Hey y'all, I'll just jump right in: So you start talking to some random girl, a bit of flirting and all that- keeping the conversation light. Then you see her again, again making some jokes and all and then invite her to your appointment for coffee or to drink coffee on campus (whatever makes more sense for the situation). Thank you completely ignore anything sexual or romantic about her. Treat her like your little sister, like she has zero sexual attractiveness. Now she is confused. Now it happend to me twice that the girl just came up to me all of the sudden at a party and started making out with me. Sounds weird but IDK, works for me 🤷 I think the secret is that these women are like "WTF, am I not hot enough for him to fuck me? I'm used to everyone wanting to fuck me. I need his validation"