This may be a controversial topic- but I want to ask just to see the comments on both sides.

How does one (usually a husband) remain a cool, desirable man- still somewhat of a challenge while married-so his wife or partner will want him sexually more often or give him more attention? I see so many men bending over backwards for their wives and getting very little respect in return.

Like does being more attractive end after age, marriage, and kids?

I’m not intending this to be anything other than the starting point for conversation.