Just wanted to know if I had a chance before I fucked up

knightgod1177 · 2019-07-15T09:52:28+00:00

I’d say that you had pretty good odds before she started dating that guy. I think your chances were shot pretty badly after you told her explicitly to stop snapping you. And honestly, you should’ve pushed your guys’ interactions forward from snapping. I mean, what would you like with this girl? A relationship? If so, you gotta do more than text and snap. Should’ve hung out, gotten to know her better, and did the whole dating thing. At this point now, Id say you’re better off going to college, and not worrying about her too much. If you wanna be friends with her, go for it.

But after cutting your guys streak, you signaled to her that you don’t want her as a friend, and a relationship is friendship + sex (more or less). So, what you signaled is that you want her for sex. Therefore, now she doesn’t really want you. Would you blame her? Some things you could have done would have been to try and hang out/talk outside the classroom, maybe get to know her deeper as a person? How well did you know her?

I became salty after finding out she was dating, and I cut the 100+ day streak we had because either way we didn’t really talk in person anymore and she didn’t start convos over sna

Yeah, OP she absolutely picked up on that salt. It sounds to me like you were infatuated with this girl, and that you never really did much to escalate your guys’ relationship. And for gods sake, who wants to have a convo over snap?? Let alone text! Idle convo is an instant turn off for women, believe me I’ve done it all too much. Lastly, it’s always a better idea to stay friends with girls even if they’re in a relationship! It may seem weird to you, but it shows you are interested in her for more than her looks, and that you value her friendship.

Title	Just wanted to know if I had a chance before I fucked up
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	July 15, 2019 2:22 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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