I'm an 18 year old girl. Ever since my first encounter with a guy I have been looking for validation from guys. It sometimes gets better, sometimes worse, but the need of a look, or comment from guys never goes away. This always gets worse when I'm out partying. If I get any type of validation from a guy, whether it's making out or a talk, anything where they show interest in me: I always feel good going home. But if that doesn't happen during a night out, I always feel so bad about myself and in need of validation. I have talked to girls in my age about this and everyone can relate to everything I say. How can I stop care so damn much about validation? Self love. I get that. And I have been loving myself so much more than before, but it just wont stop. Any advice?