It seems like every time i have a connection or someone seems interested in me, I get way too attached. I am charismatic enough to keep them interested and we always have a great time, but then after a few days something fishy always happens where they either flat out start ignoring me or they don’t seem interested.

I guess I’m needy but I don’t know how to change that, I have friends and I have great relationships with them, but when it’s a romantic relationship it never seems to last. And I always get sooo depressed after something goes wrong, even if it was like a 3 day relationship.

I know abundance would be the way out of this, but I already know that I am not gonna go out and do approaches, (for 2 reasons: I live on an island with not to many people on it so news spreads pretty much to everyone, and no one else I know is willing to do approaches .)