I've been into this for a while but everytime I look at her options I feel extremely insecure. There'd be someone with a startup, some famous stand up comic messaging her, some dude who's a famous drummer commenting on her insta pics and her commenting back in fashion.

Idk why but I feel like she has much better options so why'd she chose me, even though I have a lot of people I can pursue too. Its a sad cycle I'm in. I'm in abundance too when it comes to options right now but none I feel will ever go out with me because they individually have better options.

How to not be scared of the other guys in her life