Went out with my ex two days ago. Had a good time, we both enjoyed it. But I don't want anything serious. Only interested in fwb. It is very obvious we both want to fuck (her comments about orgasms, choking, etc.), but I suppose she is terribly afraid of being called a slut. We also fucked during and after our relationship but broke contact many times. So yesterday i wrote to her that i have a house for myself so she should come and visit. She said she had a lot to study (which is bullshit, since its friday), so i told her the house is empty for the next few days so she can come anytime and talk with my dogs (the last bit was a joke to release any possible tention that i was just asking to come so we can fuck). She said deal and then texted back and forth for a bit. Would it be okay to check on her asking about her studying progress and then in the following texts tell her to come so I can see how much she studied (obviously not meaning it)? Would that be pushy? I feel i have already given her too much power in the situation, so should i also mention a time restraint or something? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks:)