Is it weird that I don’t want to make new friends or date until I have a job/stable source of income?

2019-07-06T07:22:06+00:00

I don't think so. I'm about to move to a different city and I want a gf but I want to wait until I'm there with a job so I know I can support myself before I start spending time and money on someone else

2019-07-06T07:39:58+00:00

No it's not. But it shouldn't stop you. Once you have a 'stable life', the friends who liked you before are the most precious.

DelayedMagIsip · 2019-07-06T15:56:07+00:00

Same story for me bro. I've been stuck playing games and staying at home. It's really hard to make a connection when you don't have something to share about yourself but unemployment and depression lol

getyourlifeplease · 2019-07-06T12:18:46+00:00

As a woman .I respect you for making this decision. At a certain age men and women start wanting to date/pair off/have a relationship - but just having thag desire does not mean they are 'ready'. Good for you on being self aware.

Title	Is it weird that I don’t want to make new friends or date until I have a job/stable source of income?
Author	playadxb
Upvotes	11
Comments	4
Date	July 6, 2019 7:13 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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