Had this awesome sex life. 4 times a day on a good day. She would cum like a banshee, and would suck me off to get me back up and keep shit going.

Now she comes by and cuddles.

She used to come by drop her drawers and be in lingere.

Now when she wears her sexy lingere for date night she falls asleep by 2300

The sex has gone from "fuck me on your balcony and cum in my mouth"
To missionary with a body shot and "get me a towel"

Where did the insatiable whore I was dating go? What might have changed in my personality that changed her level of attraction?

UPDATE::

I got a text "want to meet up for lunch" I said my place. Brought her back pinned her against the wall and started pulling her clothes off.
had a good lunch. Almost didnt have time to make two turkey sandwhiches for us to take back to our jobs to eat.

I think it was just a shitty week, and based on past relationships I am pretty receptive to when sex is transactional or not. I appreciate all your replies I will keep my dread game going by being less available working out and making myself happy.

I will also just be more direct about what I want in sex.