How do I up my text game?

bustanutmeow · 2015-03-20T11:03:37+00:00

Only text to set meetup places and times. You miss to much in the interaction to be able to read/adjust what you do on the fly. Also, If you are struggling with the bimbos, you really dont have frame, or your SMV is to low. Considering you validated your (smart) conversations, my money is on poor frame and low confidence.

Red-Zen · 2015-03-20T18:22:16+00:00

Only text for logistics.

cmiovino · 2015-03-20T12:43:25+00:00

The biggest hints I can give are these:

1.) Text like you screw around on Facebook with short messages, comments, and idiotness. That's how texting should be done, not long, complex, romantic conversations.

2.) Avoid using 'lol', 'haha', smiling faces, winking, etc... that's for the girl to be doing. Make your messages fun, but you don't need to label them like it. Some smiling faces are ok occasionally if needed to convey the message successfully with sarcasm or something, but very very few and far between.

3.) You should only be initiating contact about 1/4 of the time. Period. No more. She should be doing the test. So for every 3 times she hits you up, you can hit her up.

Specifically to your situation, texting should be used to setup a 'date' or meetup ASAP. Don't beat around the bush too much. After that, it can be effectively used to keep her guessing and wanting you throughout the week before dates. Just bare in mind it's not exactly meant to be building a whole 'friendship' through little silly messages. Spike attraction and get her in person.

Limekill · 2015-03-20T13:59:55+00:00

Double the time taken to reply - e.g. if she texts 10mins after your text, take 20min to reply. The only reason why I mentioned it was that it worked for me quite well recently.

oldredder · 2015-03-22T08:33:30+00:00

texting is for logistics

there is no winning text-game except the 2-3 messages from "let's meet up at ___ " / "let's fuck" to "be there at ___"

Title	How do I up my text game?
Author	TannousMarc
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	March 20, 2015 9:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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