1) A girl I've seen few times before was sitting and waiting for her swimming lesson. I sat near her and honestly, at first I didn't think I'll try to hit on her, so I went with something in-direct: "Hi, it's kinda weird we say "hello" to ourselves few times, yet we don't even know each other's names". She agreed and very soon introduced to each other. Then I went with something kinda lame "so, seems like you are keen to that swimming" (yea, I wasn't going at the beginning to follow LDM, so I didn't have any assumption ready). From that point we were talking about swimming, some faculties, then we went to her hobbies (serial killers), so I was able to pull a few jokes / spikes (like what such a wierdo is doing in such a respectable university). She was laughing, I ran some kino, for example once she told she's been sleeping last night, I grabbed her chin gently and told "let me see your face", so I could assume then "yea, seems like you have red eyes, something like a drug user", everything with a smile and low, slow voice. She had to go, but I took her another minute, I told that I find her attractive, talking to her is fun and we could hang out sometime. Then she said like "we can talk about that next time we see each other, I'm also from another city, so yea". I asked for her number, and let her go. At the end I kissed her on the cheek and just moved on.
What I could do better this time? Well, the conversation was kinda too friendly. She was looking at me with big, green eyes and we had that eye contact, I regret I didn't comment that. Her look was arousing. But I'm happy from that kino going, and at least I maintained my voice cool. I also forget the fact, that I after a hook point I can ask some questions (so I can do some "grounding").
2) A girl with white coat was walking up towards parking lot. I stopped her (wheel of fortune) and opened. I've changed a bit my opener. I'm beginning as usual "It's unusual to be talked by a stranger, but I just saw you from there (then I touch her shoulder and, using second hand, point the direction), but ...." (The rest is the same). She laughed and told "You're doing my day right now". She was carrying a smoothie, so I advised her (in a joking way) to not drink it for a while, so she won't spill it next time she laughs. And then I went with an assumption: "With that coat I imagine you more being on a north pole, around polar bears instead of such a mall". She laughed again, then told my imagination is crazy and she's kinda busy and wants to walk to the car. I followed her a bit and tried to vibe (he told she often feels cold). I told her about some weird people wearing shorts at november, when it's freezing, she agreed it's horrible, but I didn't went for high five, because she was a bit ahead of me. I stopped and said "Hey, look, seems like we're both busy and I don't want to look like weirdo following you", she walked to me, we were both standing again and I continued "so let's meet once we have more time". She agreed "okay, since you made my day I think you deserve it". I asked her for a number, gave a nickname. She told me she doesn't know my name. I introduced myself and when I took her hand, i held it for a longer time and told "I'm going to hold your hand longer, so it won't get cold". Then I told I'm going to give her a hug before she leaves, she went with it without any problem. I'm petting her hair a bit and the neck by the way. She told "It's nice coat I'm wearing, isn't it?" I agreed, touched her shoulder and then wished a good day.
Our interaction was short, thus I couldn't vibe well and she didn't ask any questions. Things could've gone differently if I had more time.
3) Girl in grey coat (coincidence?) waiting for her mcdonalds order. Again some giggling and smiles after my opening, I told "I noticed your coat. It may sound funny, but you look like a little sheep in that". The reaction was nice, and then I spiked a bit "..., but sheeps don't eat such a unhealthy food. My friend from biotechnology would shake his head a lot". Then she told she will have time to be more healthy (in a positive manner), because she was much younger than I thought. Then we challenged each other to guess the age. After that I told her, that we have our own stuff to do, gave her a hug and then leaved, since she was too young.
4) A girl wearing black trousers + black leather jacket. Made a wheel of fortune, opened as usual, but honestly I think my energy was kinda low. I could speak a bit louder, but the speed and tone was okay. Anyways, the girl was going to brush me off. I saw it, because her smile was faked and after that she just told she has a bf and started to walk away. Since that happened I just wished her a nice day and moved on.
I've recognized a mistake when stopping a girl. When wheeling, I don't stand directly in front of her - it makes killing her momentum more difficult. I've realized that after next approach (5th one), which was very short, because the girl told me, she has to "catch her tram", but there wasn't any tram coming ;) There's really nothing more to describe.
things I'll try to improve next time:
focus on delivering more comfort to decrease chances of flaking (insta dates will help)
work more on right stopping
remember that you can ask questions after hook point. this refers a bit to the 1st point.
As again, thanks for reading, I appreciate it!
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