I texted her on snapchat her last tuesday to say congrats on graduating high school as i also graduated from my university & asked if i could call her on the phone. She said yes & she was busy at work this whole week til 9pm but definetely after 9. I told her id call her wednesday night and she agreed! I called on Wednesday and she didnt pick up twice lol. So i said fine fuck it & i had 2 other girls who wanted to talk to me that night anyways so i did call them. Those 2 girls i talked to that night on the phone did pick up the phone and when i asked for dates they agreed but were not sure about when since they both work busy schedules. They seemed really genuine about it. Or it could be me fooling myself. Now i did this for about 45 minutes with these 2 girls then suddenly the chick i really wanted to talk to texted me on snapchat. She said she was hold up at work and would call me when she got home in 20 min. And sure enough she did and sounded a bit tired from work but had the same reciporcation i gave to the convo. I chatted for 15 min and asked her out and she said shed like to but not this week since shes super busy with her 2 jobs and had to wake up at like 5am every morning. I took it with a grail of salt and said "Okay reach out if you figure out your free time if not just some other time" and left it at that. I didnt feel all that bad cause mainly she wasnt afraid to reach out to me to say her free days before. That morning at 5am on her snapchat she posted on her story a tired selfie of her with the words "Work! Work! Work!" That same night she sent me selfie video of her basically caressing her body and face smiling in a sexual way lol. The text said "Hot and bothered". ill admit she was very pretty and all i did was send her a heart eyes emoji.

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My problem is this...what now.... i dont know what to do and how to get her to respond to me for her to tell me her free days. I think she likes me but im a little lost? And i dont want to seem needy and overtext her which i never do! I went on two dates with this girl before and she was SUPER into me: she would ask to hold my hand, she would ask me to kiss her on stop lights, she would ask if we could spend some more time talking before i dropped her at her house, and she even talked about having sex on the second date & how i would feel about it! With all these thjngs i reciporacated the same feelings and non chillant vibe

& in tune with my masculine core and flowed her same energy. We did not have sex tho.i am going to not text her and wait. I will try however your techniques reddit on the other 2 girls and see which one works lol

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TLDR; girl sends me flirty sexy selfie videos but wont tell me exact days shes free. She sends out so many hints but im still not going out with her even after a few FANTASTIC dates weve had.