Lately I feel like i have a fundamental issue with connecting with girls on a deeper level. Why do I feel like this?

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Well, here's some background info on me. 25 years old, 5'9", decent shape (not jacked but also not fat), dress well enough , stay groomed. Compared to the average guy on the street I'd say im above average looking but look maybe 2 years younger than I actually am.

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So i've definitley struggled with self-esteem growing up due to being over weight and just a shitty upbringing but I feel like ive done a lot to overcome this. I've only had one serious relationship from 22 to 24. After me and my ex broke up I wanted to try something new and I sound seduction and this sub.

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So over the past 11 months i've made huge progress. I've slept with nine girls which is kinda insane seeing how i had only slept with two my whole life before this. I stick to online game and night game primarily. I've never day gamed, I just think it feels unnatural for me.

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Now to my issue. The reason I started seduction was to get laid and it's been fun but I honestly would prefer a relationship at this point. Recently, I found an absolutely wonderful girl. We started seeing each other, actually going on dates, etc. Things are going amazing and then boom, it's over. Her excuse was clearly a lie and that's fine I guess. My issue here is I don't think my looks are that much of a problem. I'm also not too awkward and im not creepy either. I just think I have issues forming an emotional connection that is actually shared, basically one of the most important factors to start a real relationship. I'm scared that if i don't overcome this ill be destined to just sleeping around and never achieve my ultimate goal of finding the right person.

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Has anyone else ever struggled with this? I'm considering therapy at this point because I truly want to get to the root of this issue.