How to night game if you don't like partying?

SpinPlates · 2019-07-05T23:08:07+00:00

You have to come to terms with who you are and who you want to be.

If you're a legitimate introvert that is miserable in a club or bar environment you'll never force yourself to be comfortable. It's like saying I could work on my basketball skills really really hard and I could be good enough to beat Lebron 1 on 1. Even though I'm a 6'1 white boy that can't jump or shoot.

It could be all in your head or you could just not have "the appetite" as I call it. No one here can transform your life via text. You have to get out there and figure out if you're mentally blocking yourself or you really can't handle the social stimulation.

My only advice is to become a "yes" man. Say yes to every invitation you get from friends or colleagues. Go outside and put yourself out of your comfort zone.

Do not go to really intimate coffee shops or cafes and think you can "vibe" with a girl in a low key environment. That is WAY harder to do than in a club environment because you are the main form of sensory stimulation in a coffee shop conversation. It can be overwhelming when you realize there are no other outside things to help the conversation along like music, dancing, alcohol and social commentary.

lesntoomy · 2019-07-06T01:57:13+00:00

I hate clubs too. Screw clubs and bars.... Get into daygame its awesome for introverts. You get lots of rejections bit when you hit paydirt it's awesome and totally worth it.

planisking · 2019-07-05T19:52:15+00:00

I mean sometimes you gotta push yourself to grow

sultan_neil · 2019-07-05T19:53:05+00:00

Join a youth club, people are less wild there

Title	How to night game if you don't like partying?
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Date	July 5, 2019 7:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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