so i went out on friday and normally how i would do it would be i go up to someone or some group of girls and id try to dance with them. these attempts werent always succesful but they worked enough. id get about 3-7 girls dancing with me at any givent time at the 2 clubs i frequented.

but what i did on friday fucking broke me and what i thought was my limit. 17 girls i danced with and all because i just i just didnt ask, i just went up behind them when they were dancing and they would go with it.

you would think its counterintuitive but the 2 times i tried to ask someone to dance with me(like going up to someone and just trying to mimic them dancing and then putting my hands out to ask) i got turned down. i am in literal awe of how batshit easy it was.

a good thing to consider is that the club i went to, that style of getting people to dance with you like that is more common and accepted, so theres that. i really do hesitate to actually try that anywhere else that isn't like the club i went to tbh