I fucked up and made out with a random. No one knows. 3yr LTR. I need some RP help.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-03-14T17:18:21+00:00

Nice troll post.

throwawayifuckedup33 · 2015-03-14T19:14:31+00:00

Don't tell her.

If that LTR is important to you, you need to stop putting yourself in compromising situations. Stop 'walking randoms home', especially after drinking.

swordfish1985 · 2015-03-14T17:34:40+00:00

Read the sidebar, make outs are like saying hi at night

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-03-14T17:42:01+00:00

Tell her or don't tell her. I think the better question is why you can't come to grips with the idea that you might be happier entertaining multiple plates rather than being with a 3 year LTR, and for some reason you're out drinking, having conversation with a "cool" girl rather than the "love of your life".

You're fucked either way. If you tell her, the relationship is done. If you don't tell her, then this fantasy of "me and my 3yr LTR that I don't want to lose, and I'm not losing her by not telling the truth" is basically some big facade, and reading your post you'll probably feel really guilty as you caress her cheek while giving her love kisses on the mouth. LOL.

Pick the way you want to be fucked, and commit to it. But the real answer is, is you shouldn't have put yourself in this position in the first place. And if you did, just admit that the moment you made out, you threw morals to the wayside. There is such a thing as "ignorance is bliss". Your decision should be based on whether you believe that or don't believe that.

[deleted] · 2015-03-14T19:20:05+00:00

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[deleted] · 2015-03-14T19:46:10+00:00

Don't worry about it, don't think about it. Remember - you're a man. We all make small mistakes. You kissed a girl, it's nothing. Just take it to the grave.

Listen, this was nothing.

Sepean · 2015-03-14T23:50:20+00:00

Never tell. Even mainstream couple's therapists say this.

Seriously, you feel evil for doing something that has not harmed anyone yet, and now you want to make that better by telling and hurting your gf, your LTR and yourself?

Never tell. It's a nobrainer.

oldredder · 2015-03-15T15:27:33+00:00

That's not fucking up.

Act like it never happened. Never admit it.

What's stupid is you feel wrong about this. A man's place in this world is to get more pussy and everything else he wants, not to commit to a lock-down of only one.

If it's truly your instinct to be with only 1 at a time - I'm like that - fine, just don't make any LTR. Ever. You move on to each one when you feel like it.

[deleted] · 2015-03-14T19:01:39+00:00

You fucked up, own up to it. If you break up you get what you deserved. You broke an agreement, and if you loved her so much you wouldn't have done it.

Keeping this from her will likely lead to shame and resentment, and eventually collapse the relationship whether you tell her now or not.

Spare this girl and yourself a lot of trouble by being a man and coming clean.

Title	I fucked up and made out with a random. No one knows. 3yr LTR. I need some RP help.
Author	throwawayifuckedup33
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 14, 2015 5:08 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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