication was about 4 days a week. Since setting my trip I’ve reduced communication to a couple days a week.

One half of me thinks this is ok. The other half says I should reduce to once a week. The last time we talked about my visit she was very excited and we have plans to map out activities for my trip.

Thoughts?