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[–]mandoa_sky 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (37 children) | Copy Link
chances are you've got a 1/1000000 shot at succeeding if she's already got lots of followers.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (36 children) | Copy Link
Ok. What if you met her irl, messed it up by not adding her on fb..can you fix it by adding her on ig?
[–]mandoa_sky 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link
if she remembers who you are, i don't see why not.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link
Well, I forgot to add on fb then kept would send her requests and deleting them..however, it looks like she never even saw them..I then tried sent her a dm on ig..no response.
[–]mandoa_sky 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link
sounds like she's forgotten who you are.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link
Next option?
[–]mandoa_sky 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link
try to meet more ladies
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link
Man, idek where...
Could she be anything at this point..I really just like her.
[–]mandoa_sky 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link
depends how you met her before.
[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 6 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
I do some volunteer work sometimes. She was a volunteer receptionist for a thing I was applying for. When I left, she spelled out her last name twice for me to find her....
My biggest issue is I'm 38 and she is a college sophomore
[–]AggregateFundingRisk 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
shes not the one man
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t send requests and delete them. It conveys neediness and is unattractive and probably put her off. Learn from it, move on to other girls
[–]MellowGuru 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yess I actually succeed at this quite often. I would suggest replying to her stories in a funny way. If she doesnt know you already, she will after a while. Your goal is for her to check out your profile, and you better have a dope af profile!
From there, judging from her replies, you can start a convo. When you guys click, its easy enough to arramge a meet-up.
Goodluck!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My ig sucks..I normally just have nature pics now since I work a lot
[–]MellowGuru 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It matters less if she already knows you. But your profile is like your business card for who you are. You don't need photos in expensive places or anything extravagant, but just show you! Show your vest qualities, whatever they may be. This will attract the girls that value those qualities.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I only talked to her for like 5 mins..she had a bf then I'm finding out now
[–]ManyCountry 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good post, been wondering the same thing
[–]diff4ever 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is no how, simply do or do not
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]rahulbhatia1313 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oooooh, that's smooth. lol
[–]WIA20XX -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guys that cold call successfully on Instagram have a lot of followers and a great image based on their Instagram. Everything of his might be fake picture wise, but most of her pics are face tuned and her life is curated.
It's like the opposite of real recognizes real.
That's the foundation.
The next hard part is figuring out how to get her attention. You are probably going after girls with more than 5-10,000 followers. Comments on the pics rarely work. Comments on stories or tagging sometimes works.
Now that she is alerted to your presence, she'll maybe read what you have to say, but usually she'll look at your page instead. Is your page cool? Cool in a way that women like, not what men like.
For the most part, a regular dude going after an Instagram Thot, this is mission impossible. It's easier to get famous in your night life scene than it is get Instagram famous.
1) You can always try to scam a chick - photographer, model scout. Set up a website and actually get some legit modeling pictures. Then you can approach dumb chicks that want to be stars.
2) The Dubai dudes just write checks though. If the chick is Eastern European, or from Florida , Vegas or, Cali - and her travel pics are from the Middle East not Italy or Paris, she found a sponsor.
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