Hey,

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I recently started dating again. Had a few dates. Usually goes well. But I do not feel any connection.

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I'm not sure if I ask too normal or boring questions and do not create any kind of attraction. At least every first date has been 4 hours in average.

I feel like I always have to think about what to say and my mind goes blank. I have trouble focusing and listening to the other person. Probably because I have a slight anxiety when dating. But it usually fades.

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I used to write down interesting open-ended questions on my mobile if things get too stiff. But not sure if this is the right way?

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I want it to be as natural as possible. But then I' m also an introvert. Any advice?