After finding this sub and lurking around for a couple of months i think i just had my first big win
Been applying certain aspects ive read here like eye contact, vocal and the being present for the past couple of weeks, felt better with myself in general but life seemed the same.
BUT THEN,
Was doing my laundry in the local laundromat when a cute(id say 6/10) comes in and smiles at me(ive gotten pretty ripped so that is happening here and there) take my headphones out and we chat for a min, shes asks me to babysit her laundry and leaves.
I was overthinking my moves to when she returns and at some point i just said fkit and went back to my video,
She returns, greets me and i smile but dont jump immidiately, wait a few minutes and go to my laundry
I open again and chat with here, and it felt to me like she was more open the second time( so much theory ive read here actually happening!), Lss she told me she was looking for a new apartment and asked if i knew anything, i took her number so to let her know if i find something.
More info
Shes 28, new to the country(9 months), came here alone
Need suggestions for the text/timing of it.
Was thinking in a couple of days
"Hey its blah, didint find anything but can still offer you a drink at blah"
Tldr,
Chatted to a girl at the laundrymat, took number not for a date but did drop hint about it and she showed a little interest.
Ps
Ill only say that all the theory is great, learned alot, but most important for me was getting in shape and learning to be present biggest "hacks" by far
Peace homies and keep on going strong :)
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