So, the only woman I’ve ever been with, our relationship was like one of two children, we acted immaturely and we were very immature and it was a bit toxic. And I’ve realised that I’m still in that state of mind where I’m a high schooler looking to date, even when I’m in uni, and I think that’s stopping me from succeeding with women.

These uni women want confident, adult men, not children. I’ve had women attracted to me initially but get turned off because I’m too innocent and friendly and not sexual at all, so they friendzone me or think I’m gay. Plus, the ones who are a bit immature and attracted to me aren’t that attractive to me, and I definitely did a lot better in high school than uni, plus I think they can sense I’m not that attracted to them, or they think I’m too much of a pussy to fuck them.

Also, I’ve found it hard to find women who have similar interests to me and are attractive compared to in high school, when there were a few women with similar interests and attractive that were attracted to me. Because of this, a lot of conversations with women go dead or way too political to make sexy. I really want to learn how to have fun, sexy conversations with women with lots of banter.

What do I do? How do I become the man uni women go after and want?

I’m in the UK btw