I’ve been doing game actively for a couple years now and have been enjoying some success recently. However, I seem to be running into some consistent problems.

At this point, I seem to have no problems pulling or exchanging numbers. In fact, it’s a rare night when I don’t pull.

However, I often encounter huge amounts of LMR at the end, or being shut down, even with the girl coming to my bed, being sexual on me. But when I go to the final point of escalation, I get a solid no, or disinterest, or a lot of times the excuse “I’m tired”. I’ve tried getting through this, or waiting, but often it doesn’t work. I’m having a hard time, because I know the girls wants sex, eg. in my bed, but I can’t seem to make her not feel slutty about it.

Also, I have a hard time getting girls on dates. They will respond to me every time, but will stop responding or flake right after we settle on plans.

I often get explanations from girls later on such as, “I was intimidated by you” or “Why would you like a girl like me” and “I can’t believe I just came with you to your place”.

I think I understand I’m making girls feel slutty, just not sure how to get around this sticking point and I am looking for help.

I am a pretty good-looking guy, and financially successful, but I wonder if this is somehow hurting my game, or causing incongruence.

Maybe I just need more experience. Anyway, I appreciate any help.