Hey,

So I have recently started seeing a new girl, things have been going well, but there is something I am confused about during sex. Side note, she had a previous and only partner for 7 years before me (we are both 22), she isn’t inexperienced sexually but I think things were quite vanilla with her ex, unlike with me and mine.

Before I start, this girl has told me in multiple occasions she really enjoys sex with me, often initiates it etc and I would say is definitely more into it than me, I have asked her a few times and she is 100% happy with the things I do... and herein lies my confusion.

So she seems to be really into it when I go down on her, and I exhibit no problems doing so, however, the second I begin to insert a finger, she seems to begin to slowly but surely close her legs very tightly, I mean to the point where it hurts my hand lol, but doesn’t ever tell me to stop or act as if she wants me to stop?

Further, during actual sex, she does something similar, she puts up a LOT of resistance in her legs.

E.g. if we are doing missionary, she will really resist putting her legs up, you know, how a girl will usually have her knees up and towards her body? None of that, she will tightly hold them almost flat down and tends to tightly close them together as well.

As I said before, she does seems really into sex and me, but this seems really unusual to me, what could it be about?