I'm 23 and this girl i was seeing was 19 and still in high school. We met on bumble. We went on 2 dates that we both agreed were great (her words not mine). Then, apparently 3 weeks ago she texted one morning that we shouldn't see each other until she graduates. She texted exactly " You're so funny lol Also i would be okay going out with you again! bc you are a great person and all. However i found out that dating you bc you are a substitute teacher and i am a still a student you can get jail time and i could get expelled. I don't want to lose out on graduation since i am so close to it. But i wouldn't mind doing something after." i just explained to her in a text that I'm not a substitute teacher, I'm just teacher shadowing (teaching assistant). And I said to reach out if she changes her mind or we'll just stick to seeing each other when she graduates like she wanted. She didn't respond my text. So I just left it at that. Either way I think we're still both excited to see each other. She then suddenly sent me pretty lifeguard swimsuit selfie videos on snap chat 2 weeks ago! HUMINA HUMINA! Oddly enough I didn't respond to her selfie video she sent me cause it didn't have any text words to her selfie video.

My question is this....shes graduating this week. (Oooo and so am i with my bachelor's lol). Should i wait a little bit to text her to congratulate her and then ask her out over the phone :3 ?

What do i say exactly? "Hi you sorta ghosted me until you sent me selfie videos so then i just ghosted you?" lol

Will she still be excited to see me?

Was it all just a lie to get me to back off? i mean she was the one who was extremely into me during the first two dates when I was with her. I NEVER EVER over texted her and kept convo VERY minimal at texts when we were "dating". Never acted clingy and just kept within my masculine core! We always made out and kept very touchy in dates.

WHAT DO I DO REDDIT HELP ME!!!

Thanks :3