Just say stuff, and don't put a filter on what you say. Just don't be inappropriate. Say whatever comes to your mind first if you start filtering shit then you will start to get in your head. For example, yesterday, I asked a girl if she should follow me on Instagram. Just totally blurted it out and didn't give a shit. She said she didn't have one but she mentioned SnapChap and started to talk about it. That's big if a girl is suggesting that over Instagram. I forget to get it though cause we had a long conversation.

Tips

  1. No filter.
  2. Re-frame things so they are dominant/commanding.
  3. Calibrate after and don't calibrate before.
  4. Be funny.
  5. Talk about anything popular (Game Of Thrones).
  6. Give her random compliments and don't be afraid to interrupt what she's saying.
  7. Cut conversations and switch topics frequently.
  8. Show empathy
  9. Talk about your/her passions