I've seen a lot of discussion distinguishing beta chores from alpha chores. Here's one example:

Beta chores:

She is a SAHM and there is no reason that we should have a cleaning lady every other week, that I should vacuum about once /month (we have a dog, she sheds), that I should clip our kids' nails, and empty the dishwasher in the morning half the time.

Alpha chores:

So my plan is to slowly and gradually remove myself from these beta chores, focus on my outside ones like tending to trees and lawn, chainsawing shit and chopping wood- I love that part.

http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/30t0k2/he_who_thrives_asks_his_wife/

Sounds like there are some chores this guy likes and some he likes less and would prefer not to do.

I keep my home as clean as a dojo. Always have. Every night, I sweep the kitchen, wipe down all the surfaces, take the trash out, cycle the dishes, etc. I was trained that after activity is over, all hands join in and make the dojo spotless.

Sometimes lower belts would duck out early and not put in their fair share of work. There was no admonishment, no emotional guilt-tripping, no direct order for them to stay. The reward was in the work, in purifying the environment in which we trained. It was up to each individual to decide if he/she wanted to be a part of that reward.

If be the change you want to see in the world is valid, we have to lead by example in performing action to align our environment with our internal needs. I need a clean environment, therefore I clean it. I don't give a shit if its vacuuming, dusting, doing dishes or sweeping the porch. If it needs doing, it gets done. If she wants to help, great. If not, she's not getting any play until I'm done. Something feels odd about ordering, "clean my sloughed skins cells off of the floor, woman."

Is this nice guy conditioning acting up? Am I truly missing out on one of the perks of TRP life?